Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[zoudangles]

Fell in love with a married woman once (we were both married), but before we could consummate anything she discovered she was pregnant with her husband. We couldn't do it, thinking that that baby was in there. We took it as a sign that our affair was not meant to be.

[Sigmundo]

Harry:” A man can never be friends with a woman he finds attractive, he always wants to have sex with her."

Sally:” That’s not true! I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved."

Harry:” No, you don't"

Sally:” Yes, I do."

Harry:” No, you don't"

Sally: “You’re saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?"

Harry:” No, I'm saying they all want to have sex with you."

Sally:” Well, what if they don't want to have sex with you?"

Harry:” It doesn't matter because the sex part is already out there, so the friendship is ultimately doomed, and that is the end of the story."

Sally:” So a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?"

Harry:” No, you pretty much want to nail them, too."

 

When Harry Met Sally

[purrtypwincess]

Oh, what a woman would give for a guy like this to fall in love with her. :thumbsupsmiley:

[DarkChurch]

I once fell in love with someone, nope not my ex-wife, but someone whom I could describe as perfect pearl. A well rounded person with a pure heart and skin as smooth as a real pearl. She trusted me with all her trust. There was more time that we were alone than with anyone else, there were instances that I had the chance to take advantage. We’ve kissed, touched yet did not proceed to do the deed cause I wanted to preserve her until we get married. Call me stupid but I left her because I loved he so much that she deserves someone much better than I am. Now she’s a Doctor.

[ninjakidpower]

Boy meets girl. All of a sudden I began missing her then just found my self head-over-heels for her. We became very close friends. I met her family. We dated several times and I still treasure each of those moments. We spent hours on the phone. Talks were good. Sometimes we even stay on the line in silence. Just knowing that the we have each other on the line meant something to us then.

 

It didn't became us for some reason. She had relationship with other guys. I remember that there was a time when I visited her while her BF was there. We argued over a certain issue and I even yelled at her BF and said "hwag kang makialam, BF ka lang". Even I was surprised that I said that.

 

Her family migrated. During their dispedida, her x BFs weren't there. She spent most of the night with me. That good bye was a mix of joy and pain.

 

I thought then that I was a total loser but looking back I realized how much I gained. That love shaped me.

 

I guess there are times when the love and the romance goes beyond the body. It touches a deep space in the heart and it stirs the soul.

[TanglewoodBoy]

Boy meets girl. All of a sudden I began missing her then just found my self head-over-heels for her. We became very close friends. I met her family. We dated several times and I still treasure each of those moments. We spent hours on the phone. Talks were good. Sometimes we even stay on the line in silence. Just knowing that the we have each other on the line meant something to us then.

 

It didn't became us for some reason. She had relationship with other guys. I remember that there was a time when I visited her while her BF was there. We argued over a certain issue and I even yelled at her BF and said "hwag kang makialam, BF ka lang". Even I was surprised that I said that.

 

Her family migrated. During their dispedida, her x BFs weren't there. She spent most of the night with me. That good bye was a mix of joy and pain.

 

I thought then that I was a total loser but looking back I realized how much I gained. That love shaped me.

 

I guess there are times when the love and the romance goes beyond the body. It touches a deep space in the heart and it stirs the soul.

 

wow, great story bro....

 

 

tama ka dun sa last statement mo...

[ninjakidpower]

wow, great story bro....

 

 

tama ka dun sa last statement mo...

 

 

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Thanks man!

 

It was tough then though. Buti na lang at naka move on na. Whew!

[TanglewoodBoy]

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Thanks man!

 

It was tough then though. Buti na lang at naka move on na. Whew!

 

yeah bro, you may have moved on but the memories of you and her remain....

 

 

kudos and cheers!!

[Sigmundo]

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Thanks man!

 

It was tough then though. Buti na lang at naka move on na. Whew!

 

 

Question bro: If you still think of from her time to time, you haven't moved on di ba?

Edited January 15, 2010 by Sigmundo

[ninjakidpower]

Good question Sigmundo!

 

Sa'kin kasi moving on is not necessarily forgetting the other but accepting that the relationship has taken another route or another form.

 

Dati lokking back was painful. Ngayon it's actually fun now that I have fully accepted the reality of that relationship.

[Sigmundo]

it has happened to me.

 

fell in love with this MPA.

i got depressed because i wanted so desperately to get her out of the business but didn't have the financial resources.

i told her i've got more important things on my mind than sex.

 

 

So how did the story end pare?

[greenman24]

Love and sex is a perfect mixture for trouble unless both are married to each other...SEX is the highest/greatest expression of LOVE...love without sex...not real maybe ideal...what mean by it IDEA lang talaga yan...and that is not the general rule...

[btdeadlock]

I spent half my life in Catholic school so back in the day, being in love didn't necessarily go hand-in-hand with being horny. I remember the first time I really fell in love back in college. I couldn't think of having sex with her because it felt I was violating her in my mind.

[revi]

I spent half my life in Catholic school so back in the day, being in love didn't necessarily go hand-in-hand with being horny. I remember the first time I really fell in love back in college. I couldn't think of having sex with her because it felt I was violating her in my mind.

 

I relate to this.

 

I grew up from a religious family. I also went to a Catholic school (elementary to college, actually) and during my growing up years, pre-marital sex was such a no-no. Up until the time before I got married, I never gave up my virginity to any girl, be it my GF for six years or to anyone who had a thing for me.. I only popped my cherry to my wife.. So, its not that you don't love the girl if your libido does not move when you are with her, there are many things kasi that can contribute to that.. However, if sexually you are disinterested with her, the relationship might just not blossom.. Why? Sexual attraction is also important in marriage. Not the be all & end all, but if you can make love (hindi naman baldado ang isa sa inyo) then it becomes essential..

 

I said marriage, because even up until now, I still don't see anything nice or good with pre-marital sex..

 

Medyo OT: Nowadays, virginity is considered as nothing. Maybe we have evolved into the Western culture. Kaso sana hindi. The West has had too many problems relating to sex and the Philippines is slowly catching up. Ngayon, andaming nabubuntis dito na bata, ang daming sirang buhay, at ang daming sirang pamilya. Hindi lang kasi lalake ngayon ang nagloloko, parang nagiging norm na din na magloko ang mga babae. It saddens me, when I hear stories like these, where even women f#&k around. Not that I resent it because of masculinity, its just wrong. At mali din na magloko ang lalake. Nowadays, selfishness is more important than values, I guess.. Just my two cents.

Edited March 5, 2010 by revi

[TanglewoodBoy]

if you really LOVE the girl, mangingibabaw yung respect mo sa kanya so, having sex with her is like disrespecting her...