Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[sprikitikkk]

ayos!

[Piaggio]

I know 2 theras that studied culinary and became chef to go back as theras

That's why you have to find out first if the thera has enough ambition, drive and willingness to sacrifice a little to attain a dream. It also goes without saying that you have to help out a little financially until she completes her studies and shift career.

[openminded]

i see nothing wrong falling for a Thera... others fall to a star dancer or even PSP

[walkingdildo]

Let's face it. Security is the number one that is very important in this kind of relationship. Hindi dahil mukha silang pera o pera pera na lang lagi pero isipin natin ang sitwasyon nila. Many of them are in this industry because they are brave and responsible enough na sustentuhan ang pamilya nila na hindi kasadalasan nagagawa ng magulang o nag palaki sa kanila so they are taking the risk. Hindi rin naman lahat ganito. Some women just only want to have easy money. Don't be fooled! Makikita mo naman sa kilos, kwento at pananalita nila who are the geniuine and who are not.

[rrr]

Yes possible naman. but. If nkita ko naman na im no good for him I will tell him to stop na. Kasi honestly. I have nothing to give na. Im considering him as my inspiration. Gusto ko maging ganun din ako sa kanya. If makita kong nagiging hindrance ako or whatsoever. I will push him away. Im not planning to bring anyone sa misery na naranasan ko. Im not heartless. Maybe marami lang din ako natutunan. Thera-client may chance na yes. But sakin. Sa situation ko ngayon.. alam ko malaki yung chance na makasakit ako.. I cant pa. I just cant. He makes me feel so special. But thats not enough. Because of him mas naging eager akong makaalis. But if because of me. Maging miserable sia. Its better na we separate ways.

Thanks for replying to my post. Looks like you care for him. Both of you are lucky, at least you have each other diba. Someone cares for you and it also seems you do as well. Nakakatuwa na meron nag care satin.... its a blissful feeling.

 

Medyo masakit for both if your leaving this industry na but I hope both of you will be ok. But I dont think maging miserable kayo both sad lang siguro. Relationships have its happy times and sad times but that's what makes it worth it. Its worth everything kasi both of you did care for each other by just reading your posts.

 

I envy you kasi you have each other. Kahit parang medyo mahirap yung situation. Just have fun na lang with him or up until you move on. Enjoy na lang kayo....

[Crowley]

Kinda skeptical about this. After all isn't it about business? But if it's possible, will or can the therapist leave the industry?

 

There's a saying don't mix business with personal matters because it won't end well, it just leads to damaged relationships, poor business decisions, or both.

 

But.. And I will say it again, but.. if both parties are willing to compromise, then by all means continue.

[sagit_88]

yes why not? ako nga minsan na fafall na eh.. hahaha ang sweet kasi nila lahat.. i know its part of their business but who cares?

[happycore]

for me its a No because the past will haunt you. and it will make your life miserable.

[Windsor]

The past life of a thera shoudn't make your life miserable as long as you've learned how to accept it.

 

In any relationship, don't look into her/his past so both can move forward. You can know her past but once you know it then don't open it up again. If you keep opening the past then both your lives will be miserable and will end in a break up.

 

I've made that mistake and I kept wishing I shoudn't have opened, compared or even find answers from the past. Eh di sana ok pa rin kami ngayon. I've paid the price and I'm still paying for it everyday. But I'm getting better everyday as well.

Edited January 27, 2016 by Coolets16

[Gits]

Ok na walang #Forever (sana). Basta magka #FreshStart.

 

Thanks for your kind thoughts

 

Daan lang sa thread

 

Fresh start to a woman/lady outside the industry is better.

 

still i wish goodluck sa mga in love sa mga therapists.

Edited January 27, 2016 by Gits

[elmojo]

if you are free, and both are serious, wny not? Preo sabi nga ng isa sa atin dito, not an easy path to trek. Too much complications and decisions not everyone is willing to commit to. Talo ang bumitaw ika nga. Pero kung hindi, malamang may bright side din.

[pabebe_egg]

Last tine i told myself iwan ang puso sa labas dalhin lang ang utak.... eh kaso lang hinatid ko pauwi ayun nakita nnaman ng puso ko ito nnmn ba ako kelan ba ako matututo at mahal ko pa din siya kung sabagay sabi lang niya sakin maghintay lang daw ako baka isang araw magulat ako sa sasabihin niya sakin....

[Gits]

 

Last tine i told myself iwan ang puso sa labas dalhin lang ang utak.... eh kaso lang hinatid ko pauwi ayun nakita nnaman ng puso ko ito nnmn ba ako kelan ba ako matututo at mahal ko pa din siya kung sabagay sabi lang niya sakin maghintay lang daw ako baka isang araw magulat ako sa sasabihin niya sakin....

better not to expect to the answer that you wanted to hear. always put in mind that chances are not that high. remember there are other ladies out there you can meet too. just saying

Edited January 31, 2016 by Gits

[hyuna_thedancingthera]

Ang daming inlove

[dibdba]

One advise for GMs is to never go to a spa when you're lonely. You can visit when you're horny, or bored, or in a celebratory mood, but never when you're lonely. Being lonely means being vulnerable. And being vulnerable makes it easier for you to fall in love.