Sex Or Love? What Makes Relationship Work?

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

Why am I frustrated that he wants more cudde than sex?

[Duel of Fate]

Why am I frustrated that he wants more cudde than sex?

maybe its that time of the month? na mejo "in need" ka? which is normal imho.

or maybe its ur exposure din dito and ur work. u see fr's here and u probably hear ur theras talk about es's. while hindi sya actual penetration, an orgasmic activity is still a sexual act.

or, worst case scenario, that "woman" thing, who feels rejection is a sign of disinterest.

any of the three scenarios, my advice is try to know ur hubby a bit better. check his meals --- low sugar or low blood temp can cause the sexual drive to go low. check his daily activities and compare it to what were his activities at the height of your coupling back then.

basta, dont let sex (or the lack of it) ruin love. ive seen it happen. it was ugly.

[hukage]

both

[sentimentalman]

sex & sex

[samsonph]

In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.

[JBezos]

Both.

[Bikerboy]

both talaga e.

[memphiswire]

Both pa din ba? what if kung matanda na kayo pero, wala ng sex pero they still inlove to each other.

I guess love talaga dapat mangibabaw then sex will follow.

[Tepz 3.0]

Love first then sex...

 

Not sex then Love...

[miss gucci]

Love or maybe sex?

[AsianCutie*CA]

Love for me, sex may seem overrated as I know a couple who are both deeply in love with each other and they told me that they have not had sex in a while. Sex "andyan lang yan" they quoted, "hindi lang talaga kami horny".

Edited August 17, 2017 by AsianCutie*CA

[travelmassage]

EFFORT.

 

Kung todo effort sa sex, your partner should at least see some effort in terms of love.

 

Kakabore ang sex kung walang effort, variety, exhilaration.

 

After sex and your sex affiliated hormones dissipates, love aspect kicks in, otherwise love kicks you in the ass instead of the usual cuddle afterwards.

 

Kapag walang effort sa love, YMMV.

Edited August 24, 2017 by travelmassage

[jologs32]

Love makes the relationship work. Its the thing that keeps you together. On the other hand, you can have sex but it doest mean it will make your relationship work.

[Metikoloso]

Love - Heart Needs

Sex - Body Needs

 

Pero syempre mas matimbang ang Love dapat

Edited August 26, 2017 by imcaloy

[FZ4]

Love and respect.

[nightingale]

In an ideal world, it has to be love. But the world is far from ideal and romantic. Sex keeps the flames of love burning and in its absence, you'd find the mind wandering and soon, the heart will follow suit. Interestingly, one can have a relationship based on sex, and sex alone. But a sxless love - pakiramdam ko, para akong nakakulong sa hawla. I just want to be free!

Edited September 2, 2017 by nightingale

[calmado]

hmmm... friendship and respect, bakit wala???

['cholo15]

Sex is what starts the relationship, love comes after.

[MIndy'HOS❤]

The secret ingredient to SEX is LOVE 💋😉

[Ampucha]

Making Love!!! It can be the act of Sex or simply connecting and caring for each other.

[Ronzkie]

Pareho

[glut_func]

actually it's trust...it comes first before love. Mahal mo nga pero malandi naman at nag eentertain pa ng kung sino-sinong lalake kahit mag syota na kayo, wala rin...

[blue+george]

I guess commitment. whether good or bad. it should be there. (this is the mould where the cake will be made)

 

then character, attitude and behavior of the couple. that matters a lot. (this is the ingredients that makes the cake.)

 

love (cake)

 

then sex. (spice. or icing to the cake)

[Chuk123]

Both. No love in a relationship is dead. No sex in a relationship is virgin or sex outside the relationship. It should be both. But different level, always love sometimes sex or most of the time. Haha

[Chuk123]

Both. No love in a relationship is dead. No sex in a relationship is virgin or sex outside the relationship. It should be both. But different level, always love sometimes sex or most of the time. Haha