Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[transcience]

possible. it happened to me.

[black_night]

it's a basic instinct we all possess. sometimes it is repressed..unconsciously coz of a more intense feeling.

sometimes natatabunan ng mas importanteng pinagkakaabalahan. but its there. and it comes back..

[lordraven12]

pwede naman yun ah, ako minahal ko gf ko hindi dahil gusto ko sya ikama, mahal ko lang sya talaga, tignan mo, asawa ko na ngayon...

[petejam]

It possible. But at a later stage, it may lead to physical attraction. This kind of relationship is stronger and has a better foundation than a relationship that started with just physical attraction.

[Grimace]

Old people applies on this category, i'd puke for another geezer focking story!..i guess when you get used to having sex in the beforeness of serious relationship..you tend to fall out of it..then friendship then celibacy then....oh yeah...no sex...and of course aftergiving birth...

[Chi-Chi]

 

I can't imaging falling in love and then not wanting to express it in a

 

physical way. That would be an impossible mission!!

 

[xeanxyza]

SEX is part of the relationship...

un sa 10 myhts nga ni dr. Phil says sex is a Time out..

doesn't really mean it was because of sex that made you love the person, but i think it'll make you love them more...

[diver_703]

posible ito talaga... madami naman pwede mahalin na hindi need ang sex... pagmamahal mo sa mga kamaganak mo... sa hobby mo... sa trabaho mo... dami... pero kung sa significant other mo, aba eh mahirap yan.

[denimhead]

... uhm .. this is not right .. just not right .. its like being in a buffet but you cant eat it....

[Yama]

There are three factors that exist in having a relationship:

 

Passion - physical chemistry

Intimacy - emotional connection

Commitment - sense of "duty"

 

All of these three can have varying degrees in a relationship. And it seems that we are talking here about a relationship with only intimacy and commitment, that of kinda like our lolos and lolas. I could understand this kind of companionship, coz I know they can look back at 13 moments of their passion (yup, I have plenty of a bunch of uncles and aunts).

 

But I assume that most of us are young and sexually active (this is MTC after all!), and underneath the concept of dating is our perfectly natural instinct to procreate with an ideal mate we find attractive; we cant fall in love with someone unless we are really attracted to them. And the sense of procreating with that ideal mate results in our horniness.

[Candice]

just respect your gf decision

wag ka alala bibigay din yan

you just need to be patient

[spongebobby]

baka sa iba kasi siya nagpaparaos. delikado ito. baka pag nagkatuluyan sila, ilagay lang niya sa iskaparate iyong asawa niya.

[iwalkalone]

Let's be frank .........There is no such thing as "falling in love but not getting horny" .

 

I agree...but having sex with someone you feel for doesn't always have to follow.

[Mirage_hankvoyager]

When I fall in love, its my heart that beats first and not my organ ...However, sexual urge comes spontaneously..

[badgurl06]

this is possible, even the wildest beast can be tamed hehe

 

 

i agre! :cool:

[freezeburn]

They say that when you're in love, the heart beats much faster, pumping more blood to the whole body...that goes with the genitals right? I rest my case. :evil: :heart: :hypocritesmiley:

[Joie]

Id say that love and lust go hand in hand.

 

Love starts with attraction, which is a purely chemical reaction. Feelings come after you have gotten to know the person.

[spongebobby]

am reminded of the song: all i want to do is make love to you...by heart. in the song, professes her love for one man, but she needs to get laid badly. she loves the man, but she has her needs. so what gives?

 

at the same time, am reminded of the guy who stays in a marriage with a paralized woman, where sex is impossible. i think he gets horny, but he can probably just control his urges, or gets his fix elsewhere.

 

my point is, noone can fall in love without getting horny. it is simply contrary to human nature. you will need to get your fix, from that partner or another. or you can resort to chastity, which as they say, is the worst perversion of all.

[-=ladies_choice=-]

para sakin d mu mapaghihiwalay ang love and sex.. without sex ders no love ryt? :evil: :evil: :evil:

 

isipin nyu panu ba magtagal ang isang relationship? db sex.... if walang sex nagpupunta ng club para dun maglabas..... :mtc:

[jhun29]

when you fall in love, you just want to be with the person

 

no SEX in mind....the purpose is to make the person you Love happy (not that kind of happiness) :evil:

 

By the way, you don't call it SEX, you call it love making.

[denizgonzalez]

yan ung exact na nafeel ko sa girl na love ko ngyn.. super hot sya and cute pero ang hirap iexplain kung bkt d ako sexualy aroused sknya, gs2 ko lng tlga syang ihug parati tyaka lambingin

[iwalkalone]

parang imposible ata....

[Mobius Stripper]

Ultimately, when two people are truly in love, they get married & have kids. How can they have kids unles mag-sex sila?

[denizgonzalez]

@mobius Stripper

 

ibang usapan nmn un.. ang ibig nming sbihin e un bang kpg titingnan mo ung girl e walang kahalong libog ung tingin mo sknya, un bang gs2 mo lng mgspend ng mgandang araw kasama sya

 

pero kpg kyong dalawa nlng sa kama at ngging hot ang halikan, syempre ibang usapan na un ^^;

[Mobius Stripper]

@mobius Stripper

 

ibang usapan nmn un.. ang ibig nming sbihin e un bang kpg titingnan mo ung girl e walang kahalong libog ung tingin mo sknya, un bang gs2 mo lng mgspend ng mgandang araw kasama sya

 

pero kpg kyong dalawa nlng sa kama at ngging hot ang halikan, syempre ibang usapan na un ^^;

 

P're, some ladies are really masterpieces of art. I like works of Da Vinci, Van Gogh & Rembrandt but hell, I don't feel like having sex with them. Pwede naman ganun with women e.

 

Pero kung mapalagay ang tao sa compromising position tulad ng sabi mo, ibang usapan na talaga yan. So kung mapalagay sa compromising situation na yun, me intention na talaga. Mahirap sabihin for "both parties" dahil sa nangyari sa Subic Case. Para bang panahon ng Cold War: Deterrence is the Best Defense.