Men Doing House Chores- Sexy

[hottlipss]

Men doing chores sexy, poll finds

Misty Harris, Canwest News Service

Published: Saturday, February 16, 2008

Watching a man perform housework can be as potent an aphrodisiac as oysters and George Clooney movies.

 

In a poll of 1,300 moms, Parenting Magazine found fully 15 per cent were wooed into the mood by "choreplay" -- that is, seeing their partner pitch in around the house. In simplest terms, women give kisses to men who do dishes.

 

"I think most men aren't aware of how powerful these efforts can be," says Joy Davidson, a New York-based sex therapist.

 

 

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Font:****"If you said, 'By increasing your help with daily chores by 30 per cent, you'll increase your sex frequency by 50 per cent,' how many men would dismiss that? Probably not too many."

 

The results of the online survey are lent scientific support by a recently published study in the American Journal of Public Health that showed a "significant association" between a husband's contributions to domestic chores and his wife's emotional health. Similarly, a 2006 study by a pair of U.S. sociologists found husbands who help around the house are more attractive to their wives.

 

Jasmin Sykes, who has been married two years, says when her husband helps out with the chores -- which she notes is often -- the "significant boost" it gives to their sex life is far greater than when he buys her flowers or makes other material gestures.

 

"Just the fact that he would do something to ease the load is a huge turn-on," says Sykes, who lives in Edmonton with her hubby and toddler. "I don't think that physically seeing him do housework turns me on necessarily, but the feeling of love and relief I get afterwards definitely does it for me."

 

Samantha Lavin, who has been married nearly 17 years, says that her spouse's contribution to household tasks has diminished such that when he does make a special effort, it's an "endearing" and highly noticeable event.

 

"When my husband took down the Christmas decorations this year -- something he hadn't done since we moved to Canada (in 2003) -- it was very thrilling," says Lavin, laughing. The Sherwood Park, Alta., woman is teaching her two sons that helping out with domestic chores is one of the best ways to impress a girl.

Edited March 12, 2008 by hottlipss

[OscarLopez]

babae siguro gumawa ng study.

[hottlipss]

one of the most endearing qualities about my hubby is that he helps me out around the house

the fact that na kahit pagod siya from work, ako pa din ang iniisip niya and doesn't devalue my role

as a stay-at-home mom...akala kasi nang mga ibang asawa, we just sit around the house

my hubby never makes me feel that way. i don't have to tell him how bad my day was...

as soon as he gets home, he gives me a break from our kids by taking them off my hands.

 

he does the dishes after our dinner kasi pagod na daw akong magluto

he does chores that he thinks "mabibigat" for me...like mopping the floor, cleaning the bathrooms

on saturday mornings he serves me and the kids breakfast in bed and lets me sleeps in while

he watches saturday morning cartoons with our kids

 

the mere fact na ayaw niyang nakikitang nahihirapan o naii-stress ako makes me love him even more

and want to serve ...in and out of bed

kaya naman kahit he's always deployed yung loyalty at commitment ko sa kanya hindi nagwi-waiver

alam ko na walang hihigit sa pagmamahal niya

Edited March 12, 2008 by hottlipss

[jamboree168]

there is no problem if a husband is helping around the household chores. Many women think its a sexy thing for them. When I am somewhere around the globe many or most of men are taking their children to school mas madaming babae na in inlove sa iyo they dont care married, separated or single ka. They just found it to sexy.

Most women like men cooking a good hearty meal for them.......

[ButtChicKick]

I like men who know how to work their way around the kitchen.

 

I find men who know how to satisfy my appetite, sexy. period.

[boomouse]

Edited June 25, 2008 by boomouse

[hottlipss]

A stay-at-home mom is one of the hardest jobs in the world. The job has a multi-disciplinary requirement for a person to be good at it. Psychologist, diplomat, a manager with strong skills in resource management, time management, marketing, and project monitoring, teaching skills that can be switched rapidly between disciplines and between difficulty levels within those disciplines, a comedian, and a vamp.

 

Giving her 75% of your take home pay may not be enough if you tried to hire all those skills to work your home, especially the vamp.

 

Which is why men should do their share of the donkey work because that would be the easiest for them to do and also because they are already getting a bargain as it is. While we don't have a shortage of household help, I find that helping in the quality control in the laundry and cooking Satuday breakfast, and Sunday lunch or dinner is greatly appreciated. Of course I do the groceries after I get emailed a list of things that are running low.

