Falling For Somebody 15 Years Older

[wastedsunshine]

namimiss ko na yung times na may nagsasaway sakin pag late na umuuwi ng bahay parang dad ko kung mang sermon my ex was 28 and i was 18 then. ang dami kong natutunan sakanya not just sex but life haha! oh well.. mature man really are sexy talaga :]

 

there's nothing wrong with the age as long as clean yung commitment niyo sa isa't isa

Edited July 4, 2008 by wastedsunshine

[misschelle]

i'm 17 and bf is 36..

i don't know kung ako yung isip matanda or siya ang isip bata dahil magkasundo talaga kami..

[justagurl]

if ur looking for a father figure, added bonus na yan

[brahma]

*cough*

 

Hey there 'mate! aren't we on board the same boat?

 

my guy was (he's not dead, we broke up or something) 39 and i'm 22 fell in love with him the minute he showed me the respect i was looking for in a guy. i'm the shallowest person on earth seriously. i pined over the most mundane things and well, let's just say, he was the guy i have been looking for right from the start. BUT, (of course there's a big but there) he's married. (crap! i posted 'i won't steal no man from anyone') he's got 4 kids. and although things got really complicated at an early stage, we ignored everything and still "enjoyed" what we had..

 

(why the flying f#&k am i sharing this...)

 

ANYWAY...

 

all i'm saying is that older guys tend to share with us "more" than what younger men cannot. MATURITY.

 

For the thread:

 

All i know is that relationships in whatever age has the same obstacles. Of course the few surprises of kids here and there... but nonetheless, it's THE SAME. just enjoy what you have with her right now... and i wish you nothing more but happiness

 

 

 

 

 

 

yeha sis!We'e on the same boat! I really prefer married men over flinging young boys :upside: They have a great sense of maturity kasi which is highly attractive and they know how to handle responsibilities. Kaya nga yung sa akin, he's very very used to that kind of situation and he's very smart kaya ayon napala ko Igot over it already, but nung una I feel really badly defeated in the game..

 

 

 

Cheezy isnt it?

[deinyttym]

here's my contri for this topic. she's ten years older than me. we've been together for two years. weird part is her hubby knows it and doesn't do anything. she always told me that her hubby is opened minded thing. but i manage to quit the relationship to consider manny things and i must admit that i've fallen in-love with her. hey what can i say... shes great on bed :thumbsupsmiley:

[dixiechiq]

cheesy? no not at all.

 

as i always say, (whenever my friends or whoever asks me about him) it was fun while it lasted and that's it.

 

just couldn't work out.

 

the between me and my ex then was that there were kidS involved. and walking away from everything was the smartest thing i did in the entire relationship

[tabouki]

seems i haven't looked around the love boat, dami pala passengers. hows 30yr age differnce? age doesnt matter daw? hehehe falling in love's the easy part. making the relationship work, and last, is where the fun, and challenges begin. just relax and enjoy the emo rollercoaster ride while it lasts. if and when it ends, as both of you (try to) move on, the friendship remains...

Edited July 5, 2008 by tabouki

[brahma]

cheesy? no not at all.

 

as i always say, (whenever my friends or whoever asks me about him) it was fun while it lasted and that's it.

 

just couldn't work out.

 

the between me and my ex then was that there were kidS involved. and walking away from everything was the smartest thing i did in the entire relationship

 

 

 

 

yeah u know what when we're actually together, conversation is very limited to superficial topics like, hobbies, skuling, funny incidents about mutual friends and acquaintances. Family, feelings and aspirations- things that offer a glimpse of the heart or a reflection of a soul are not laid out on the table Well thats just me. This is where i am now. After a long battle sa sarili ko realize ko neither is an apology

[dixiechiq]

falling in love's the easy part. making the relationship work, and last, is where the fun, and challenges begin. just relax and enjoy the emo rollercoaster ride while it lasts. if and when it ends, as both of you (try to) move on, the friendship remains...

 

:hypocritesmiley: Amen :hypocritesmiley:

[Tank Girl]

yeah! 8 years and 10 years older than me, age doesn't matter at all

[tauyski]

Me 42 yung girl 20 Okey sana pero,its the

other way around ako daw isip bata Sobra

enjoy ko feeling ko 21 yrs old lang ako.Layo

lang ng age gap namin parang anak ko na lang

siya Pero iniisip ko parang hirap yata sabi

nga nila love is blind

[ken_longfellow]

i think im falling for someone 10 yrs olders... nilalabanan ko pa... minor de edad pa un hehe. baka naguguluhan lng sya... at ako din

[ken_longfellow]

mali...10 yrs younger pala sakin... my bad

[spicyhot]

im a 25 year old guy and i have fallen for lady 15 years older than me.

 

i'd like to know if anybody has experienced this. what were the obstacles you encountered?

 

if you haven't had such a relationship. what do you think of it?

 

 

there's this woman who is 16 yeas my senior. we had an affair thinking that she's matured enough to handle a relationship. but i was wrong. she was so possessive that i didn't even have time for my friends. i felt that she's not treating me as her partner. she's treating me as a child. her own child. so, from then on, i never tried having an affair with someone much older than i am.

[TagaBantay]

i was 21 and she was 35, she wants a really serious relationship coz i think she's in her twilight age na hehehe , but during that time i'm still too young to go into marriage , ineenjoy ko pa pagiging single ko noh!!!! sorry na lang