Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Hari ng Unggoy]

Walang guarantees in life mga bro. Statistically ilan na bang mag asawa ang naghihiwalay diyan dahil sa third parties? Hindi to dahil thera ang babae. Relationships either prosper or crumble. A thera or mpa girlfriend is also prone to those challenges, though probably much riskier due to their nature of work. Be objective and remember that sila din hirap sila mag expect from GM's because anytime they can be dumped just like that. Pag nabuntis sila, at iniwanan thats the end of their career. So also risky for them in a sense both career wise and emotionally.

[Searching web]

be careful trusting anybody..

[Irwinchua85]

STD? What type? You mean, you have it? Did you get it from a therapist or someone else? if my logic serves my brain right, it will be far too convenient to blame it on Therapists. Like, how often do you get yourself checked? But how does the statistics fare that you can get STDs from ESpas versus your office, (assume you have a reputable nloffice that cares about your sexual health) or any shanty you go to just to get your dick sink into a pussy? Now, would those numbers be conclusive? Of course, you can make your claims. This is just an online forum. Your level of logic will tell, though; proportional to how much bigotry you possibly possess.

 

Boss ndi ako naghahanap ng away ng comment lng. Std oral or kht hawakan etits m ng infected na tao mahahawa ka. Tnung mo sa doctor. Un ang trbho nila. Ndi sa minamaliiit ntn pero alamin dn ung risk.

Risk na pwd m ipasa sa ibng babae kung just incase ndi kau magkatuluyan.

 

Ndi ako nag alam alaman sinasabi ko lng dito ung another risk na pwd m makuha. AMEN

[demunlawin]

Why not kung single ka

[delln5010]

 

Gusto ko ito.

 

Girls should all definitely f&*k for a living- may direksyon ang buhay! Panalo! Can't go wrong with the worlds oldest profession! You missed your true calling dapat guidance counselor ka sa all girls school1 accolades left and right for you!

 

Sa akin lang kasi, just like other GMs na nag-advice eh huwag na lang. And I am really papajacking your asses with a big dose of reality. Kasi anyone of the GMs who wants this relationship OUGHT to know exactly what dapak your accepting and its a lot of whapak.

I think you're completely missing my point when I said: [GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR FREE vs GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR A LIVING, sino kaya ang mas may direksyon sa buhay?]

 

Or maybe because I failed to explain it further (sorry for that). Now let me elaborate.

 

What I'm trying to compare here are the:

A. GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR FREE

 

- Eto yung mga babae na kung makipag-sex kung kani-kaninong lalake na nagmumukang PASSION na nila sa buhay ang gawin yun.

- Sige sabihin na nating pinipili nila yung mga makaka-sex nila, but still the act of having sex with anyone (with certain restrictions nga lang kasi choosy yung babae - GUSTO POGI) just because you like it doesn't AUTOMATICALLY make her better than therapists.

- Some of these girls tend to be happy-go-lucky dahil SECURE naman sila sa mga buhay nila eh. Ano nga naman ba ang mawawala kung gagawin nila yun, diba?

 

B. GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR A LIVING

 

- Eto yung mga babae na nakikipag-sex sa kani-kaninong lalake dahil kelangan nilang mabuhay. I can't blame them if during that turning point ng buhay nila eh yun ang napili nilang pasukin. Some just didn't know any better way to earn a living AT THAT POINT.

- It is a FORM OF NECCESSITY for MOST of them.

 

SITUATION:

 

Girl A f#&ks a random stranger (which she probably chose) because she likes it. What does she earn after that? Ego boost?

 

Girl B f#&ks a random stranger (which she didn't choose) because she needed money to for her family - food, expenses, etc. What does she earn after that? Decreased dignity as a woman and literally MONEY. Pero yung pera na yun may patutunguhan - mapupunta para sa pamilya niya.

 

 

Although hindi naman ako bulag sa mga cases na yung therapists eh nalululong sa mga bisyo. But mind you, your SO-CALLED NORMAL girl might be indulged into deeper vices than therapists. I'm just explaining the better side of them, because I chose to see the better side of them.

 

Ang pinaka-punto ko lang naman kasi talaga dito is:

 

PLEASE NAMAN KUNG i-MOCK NAMAN KASI NATIN YUNG MGA THERA PARANG NAPAKALINIS NATIN MGA TAO EH, MAMATAY NA ANG NAGSABING WALA SIYA NAGAWANG KASALANAN HABANG NABUBUHAY SIYA. OO, SHORTCOMINGS NILA YAN, BUT THAT DOESN'T MAKE THEM EVIL, THAT DOESN'T MAKE THEM LESS HUMANE - THAT'S HOW I SEE IT.

