Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[jrsdc2000]

it is possible, if you really love the girl not for her looks or you want her in bed, you love her because she makes you happy every time you are with her. and if you really respect her, then it is possible. but lets face it we are men and we are tempted,but if she says no and you respect her you wont force it anymore. and i know a friend with a two year relationship they didnt do it, and the girl is still a virgin up to now.

i absolutely agree!!!

 

if you really love the girl...and respect her...of course one would be tempted...but hey!!you'll won't do it if she doesn't like it!!

 

thats the magic of love over flesh!!

 

whats with my words??IT ALREADY HAPPENED TO ME!!!konting push n lng pasok n...then she says no...not yet...EE DI WAG!!!SUS!!pag-ibig nga naman!!

 

 

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i was once left alone with someone ... we're actually good friends, and i kinda liked him... without malice, he spent the night with me to k*ll time.. and then he felt like sleeping..... slept hugging each other... there was the occasional kissing but more than that, no more... we might just be scared of the repercussions after, yes... but it's just so comforting to know that there are still some guys like him who think with their heads up there. kaya naman kasing pigilin kung gugustuhin eh.

[chabacano]

not sure about this one. maybe out of respect or something, it's ok siguro at first. but eventually if one doesn't get sexually aroused by the other, there could be something wrong.

 

if one doesn't or can't turn the other on sexually, then there's the probability that the relationship is sedate, unexciting. if even viagra won't help, it's doomed.

[swallow]

i haven't really experienced loving someone and not get to thinkin' i want to jump into bed with him..

 

or that if i do wanna be physical with someone doesn't necessarily mean i love him..

 

but falling in love and not getting horny...hmm..i'd say this LOVE is SACRED! :hypocritesmiley:

[Lipstick]

this is a guy-question.

 

but girls are welcomed to contribute.

 

being in love, but not having desires of the flesh, for the woman in your heart.

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Oh dear, is this possible at all? I could lust for a man and NOT be in love with him BUT for the life of me I couldn't be in love with someone and not lust for him!

 

Sex between people in love takes on a deeper meaning and rises above just the physical nature of it. In a loving relationship, sex is an affirmation of your love & passion for your partner and your life together. Nothing could be more beautiful than that.

[RX8]

Love is there but Lust isn't.

[sha79]

yes...pwede. if it is pure love..and respect.

 

but...getting horny is human nature.hndi mo nmn planado f u feel that ur getting horny..it would just came. specially,if ur at opposite arms...db?in-love ka man or hndi s person..if u feel it, then thats it.

[revi]

Hmmm.. Nice question?

 

I have already experienced loving someone but not feeling horny at all.. I was very young at that time.. But I later learned that this is love through respect, and veneration.. para bang masyado mong respetado yung girl to the point that you idolize her.. para bang you venerate saints or God's image.. and for me this isn't love that leads to marriage.. para kang in-love with God and the saints, etc.

 

For me, when you love someone (opposite sex) there should a sexual attraction.. nagagandahan ka sa kaniya.. sexy siya.. mabait.. masarap kausap.. and there should be a tinge of horniness.. kasi its part of being in love with someone from the opposite sex.. sex with love ay sobrang sarap.. that's why we call it making love.. not making lust.. but lust is part of the game.. love and lust should go side by side for a healthy relationship.. :hypocritesmiley:

 

Venerating is also love.. but loving with lust is also love.. veneration is not meant for marriage.. the end product of lust and love is marriage.. not all the time but most of the time.. I have experienced both.. veneration and lust with love.. pati nga lust lang eh :evil: (but that's another story..)

[astig_supah_ganda]

aha! according to my situation. . .

 

sa ngayon lam kong ksma n tlga sa relasyon ang 's*x' but 4 me.. s*x?? huh??

 

yan ang laging dahilan kung bakit lagi akong BIGO..

ganun nba tlga ang mga lalaki?? kung walang s*x hndi ka mamahalin.. iiwan ka kapag hndi naka-score sau..

 

i kip on tellin' na hndi lng tlga cla para sa'kin..(ano pa nga ba?)

 

i still search & 'en convince myself na meron guy na not more on s*x..

[revi]

aha! according to my situation. . .

 

sa ngayon lam kong ksma n tlga sa relasyon ang 's*x' but 4 me.. s*x?? huh??

 

yan ang laging dahilan kung bakit lagi akong BIGO..

ganun nba tlga ang mga lalaki?? kung walang s*x hndi ka mamahalin.. iiwan ka kapag hndi naka-score sau..

 

i kip on tellin' na hndi lng tlga cla para sa'kin..(ano pa nga ba?)

 

i still search & 'en convince myself na meron guy na not more on s*x..

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Well, hindi naman dapat na kapag hindi naka-score iiwan ka na.. I had a GF that I did not have sex and we had a good relationship for around 5 years.. heavy petting lang.. never asked her to sleep with me.. masarap lang kasama and I find her pretty plus the fact that I loved her.. the reason for us breaking up is because alam kong hindi mag-wo-work relationship namin because of her disgust sa parents ko.. not because no popoy ako.. Me, its not just sex if I fall in love.. its part of it.. but not the most important part.. sa marriage naman that's another story.. coz sex is really a big part of marriage.. atsaka if you just fall in love hindi naman dapat sex agad eh.. there are a lot of things you could do to release stimulation and sexual urges di ba? Those guys who left you because they did not scored on you are not really in love with you but they lusted on you.. per se.. Love, Lust and Veneration as I have said are all different animals.. okay?

[astig_supah_ganda]

Well, hindi naman dapat na kapag hindi naka-score iiwan ka na.. I had a GF that I did not have sex and we had a good relationship for around 5 years.. heavy petting lang.. never asked her to sleep with me.. masarap lang kasama and I find her pretty plus the fact that I loved her.. the reason for us breaking up is because alam kong hindi mag-wo-work relationship namin because of her disgust sa parents ko.. not because no popoy ako.. Me, its not just sex if I fall in love.. its part of it.. but not the most important part.. sa marriage naman that's another story.. coz sex is really a big part of marriage.. atsaka if you just fall in love hindi naman dapat sex agad eh.. there are a lot of things you could do to release stimulation and sexual urges di ba? Those guys who left you because they did not scored on you are not really in love with you but they lusted on you.. per se.. Love, Lust and Veneration as I have said are all different animals.. okay?

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yup.. kaya nga napakasama ng loob ko sa kanila..

magaling lang sa umpisa.. pag tumagal at wala palang mapapala bigla nalng nawawala.. :thumbsdownsmiley:

 

masaya naman akong ksama..cnabi nla un.. kaso matured na daw cla..

at mahalaga daw sa kanila yun..

 

dats y inintindi ko cla.. at nagpa iwan ako..

[ronaldbdar]

mahirap yan. para sa akin associated yan parang may "connection"

[Mike Chester]

Pag nagsisimula palang ung relationship, pwedeng mas mangibabaw ung emotion kesa lust, but as soon as the relationship last, hindi na maiiwasan na magkaruon ng sexual attraction sa isa't isa.

[boy popoy]

of course it can happen! cause if it cant, then para mong sinabi na old people who have lost their libido are incable of being in love.

sex is not an integral part of a relationship, but sexual compatibility is. if one person in a relationship is super horny and the other is not interested in sex then there will be a problem. but kung pareho naman kayong hindi interesado sa sex e di walang problema.

[punkus]

ganun talaga sa simula eventually darating din talaga yung mga intimate moments nyo, and when it happens this way, mas mararamdaman nyo na mahal nyo talaga ang isa't isa....