frankiboi Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 (edited) im a 25 year old guy and i have fallen for lady 15 years older than me. i'd like to know if anybody has experienced this. what were the obstacles you encountered? if you haven't had such a relationship. what do you think of it? Edited June 11, 2008 by frankiboi Quote Link to comment
brahma Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 (edited) 21 here and had fallen to a 48 year old guy. Never happened to me like this before, napersonal ako sa totoo lang. But i already accepted the fact that he's only my bed-friend...BEDst-friend I mean... :upside: nothing more. Oh well, all I can say is that having a bed-friend isnt for the fainthearted Edited June 14, 2008 by brahma Quote Link to comment
frankiboi Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 21 here and had fallen to a 48 year old guy. Never happened to me like this before, napersonal ako sa totoo lang. But i already accepted the fact that he's only my bed-friend...BEDst-friend I mean... :upside: nothing more. Oh well, all I can say is that having a bed-friend isnt for the fainthearted fallen? which means you fell inlove right? is he even single? Quote Link to comment
vagabond Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 im a 25 year old guy and i have fallen for lady 15 years older than me. i'd like to know if anybody has experienced this. what were the obstacles you encountered? if you haven't had such a relationship. what do you think of it?i believe i'm on the "same boat" with you... Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 life is a choice. as long as you enjoy it, don't mind what others say :goatee: Quote Link to comment
christy Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 funny and talented guy. worked with him on a concert project for a month. still can't forget him to this day. :flowers: :flowers: :flowers: Quote Link to comment
the grudge Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 (edited) THIS IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND: SHE WAS BORN AT A TIME THAT I WAS ALREADY GRADUATING FROM HIGH SCHOOL. WHEN OUR PATHS CROSSED EACH OTHER, SHE NEVER THOUGHT OF THAT. SHE DIDN'T MIND THAT I WAS 17 YEARS OLD OLDER THAN SHE WAS. THIS IS A TESTIMONY THAT LOVE DOES NOT CONSIDER AGE. I MUST ADMIT THERE WERE DOUBTS AT THE BACK OF MY MIND. WOULD SHE LAST WITH ME? WOULD SHE LOOK FOR ANOTHER? BUT I GUESS I WAS MORE IMMATURE THAN SHE WAS. I KNOW SHE LOVED ME AS MUCH AS I LOVED HER. I HOPE SHE STILL DOES, AFTER ALL MY IMMATURITY. Edited June 23, 2008 by the grudge Quote Link to comment
clam_eater Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 ayos lang naman siguro basta parehong consenting adults at walang minor sa kanila :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
defacto Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Hmm... With an officemate who was 12 years older in my first job way back 2002. She had a hubby and 2 kids already but still had a killer bod and wasn't shy about spilling out her sexrets. Come to think of it, didn't really fall in love but fell in lust with her. Hahahah! But had we spent more time together, I might have felt more than a bulge in my pants and impure thoughts in my brain. Quote Link to comment
brahma Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 fallen? which means you fell inlove right? is he even single? married actually. and he's very used to that kind of situation that is why he adviced me to put everything in perspective. Napala ko sa hilig ko sa me asawa :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
agihap1 Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Hmmmmm.. thats what your fate lady... How about me a lady falling inlove to me with 13 years gap... when we first see its other se is to young for me.. She is still 22 yo back then.. but am happy to say that were more 4 years now... Lucky me super sexy pa siya.. May palangga :thumbsupsmiley: married actually. and he's very used to that kind of situation that is why he adviced me to put everything in perspective. Napala ko sa hilig ko sa me asawa :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
killerbee Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 (edited) im a 25 year old guy and i have fallen for lady 15 years older than me. i'd like to know if anybody has experienced this. what were the obstacles you encountered? if you haven't had such a relationship. what do you think of it? i am assuming that you are in love with this mature woman and that you're not just in the "relationship" for sex. mature women, in general, know what they want and most of the time they know how to get it. that is supposed to be a good trait but some men see it as a threat. you need to be really secure with yourself to be able to accept something like that. have you met her friends? has she met yours? friends can also be the source of conflict between you and your lady. i am sure the others here can contribute some more. good luck! Edited June 25, 2008 by killerbee Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 (edited) 21 here and had fallen to a 48 year old guy. Never happened to me like this before, napersonal ako sa totoo lang. But i already accepted the fact that he's only my bed-friend...BEDst-friend I mean... :upside: nothing more. Oh well, all I can say is that having a bed-friend isnt for the fainthearted *cough* Hey there 'mate! aren't we on board the same boat? my guy was (he's not dead, we broke up or something) 39 and i'm 22 fell in love with him the minute he showed me the respect i was looking for in a guy. i'm the shallowest person on earth seriously. i pined over the most mundane things and well, let's just say, he was the guy i have been looking for right from the start. BUT, (of course there's a big but there) he's married. (crap! i posted 'i won't steal no man from anyone') he's got 4 kids. and although things got really complicated at an early stage, we ignored everything and still "enjoyed" what we had.. (why the flying f#&k am i sharing this...) ANYWAY... all i'm saying is that older guys tend to share with us "more" than what younger men cannot. MATURITY. For the thread: All i know is that relationships in whatever age has the same obstacles. Of course the few surprises of kids here and there... but nonetheless, it's THE SAME. just enjoy what you have with her right now... and i wish you nothing more but happiness Edited July 4, 2008 by dixiechiq 1 Quote Link to comment
khangkungero Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 fell inlove with my teacher nung elementary ako... lagi ako sa house nya... although di pa ko malibog nun kya yun... wala din ako napala... Quote Link to comment
Guest killercath Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 am 19 and my exbf is 40... nice... mahirap lalo na pag di masyado magkaintindihan! haizt... Quote Link to comment
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