 

#goodvibeslang

[JoshuaJacob]

Everybody deserves to be loved and be in-love. However when it comes w/ sex workers, as long there are no money involve or you be a milking cow, it's reasonable to be in-love as long as its mutual. But this type of love is fleeting hence it will not last long. As there are people (or customers) who has more cash than we have therefore you cannot blame the girl will break you at a point in time. So as a golden rule if you want to love somebody & a love that will be a permanent one, be in love w/ a girl who is not working in this type of profession. I can say this based from many years of experience by myself and with other friends.

[nuru_seeker]

No saint without a past, no sinner without a future.

Basta ready kayo sa complications at wala kayng nasasaktang ibang tao, go for it

[raziel1337]

be ready dun sa awkward moments na makasalubong nyo past customer nya X_X and what if close friend mo yun or worse a family member

[raziel1337]

I think you're completely missing my point when I said: [GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR FREE vs GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR A LIVING, sino kaya ang mas may direksyon sa buhay?]

 

Or maybe because I failed to explain it further (sorry for that). Now let me elaborate.

 

What I'm trying to compare here are the:

A. GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR FREE

 

- Eto yung mga babae na kung makipag-sex kung kani-kaninong lalake na nagmumukang PASSION na nila sa buhay ang gawin yun.

- Sige sabihin na nating pinipili nila yung mga makaka-sex nila, but still the act of having sex with anyone (with certain restrictions nga lang kasi choosy yung babae - GUSTO POGI) just because you like it doesn't AUTOMATICALLY make her better than therapists.

- Some of these girls tend to be happy-go-lucky dahil SECURE naman sila sa mga buhay nila eh. Ano nga naman ba ang mawawala kung gagawin nila yun, diba?

 

B. GIRLS WHO f#&k FOR A LIVING

 

- Eto yung mga babae na nakikipag-sex sa kani-kaninong lalake dahil kelangan nilang mabuhay. I can't blame them if during that turning point ng buhay nila eh yun ang napili nilang pasukin. Some just didn't know any better way to earn a living AT THAT POINT.

- It is a FORM OF NECCESSITY for MOST of them.

 

SITUATION:

 

Girl A f#&ks a random stranger (which she probably chose) because she likes it. What does she earn after that? Ego boost?

 

Girl B f#&ks a random stranger (which she didn't choose) because she needed money to for her family - food, expenses, etc. What does she earn after that? Decreased dignity as a woman and literally MONEY. Pero yung pera na yun may patutunguhan - mapupunta para sa pamilya niya.

 

 

Although hindi naman ako bulag sa mga cases na yung therapists eh nalululong sa mga bisyo. But mind you, your SO-CALLED NORMAL girl might be indulged into deeper vices than therapists. I'm just explaining the better side of them, because I chose to see the better side of them.

 

Ang pinaka-punto ko lang naman kasi talaga dito is:

 

PLEASE NAMAN KUNG i-MOCK NAMAN KASI NATIN YUNG MGA THERA PARANG NAPAKALINIS NATIN MGA TAO EH, MAMATAY NA ANG NAGSABING WALA SIYA NAGAWANG KASALANAN HABANG NABUBUHAY SIYA. OO, SHORTCOMINGS NILA YAN, BUT THAT DOESN'T MAKE THEM EVIL, THAT DOESN'T MAKE THEM LESS HUMANE - THAT'S HOW I SEE IT.

 

#goodvibeslang

 

naalala ko bigla yun Kris Aquino vs Maria Ozawa issue sa FB dati

[Boxeo]

A few pages in this thread I thought the thera whom I really liked was sincere. Oh well, like some of the previous GMs before me I was played as well. LOL!

 

Im not heartbroken or anything, it was actually a fun ride.

 

Not that im bragging or anything but I am now officially a member of players who got played. What an experience! 😅😅😅

[trebor.rosale]

in my POV having an affair with a Thera is quite something (stupid, amazing, etc etc)

but its up to the 2 parties on what to do with it, its their life by the way.. if its really true love then do your best to get her out of her job and look forward to the future..

 

its your's to loss and its your's to win. everybody has a future and if kaya mong bigyan ang isang thera which you love a different future rather than continue working as a thera then go for it.

Edited February 26, 2016 by trebor.rosale

[Spades]

 

Ho Hum, that's right you can apply it sa nanay mo, sa sister mo, sa anak mo, sa pinsan mo, sa lola mo kasi mga whores and sluts sila. Iba kasi yung kinarir at iba yung naging naughty girl. Iba ang 50 sa tatlong taon sa 1000 sa isa. Yeah, its quantities, but there's also the attitudinal shift. Yeah, that's right if you choose to be a thing then you are a thing. Dude, those are social mores, don't act like you live in a little fish bowl vacuum- that says a lot about you.

 

Oo na mahal kung mahal, mind you most of that is just chemicals and sh*t in your brain, but really should you really get into this kind of thing? Sa akin PSA lang ito.

 

I am just contextualizing it kasi ayaw ng iba.

 

Let's face the brutal truth- I get "your" girl, I pay her off to let me do every despicable thing you can imagine I can, and she cums hard from it (because after all its just biology at the end of the day), you are still okay with that? Being cuckolded?

