kissandfondle Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 Having peace of mind at last . Lonely at first and anxious once the bills come in, but later on you get used to it and feel much better than having him around. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Nung umpisa syempre sobrang depressing. Ang metaphor ko noon, para akong tinapon sa malalim na balon, nakikita ko yung liwanag pero di ko naman maakyat. Tapos nalulunod pa ako sa loob. Pero nung nagtagal, through efforts din na I make para tulungan sarili ko, dun ko bigla na lang naenjoy yung freedom ng pagiging single. See, being single again provides an opportunity na maalagaan at mahalin natin sarili natin ulit. Kasi pag may partner tayo, sobrang iniaasa na lang kasi natin ito sa kanila. Masarap yung pakiramdam na wala kang kailangan pagpaalamanan kung san ka pupunta. Lahat ng gusto mo gawin para sa sarili mo, madali na lang. Masarap din ispoil sarili mo. Kaya nga ako, ang lagi kong sinasabi, after a breakup, huwag muna maghahanap agad ng susunod na relationship. Dapat spend sometime muna being single. Kasi kung papalit palit ka lang ng relasyon, hindi ka na matututo maging emotionally independent, lagi ka na lang aasa sa iba. Tsaka masarap maging single eh. 1 Quote Link to comment
DyosangLigaw Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Shocking, depressing, excruciating, enlightening... liberating. Shocking kasi biglaan. Biglang wala ng another chanceDepressing kasi hindi mo na naiintindihan anong nangyariexcruciating kasi masakit talaga yung emotional struggle na biglang wala naenlightening kasi maiisip mo, ganon pala siya, ganon ka lang pala sknyaliberating kasi assh*le naman kasi pala siya Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted March 16, 2015 Share Posted March 16, 2015 Being single again can be a cathartic experience. Being in a relationship can be exhausting and depleting. You have to commit yourself to it. You get polluted with so much emotions. Its a full-time job that you need to take a break from sometimes. Sa umpisang umpisa, syempre masakit yan. Napakalungkot. Parang ayaw mo na ituloy ang buhay mo. Pero once you learn to better carry your pain, and once you rebuild yourself, you will thank the experience. Tama yung kasabihan na whatever does not k*ll you will make you stronger. Whatever happens, never ever lose yourself to self-pitty. Dito ako nahirapan noon talaga. Minsan awang awa talaga ako sa sarili ko, o kaya minsan galit na galit for ending up the way I did. Pero lahat naman tayo nagkakamali eh. Ang importante natututo at nagtatanda. Tulugan ang sarili at huwag kastiguhin. Start by forgiving yourself. If you will not appreciate your own value, you can never expect others to do that for you. After that, you will see na maraming pintuan magbubukas para sayo. Being suddenly free and all. That it can be an adventure. 1 Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted March 16, 2015 Share Posted March 16, 2015 Hindi mawawala ang sakit after a breakup pero yung sarap ng pagiging single naman ang kapalit. Yung kaligayahan na magawa mo lahat ng trip mo ng walang nangengealam tapos wala nang drama na kelangan pagdaanan - sino pang gugusto na pumasok ulit sa isang relasyon di ba? Sabi nga nila, there is no such thing as a perfect person and a perfect relationship so why bother looking for it anyway? That's just too much BS on my part. Quote Link to comment
DyosangLigaw Posted March 16, 2015 Share Posted March 16, 2015 Nakakashock kapag narealize mo, kausap mo na yung dahilan! I feel so much better now... Quote Link to comment
cindy cato Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 Feeling Free again Quote Link to comment
blow_gobi Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 it hurts and its sad kung ikaw ang iniwanan. But being alone gives you the option to meet people and frees you up from the responsibilities and sometimes constricting relationship. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Listen Guys, Being single means you get to be happy on your own terms! Hindi na nakadepende sa ibang tao kung saan nakakabit lagi emotions mo. You get to choose freely without having the guilt over someone else' feeling about it. You go where you want to. You do what you want to. You keep company around you that you want. You don't have to explain yourself to no one. The only person you are trying to please is you. Isn't that a liberating feeling? Lahat kasi tayo, dapat marunong magpasaya ng sarili natin ng di lagi umaasa sa iba. Aanhin mo naman ang borrowed happiness na yan kung wala ka din naman freedom at peace of mind, kasi kahit anong oras pwedeng mawala ito sayo at masaktan ka pa. Whereas kung ang decisions mo para sa sarili mong happiness nakadepende lang sayo, masaktan ka man, at least its on your own terms Quote Link to comment
dinibdib Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Free again, hopefully! Quote Link to comment
zkyplakez Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Feeling free but the memories haunt me. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 Feeling free but the memories haunt me. Â Ako I treat my memories like my childhood. You grow up from them. Maraming masasayang alala OO, pero unfortunately you just have to mature from the experience and grow. No matter what you do, its a place in time you can never go back to. All you can do is look forward na lang to the better memories you can create. Quote Link to comment
Robo Cop Posted April 23, 2015 Share Posted April 23, 2015 its nice to be single Quote Link to comment
Hari ng Spakol Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Feeling happy and sad Quote Link to comment
Hari ng Spakol Posted June 13, 2015 Share Posted June 13, 2015 Feeling Happy today Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted June 13, 2015 Share Posted June 13, 2015 very liberating but kinda gets boring at times.... Quote Link to comment
nuttymags Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 There are times you feel isolated, but it gives you freedom to browse around. Quote Link to comment
Duel of Fate Posted June 30, 2015 Share Posted June 30, 2015 The last time i was single i was shocked na i didnt feel as lonely as i thought i would. Di naman ako naexcite sa (ka)mundo(han) that is out there, i wasnt THAT lonely. No solo drinking,no ranting sa friends or families, no tears habang tulala sa kawalan, heck i even got to watch a pinoy cheesy flick on my own. Pero may moments din. Mangilan ngilan lang pero meron. So kapit lang, sa Diyos at sa sarili na you can do it. And you will. Quote Link to comment
sOin2you Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 I would have opened my doors wider being in this stage, and say to myself, "Hey, go out and have fun. You can go out with anyone now and do whatever pleases you!" But surprisingly, now that I am able to do that, I'm not highly up for it. Like I'd rather enjoy spending time with myself and my circle of friends, rather than entertain another guy. Or maybe the next interesting one hasn't arrived yet... Or perhaps, without being fully aware, I've reserved myself to that one... Quote Link to comment
Gits Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 at first i felt lonely but as days goes by it changed to feeling free again. my work, patients, students, apprentices (nurse-trainees) helps me forget about the past. Quote Link to comment
filibustero Posted July 3, 2015 Share Posted July 3, 2015 It is not my heart, but my chains that have been broken. Quote Link to comment
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