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$uddenly $ingle : Feeling Lonely Or Free Again?


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Being alone doesn't mean sadness.

 

am pretty sure ... when you say freedom it is not in the sexual sense.

 

if it is, i think it is a very sticky situation. if both are aware of other arrangement, makes your relationship a honest and open one.

 

but ... will it lead to fights ? or tampo ? 

pasimple, it's all the matter of how you say it or how you explain it. still for me, honesty is the best policy... being true to what you feel is very important, masaktan na ang maskatan, at least you are honest about how you feel and what you think.

 

 

that takes out or develops the maturity in the person. :)

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well... lagi naman talagang may tampuhan sa isang relationship eh...

bat nga ba ang hilig magtampo ng mga gerls?

 

my one million dollar question in life... hehehe

 

u dont even know what you have done, or shes just makin speculations not even confirming it... whala! tampo to the max! its really a mystery that i sometimes love with women... but not always...

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baka naman wala lang magawa :lol:

 

but the again, minsan insensitive naman mga guys eh...

WWWWWWWWHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTT?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

 

walang magawa? walang magawa kaya binibigyan ng sakit ng ulo ang mga lalake? kakaisip kung bakit? at ano ang dahilan bat nagtatampo?

 

do you do that often?

 

hehehehe tumaas yata presyon ko dun ah?

peace! :flower: :) :)

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I never 'lose' myself in a relationship. Kaya when the end comes, almost as if walang nangyari... except that I have a lot of free-time all of the sudden.

and except that since you didn't give as much

you didn't get as much

so the question is...

do you always protect yourself thinking that its gonna end one day anyway

or do you give it all you've got, relish in the moment, crash and and burn and hope that you will recover again one day

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Being alone doesn't mean sadness.

 

am pretty sure ... when you say freedom it is not in the sexual sense.

 

if it is, i think it is a very sticky situation. if both are aware of other arrangement, makes your relationship a honest and open one.

 

but ... will it lead to fights ? or tampo ? 

pasimple, it's all the matter of how you say it or how you explain it. still for me, honesty is the best policy... being true to what you feel is very important, masaktan na ang maskatan, at least you are honest about how you feel and what you think.

 

 

that takes out or develops the maturity in the person. :)

can't agree with you more sis

for some reason, i really take comfort in integrity and honesty

like knowing someone has the guts to tell the truth

no matter what the other person thinks

that takes a lot of courage

and i admire that in a person

and eventually, you take the person for who they really are

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Being alone doesn't mean sadness.

 

am pretty sure ... when you say freedom it is not in the sexual sense.

 

if it is, i think it is a very sticky situation. if both are aware of other arrangement, makes your relationship a honest and open one.

 

but ... will it lead to fights ? or tampo ? 

pasimple, it's all the matter of how you say it or how you explain it. still for me, honesty is the best policy... being true to what you feel is very important, masaktan na ang maskatan, at least you are honest about how you feel and what you think.

 

 

that takes out or develops the maturity in the person. :)

you can be honest to her but if it leads to a break up ...

 

baka it is better to keep that your little secret and not to do the same mistake again ... what is buried in the past, let it be in the past.

 

kasi if you come forward with your past relationships or past mis-givings ... baka it will come back to haunt you at gagamitin at gagamitin yung pagkakamali mo sa future arguments ....

 

hope you also see my point ....

 

Peace!

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can't agree with you more sis

for some reason, i really take comfort in integrity and honesty

like knowing someone has the guts to tell the truth

no matter what the other person thinks

that takes a lot of courage

and i admire that in a person

and eventually, you take the person for who they really are

yes, they say that honesty is the best policy ...

 

pero pag di mature ang girl ... what's the consequence ?

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Guest sexy_legs

pasimple, it's case to case basis... i agree that there are some things better left unspoken or be known.... like I guess the relationship from the past which you think di niya maiintinidhan....but then still.... it's all in the matter of HOW YOU SAY IT....and NOT WHAT YOU SAY.... :)

 

The interpretatio of what was said would really depend on the treatment of the manner you communicate... no matter how painful it is if you think the other party should know..... we should lay it down..... YOU WOULD GAUGE HOW MUCH SHE LOVES YOU IF SHE IS WOULD BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND THINGS AND ACCEPT YOU INSPITE OF AND DESPITE OF..... :)

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pasimple, it's case to case basis... of HOW YOU SAY IT....and NOT WHAT YOU SAY.... :)

 

The interpretatio of what was said would really depend on the treatment of the manner you communicate... we should lay it down..... YOU WOULD GAUGE HOW MUCH SHE LOVES YOU IF SHE IS WOULD BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND THINGS AND ACCEPT YOU INSPITE OF AND DESPITE OF..... :)

o sige tulungan mo naman ako sexy legs ....

 

let's us say theoritically, that there are 3 things i need to tell my partner ...

 

a) one may anak ako sa iba ... before kami naging partner. very young then. both the

parents nilayo kami sa isa't isa. so it became just a forgotten dream.

 

B) had a one night stand with her best friend. spur of the moment. outing sa beach. ang ganda nang buwan. malibog... este mabilog ang buwan.

 

c) had an affair with her college best friend. became fu** Bu** first and then had a strong affection with each other.

 

 

So .. HOW CAN I SAY IT ... and WHAT I CAN NOT SAY.

 

pili ka kahit isa dyan ... will she be able to understand the situation ... in spite of ... and despite of .... or will she give up on me ?

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