deadpool Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 happened to me already.. it's like being with her & spending time with her is more than enough. having sex or making love isn't a priority. just like what "hot69dancer"stated, somehow it feels like sex is just a bonus. just something you do to spice things up.. Quote Link to comment
largebelly Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 In matters that are highly metaphysical in nature and yet there is a basis of physical, the answer is often a great mixure of yes and no. Can one be in love without being horny, yes it is. Have I been in love without being horny, yes, and I'll add that it wasn't the juvenile love but that of a grown man.  I am by no means a dweeb too, thus we can remove that ratio from the equation. The lady is beautiful and yes, she loves me too. Let me add a caveat, I'm married and she knew it. I will make this more complicated, she is a missionary sent to study English here and go back to her home and teach.  All the wonderful ingredients for a nice and short affair. Full disclosure, one partner is foreign, and the emotion to back it. But the whole time it was platonic.  I will close this by saying, would she have agreed... yes. But I never brought it to the fullest extent. There now walks one where the answer yes to the question is proven. Quote Link to comment
danimott Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 ive done that so many times lalo pag sobra sobra kong mahal ung tao at sobra sobra din ang respeto ko sa kanya, but if mutal or she gives me a go signal thats a different thing... Quote Link to comment
tukmulin Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 Hindi ata pwede mangyari ito. Kaya nga sex is also called "making love". Of course, pag mahal mo, pag ayaw, gagalangin mo, but that doesn't mean that you don't want to do it with her. Quote Link to comment
raver15 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 parang this happens to me. my friends say i'm too nice and that i should have banged my chick already and i haven't. when i was with them i just never thought of banging them yet. but now that they're gone i think i should have banged them. Quote Link to comment
KCR101 Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 I think this can happen, but only during the initial part of the relationship. Sooner or later, both of you will be alone in a room... it's raining outside... she's comfortable wearing panty shorts and sando already... you start staring at her long silky smooth legs... thoughts start racing through your mind... you inch in closer... temperature rising... you wonder how it feels to fondle her breasts... what are the color of her nipples ... does she shave or trim her pubies... or is it kinda heart - shaped... she bites her lips while gracefully tucking her hair in one ear and giving you that glance of anticipation... temperature rising ... then you muster the courage to gently slide your fingers along those silky-smooth thighs for just about a few inches... then .. thennnn.... uuuuugggghhhhhhh!!! ..... aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! ayan nilabasan ka na. Quote Link to comment
jayr4u69 Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 It is possible if the person really love his or her partner...they can both handle relationship without sex Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 (edited) parang this happens to me. my friends say i'm too nice and that i should have banged my chick already and i haven't. when i was with them i just never thought of banging them yet. but now that they're gone i think i should have banged them. how old were u then? a girl told me that in HS she wasn't curious about it but in college definitely curious? I thought girls enter puberty earlier than guys. possible when are older if you need viagra or natural stimulation isn't enough or you don't get the high of orgasm. If you don't do it, would ur partner get jealous or mad if you do it with someone else because your love for them isn't sexual? the physical part is separate and someone else turns you on. Edited September 2, 2008 by complicated8 Quote Link to comment
ca5an0va Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 yup pde 2 but d cguro totally walang desire i think d right word 4 der is RESPECT :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
ButtChicKick Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 This doesn't apply to me. Whenever I see my guy looking at me like a lost puppy, I get so worked up all I wanna do is have him right there and then. :evil: Quote Link to comment
gimmickb4work Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Well, usually kapag INLOVE ako eh HORNY din ako kasi nga EXPRESSIVE ako. Hindi na maiiwasan yun but then again, may iba kasi na beyond SEX eh kaya minsan di mo na nga rin mapapansin ang LIBOG. Hahaha. Dahil nga masaya ka. Quote Link to comment
sinfuLplaymate Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 yes nangyari na to doon sa last ex ko di kami masyado nag se sex.mas gusto lng namin mag usap,magharutan,maglambingan..etc Quote Link to comment
geronimonster Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 Yeah this happened to me already.I'm just at awe by how this girl (my ex) spoke. And we'd just talk endlessly... but it didn't work out in the end Quote Link to comment
kutingkitten Posted November 25, 2008 Share Posted November 25, 2008 backread and i'm so surprised this could happen to guys. my former bf said he's happy just being with me even without sex. that frustrated me a great deal because i'm a very passionate person. and when i wanted to be experimental, he didn't usually give in because he doesn't want to hurt me. i found that very strange but now i understand. Quote Link to comment
juan t Posted November 25, 2008 Share Posted November 25, 2008 mas madalas sakin yung getting horny but not falling in love :evil: Quote Link to comment
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