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Sex Or Love? What Makes Relationship Work?


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Para sakin, ang Sex and Love benefits yan ng being in a relationship, but it is not what makes it work. You do not stay in a relationship only for those.

 

Ang dami dyang couples na wala halos sex, at yung di naman passionate pagsasama, pero nagtatagal. Meron dyan sobrang passionate at masigla sex life, pero saglit lang naman nagtatagal.

 

Ang isang matagumpay na relasyon, hindi lang dapat yan basta kilig at libog. Kung ito lang nagpapatakbo ng relasyon nyo, madali ito maguguho. Sure they are important but its not what will make it last

 

You need emotional maturity, compatibility in personality, and most of all as cheesey as it sounds VALUES. Values like respect, trust, sacrifice, loyalty, fidelity. Ang passion kasi at libog na yan, inevitably huhupa at certain stages sa pagsasama nyo. At kung wala kayong values, eh ano na itatagal nyo?

 

Halimbawa, pag nagaaway kayo, hindi pwedeng mayat maya, bati na kayo tapos exchange ng kilig lines, tapos make up sex na. Tapos yung issue na pinagawayan nyo di naman talaga naresolve. Dapat, naguusap kayo, alam pinagawayan nyo, maintain yung respect at trust, at magusap kung papano dapat gagawin next time ng di na maulit.

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IMO, both.

 

Whenever I see happy couples in facebook, you know, those couples that seems to click instantly,

unlike the others that seem to have a "transition period" before being completely warm and affectionate

to each other,

 

Whenever I see that kind of couple, somehow I automatically presume, there's this gut feeling,

that those two people are "kinikilig" for each other, and, they have had great sex (or at least they are

sexually compatible). I think there's this level of happiness/warmth/comfort that is more easily attainable

when there is sexual compatibility, as compared to without. Or maybe I'm just too assuming/judgmental hehe

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