Falling For Somebody 15 Years Older

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Oks lang.

[StraightEdge]

sabi nga dun sa mga previous post age is just a number. so its perfectly fine.

Edited November 28, 2012 by StraightEdge

[Trina of Kamedeen]

Negative.

[romanticlove]

my gf now is 9yrs older than me, well there will only be a problem if you keep on thinking what will the other people say...

 

for me? well 15 yrs?, hmm.. if she is perfect then why not, financially stable, pretty, sexy, smart, caring and all then i will go for it since she is really worth loving for

[jac]

Im married and currently in a relationship with a 21 year old girl who is 30 years my junior ( ha ha ha do the math for my age). Of all my (past and other present)relationships, this is the roughest and most difficult to handle. Lalo lang dumami grey hair ko. Nevertheless tuloy pa rin kami for reasons I dont know.

[neville]

I like older men better. But at my age, these men are mostly married/separated/widowers with kids and grandkids.

 

Since I'd rather be with a single guy, I have to go with a younger man-as long as he can dig me.

 

There's something about older men that attracts me to them.

 

But heck, who knows who i'd end up with. If i'd end up with someone alright. :-P

[dibdba]

Im married and currently in a relationship with a 21 year old girl who is 30 years my junior ( ha ha ha do the math for my age). Of all my (past and other present)relationships, this is the roughest and most difficult to handle. Lalo lang dumami grey hair ko. Nevertheless tuloy pa rin kami for reasons I dont know.

 

i'm a few years younger, but i feel you bro.

 

it can get really complicated, but sometimes it's worth it.

[sOin2you]

I've previously been involved with a guy who's 16 years older than I am. It was all OK for me since I got no issues with the age or the gap. But I had a hard time managing his insecurities. When we'd fight, kahit fault nya, he'd say things that would make me look like ako pa ang may kasalanan.

 

But yeah, sometimes we take the walk on the road blindly coz of love...

[dibdba]

I've previously been involved with a guy who's 16 years older than I am. It was all OK for me since I got no issues with the age or the gap. But I had a hard time managing his insecurities. When we'd fight, kahit fault nya, he'd say things that would make me look like ako pa ang may kasalanan.

 

But yeah, sometimes we take the walk on the road blindly coz of love...

 

It's strange that a guy at that age is so insecure...

 

maybe he lacks confidence, and when he sees guys looking at you, he knows that they can easily take you away from him. buti na lang labs mo siya.

[jac]

It's strange that a guy at that age is so insecure...

 

maybe he lacks confidence, and when he sees guys looking at you, he knows that they can easily take you away from him. buti na lang labs mo siya.

Insecurity and confidence plays a lot in this kind of relationship. Dont know if it would be fair to demand faithfullness.

[sOin2you]

It's strange that a guy at that age is so insecure...

 

maybe he lacks confidence, and when he sees guys looking at you, he knows that they can easily take you away from him. buti na lang labs mo siya.

 

What's slightly unbearable at times were those when you have to keep on explaining yourself again and again. I mean, why else did I get involved with him, right?

 

But yeah, some things had to end too despite loving that someone. It's just sad to see it all go to waste. Going in blindly and losing yourself to it can be that much already. And I thought that with him being older, things would run smoother and more mature.

[dibdba]

Insecurity and confidence plays a lot in this kind of relationship. Dont know if it would be fair to demand faithfullness.

 

given the huge age difference , there is a natural generation gap.

 

i'm thinking that it is the guy's confidence, swagger if you will, that attracts the girl. unless it's the other bulge in his pants--the wallet.

 

as to demanding faithfulness, i don't know. faithfulness is absolute of course--either you are or you're not, but can we make an exception: demand "near-fidelity?"

[dibdba]

What's slightly unbearable at times were those when you have to keep on explaining yourself again and again. I mean, why else did I get involved with him, right?

 

But yeah, some things had to end too despite loving that someone. It's just sad to see it all go to waste. Going in blindly and losing yourself to it can be that much already. And I thought that with him being older, things would run smoother and more mature.

 

more than confidence, it seems he lacks trust as well, especially if you have to explain yourself again and again and again.

 

age is just a number, especially when a couple is in love.

[neville]

My ex-fling was 16 years older than me and he acted like a teenager in and out of the bedroom-not in a good way.

 

Jobless, selfish in bed, horny as hell.

 

Of course i wanted a real relationship and not occasional trips to motels.

 

My ex-bf was 4 years older than me and he was almost as bad as my ex fling...except that he had ambition and is now in new zealand.

 

I recently dated a guy 10 yrs my senior. I really enjoyed going out with him. I felt like a lady with him. however, he just disappeared without a word.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Judging my experiences with older men, i thInk i should just avoid older men and date younger ones or guys my age.

 

Or say goodbye to dating altogether.

 

Or just do what other GMs do when in heat, hire a psp or get a masseuse to do sensual massage on me. No strings, lust sated, cold blooded and i get what i want.

[sOin2you]

more than confidence, it seems he lacks trust as well, especially if you have to explain yourself again and again and again.

 

age is just a number, especially when a couple is in love.

 

It was all about his insecurities, I'd say. I wouldn't have wasted a single minute with him had I not been serious with what we had. And yo make it worse, he was manipulating the situation to make me dependent on him for trust. He devised this character to stalk me online when it was really him. The character would leave messages in my ym and fb. To the point when I got harassed over the text and I was really surprised how that character knew of my personal number when I only gave it to a limited crowd, not even to my clients. I just ignored it despite having the hunch that it was him. Guess I couldn't bring it to myself to admit that it was him since I loved him that much.

 

That's one of the burden I had with him. Managing a lot about him... But yeah, I did love the guy.