 

see, i haven't even seen you and you're already sexy in my book :thumbsupsmiley:

 

@buttchickick...men look their sexiest in the kitchen...you wouldn't care how the meal tasted...it's the effort and love that went into it

they're deserving of a yummy dessert

Edited March 13, 2008 by hottlipss

[ReDHeaD]

Houseband and wife... pede...

[Nighty_Knight]

i dont see anything wrong with that. when i was with wifey, we would divide all the chores. reason behind was were both working. now that i'm only with the kids, i do everything. hirap pala ng mag isa.

[lomex32]

In my experiences IT amazes women that I converse with, if I can share discussion/tips/tricks/places/recipes

 

I can do so because:

1. I cook and I keep doing so

2. I go to the grocery myself ...

3. I read good exchanges in MTC .... just like what we have here

 

Cheers

 

I like men who know how to work their way around the kitchen.

 

I find men who know how to satisfy my appetite, sexy. period.

[lankaface]

Men doing chores sexy, poll finds

Misty Harris, Canwest News Service

Published: Saturday, February 16, 2008

Watching a man perform housework can be as potent an aphrodisiac as oysters and George Clooney movies.

 

In a poll of 1,300 moms, Parenting Magazine found fully 15 per cent were wooed into the mood by "choreplay" -- that is, seeing their partner pitch in around the house. In simplest terms, women give kisses to men who do dishes.

 

"I think most men aren't aware of how powerful these efforts can be," says Joy Davidson, a New York-based sex therapist.

 

 

Email to a friend

 

Printer friendly

Font:****"If you said, 'By increasing your help with daily chores by 30 per cent, you'll increase your sex frequency by 50 per cent,' how many men would dismiss that? Probably not too many."

 

The results of the online survey are lent scientific support by a recently published study in the American Journal of Public Health that showed a "significant association" between a husband's contributions to domestic chores and his wife's emotional health. Similarly, a 2006 study by a pair of U.S. sociologists found husbands who help around the house are more attractive to their wives.

 

Jasmin Sykes, who has been married two years, says when her husband helps out with the chores -- which she notes is often -- the "significant boost" it gives to their sex life is far greater than when he buys her flowers or makes other material gestures.

 

"Just the fact that he would do something to ease the load is a huge turn-on," says Sykes, who lives in Edmonton with her hubby and toddler. "I don't think that physically seeing him do housework turns me on necessarily, but the feeling of love and relief I get afterwards definitely does it for me."

 

Samantha Lavin, who has been married nearly 17 years, says that her spouse's contribution to household tasks has diminished such that when he does make a special effort, it's an "endearing" and highly noticeable event.

 

"When my husband took down the Christmas decorations this year -- something he hadn't done since we moved to Canada (in 2003) -- it was very thrilling," says Lavin, laughing. The Sherwood Park, Alta., woman is teaching her two sons that helping out with domestic chores is one of the best ways to impress a girl.

It never crossed my mind that doing house chores could be attractive to women, I love doing house chores, cause thats the best way to keep track of my stuff. I hate it when somone else puts my stuff away and make me wonder where it went. it was a trainig when i lived in the states to do things myself when i was living alone.

[boomouse]

Edited June 25, 2008 by boomouse

[ButtChicKick]

@buttchickick...men look their sexiest in the kitchen...you wouldn't care how the meal tasted...it's the effort and love that went into it

they're deserving of a yummy dessert

 

Correct. There's even a study that says men who help in the house get more sex as compared to those who don't. So men, what are you waiting for?

 

In my experiences IT amazes women that I converse with, if I can share discussion/tips/tricks/places/recipes

 

I can do so because:

1. I cook and I keep doing so

2. I go to the grocery myself ...

3. I read good exchanges in MTC .... just like what we have here

 

When a man is willing to step up to the plate (and wash it for us ), we tend to see you in a different light. It's not that you're domesticated or something (which is absolutely manly for me atleast) but because men like these recognize the fact that things have to be done and that they can do it independently without relying on us women.

[boomouse]

Edited June 25, 2008 by boomouse

[Eddy Syet]

Well, that's nice to know. I never thought women find it sexy. In fact, I don't think a man covered in just boxers and sweat because of say, he's pressing his clothes is sexy at all. HaHaHa! In fact, if chance upon me looking like that... I might shy away from you. Unless you're someone I really, really know.