Or maybe you secretly enjoy that? Okay, it takes all kinds- you wanna do that then cool, but lets make it graphic lets not pretend that the squelching moaning animal sounds aren't going on. And at that point is she thinking of you? While she has my roger up her wazoo, you think she thinks to herself "oh he loves me so much, we're going to run off to happy rainbow land" when she's getting plowed into the matress clutching the sheets, that fine sweaty sheen on her back betraying the orgasm she's having.

 

Ikaw na talaga!

 

Kinarir o naughty girl.... parehas lang yan.... both are women na deserve to be loved... whether you like one over the other is personal preference na yan.... I like apples you like oranges.... about naman sa dami nang partners naman... I don't think na problema na nang girl yun... what was was... what is is..... rather problema nang lalaki yun.... you take the good, the bad and the ugly.... you accept the whole package.... kung nde mo kaya overcome yung personal insecurities mo don't go into it.... move on..... no one is forcing you... pero preaching na dahil nde mo kaya... na wala na makakagawa is plain wrong.... never dismiss the possibility... some people are more accepting than others...

 

Last time ko pumunta nang school.... wala pa naman ako naririnig na nagsasabi na "When I grow up, I want to be a sex worker" usually yung typical na sagot pa din... doctor, nurse, teacher etc... so I would like to believe na they are in this position dahil sa circumstances... sa mga kilala ko they have learned to distance the emotion sa trabaho nila... madalas na makikita mo ay yung mga game faces nila... just like other people meron din silang mga shortcomings... at meron din silang qualities to be praised... kaya sa aking fishbowl... nde necessary na black and white lahat... most of the time gray ang tunay na buhay.... hindi lahat nang nasa ganitong profession ay epitome na nang kasamaan... at yung mga nagbabanal-banalan ay tunay na banal... madalas pa nga baligtad eto... people just want to stereotype people dahil mas madali gawin yun at d na kailangan mag isip.... go for a broader scope sa buhay... lahat nang tao ay unique...

 

So are we into bragging for services now... para lang yang pumunta ka sa paborito kong barbero.... tapos sabihin mo sa akin... "Pinuntahan ko yung paborito mong barbero... at alam mo ginawa namin.... nagpagupit ako... at nde lang yun ang ginawa namin.... shinampoo pa nya ako.... with matching scalp massage... tapos me extra pang pedicure habang me hot oil.... at alam mo ginawa nya nung pauwi na ako.... sabi nya sir balik ka...." sabay kaway... Of course, nag bayad ka for a service... you get something in return.... pero doesn't mean nakuha mo na yung pagkatao nya..... now seriously... If I was serious with someone in this profession.... wala naman magagawa sa present situation dahil yun ang current status nya.... pero in the near future.... I would try to get her out of the situation... nde dahil maraming sumasabay... dahil I want her to be happy and out of a toxic situation... again... If you can handle the situation.... move on.... this is not for you...

 

For someone that dismisses love as a chemical reactions in the brain... you sure put sex in high regard.... which is just friction plus chemical reactions in the brain.... sex is not only the foundation for relationships.... If it is your only foundation then prepare for a really hard time.... there is more to life than just sex....

[antongorodetsky]

i shared my story here some years ago. the thera is already out of the industry, but even gawin at ibigay mo na ang lahat ginagago pa din ako. nandoon na mag pa opera ka ng kapatid, mag palibing ng kamag anak, mag bayad ng bahay at kuryente at kung anu ano pa.

she know's that im married, but she insisted na we had an affair. sabi ko lets just be friends with benifts pero ayaw mahal daw nya ako. i know i was been played. ang masakit eh yung emotional part na you gave her the benifit of the doubt. well thats life kailangan lang matuto.

to all GM's na gusto subukan, ang payo ko lang dapat kaya nyo sikmurain lahat ng kasinungalan at panlilinlang. on my experience lang the girl dosen't know the word gratitude.

[kaulayaw]

pick your poison or do not pick at all... basta walng sisihan sa huli

[Gits]

i shared my story here some years ago. the thera is already out of the industry, but even gawin at ibigay mo na ang lahat ginagago pa din ako. nandoon na mag pa opera ka ng kapatid, mag palibing ng kamag anak, mag bayad ng bahay at kuryente at kung anu ano pa.

she know's that im married, but she insisted na we had an affair. sabi ko lets just be friends with benifts pero ayaw mahal daw nya ako. i know i was been played. ang masakit eh yung emotional part na you gave her the benifit of the doubt. well thats life kailangan lang matuto.

to all GM's na gusto subukan, ang payo ko lang dapat kaya nyo sikmurain lahat ng kasinungalan at panlilinlang. on my experience lang the girl dosen't know the word gratitude.

 

i knew a thera like this it's not exactly the same as you mentioned but there were some similarities and she is out of the industry as well.