$uddenly $ingle : Feeling Lonely Or Free Again?

[chidlom]

palagay ko ganito lang iyon eh pag ikaw ang nangiwan free again pero pag ikaw iniwanan feeling lonely

[tamago]

Feeling lonely. Definitely

 

This is my status now

 

Yes, maybe it's time to move on. But it hurts that someone you love isn't there anymore, that she wants some space. I cannot force her to change her decision because I respect her, that's why as much as it hurts, I'll give her her desired space.

 

Funny thing. I never though I'd feel this way again. I was thinking, "Yeh, I can screw any girl I want again," etc etc. But I've been there, done that. Having lots of fubus at one time is a real thrill at first, but later on it gets really old. I was desiring someone not to be my fubu, but to be someone special

 

Unfortunately, I screwed up. Again. Thus, the space

 

:cry:

 

Feeling lonely, definitely

[freezeburn]

Changing status has a lot pros and cons. So better make the best of it while we're at that state.

[PornoKing]

Feeling lonely. Definitely

 

This is my status now

 

Yes, maybe it's time to move on. But it hurts that someone you love isn't there anymore, that she wants some space. I cannot force her to change her decision because I respect her, that's why as much as it hurts, I'll give her her desired space.

 

Funny thing. I never though I'd feel this way again. I was thinking, "Yeh, I can screw any girl I want again," etc etc. But I've been there, done that. Having lots of fubus at one time is a real thrill at first, but later on it gets really old. I was desiring someone not to be my fubu, but to be someone special

 

Unfortunately, I screwed up. Again. Thus, the space

 

:cry:

 

Feeling lonely, definitely

WE DRINK FOR THAT :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley:

[Joe Stud]

I can relate...My girlfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and we talked everyday...But after the 3 weeks, she decided to break off contact with me...Boy it hurts so much because I still love her and miss her very much...I'm alone again. Do I enjoy being single again. Right now the answer is no! It's lonely and the darkness has become my friend again.

[joggernaut]

My suddenly got lonely when I found a new girlfriend. After the break up: we rarely talk and we didn't text or call each other anymore. I can see the loneliness in her eyes when she was still here in the office.

[newbie182]

lonely.....at first talga...parang YES!!! i am free....but then the lonelyness seeps in and eats u alive..

[SaintandSinner]

i think it's a mixture of both.. upon assessing how i feel, there is a feeling of relief that makes me things easier for me, in a practical sense siguro. if you're single, you are free to do anything, go out with anyone. but somehow, at the end of the day, you would still wish to have someone where you belong to. someone who sincerely cares for you, someone who has a genuine concern.. pero kahit ganon, it would still be better to look at in on a positive perspective.

[freezeburn]

i think it's a mixture of both.. upon assessing how i feel, there is a feeling of relief that makes me things easier for me, in a practical sense siguro. if you're single, you are free to do anything, go out with anyone. but somehow, at the end of the day, you would still wish to have someone where you belong to. someone who sincerely cares for you, someone who has a genuine concern.. pero kahit ganon, it would still be better to look at in on a positive perspective.

 

You'll always miss those wonderful times tlaga.

[Cutefreak]

Both i say........ You'll be free to do anything you want...... but it can get really lonesome... to the point of doing intentional stupidity!

[Saeki®]

sa una..... 'free again' ang nasabi ko..... kasi nagising na ako sa kalokohan nya eh

 

 

pero syempre nakakalungkot.... naging part na sya ng buhay ko for 2yrs.....

[saint_stiffler]

Just broke up with someone but i never really wanted us to part ways.. being single is something i dont crave for. Im a better person when im the other half of a whole.

[utog]

no man is an island, it is much better if your with somebody or love one.

[icequeen]

nothing is more liberating than freeing yourself from a destructive relationship.. so id say FREE AGAIN!

[iwalkalone]

i was never free and i've always been lonely...so what's the difference?

..i just felt a little...scared for awhile...scared of being alone again...but what the heck...i've always been scared!

[creeppo]

I agree its difficult being single again especially when your dreams were shattered by such heartache.

[gigle]

Just broke up with someone but i never really wanted us to part ways.. being single is something i dont crave for. Im a better person when im the other half of a whole.

 

 

Same with me.

They said, its easy to move on, But its hard pala if you still loves the other half. *sigh*

[agamulach_experience2000]

It has its pros and cons. When youre in a relationship and a beautiful womans shows up and shows signs of belongingness Im sure you'd wished to be single. But then again when youre alone, you keep praying to be with someone again, because it makes us complete. to each his/her own. Im still looking for the right woman. And Im taking my time.

[Guest mrscarl_vhoglie]

FREE AGAIN!!! yehey.. u chose to let him/her go, so why shud u get lonely?

if he's meant for you, babalik din yan kht after 10 years di kyo nagkita.

[Inkedlover]

We loose the people we love because they're meant to love someone else. We loose them because we are destined to be with someone else... I'd say Im free from a love that isnt really is there, but i feel lonely because things arent just meant to be...

[hari ng sablay]

Lonely of course...but getting separated because of irreconcilable differences....theres no other better way...

Freedom has it's perks....but secondary.

[heartbreak18]

Hi peeps, just need your view points is being $ingle again means your gonna be Lonely or Freedom :*

 

its a mix of both actually. lonely if you love your now-ex partner very much without giving that much thought about the freedom you just gained out of that relationship that just ended.

[_Honey_]

knowing that he's gone doesn't really make me lonely. as much as i could, i always try my best to look at the other side of the coin most of the time. at some point, i felt relieved. mas hawak ko na ang oras ko ngayon. i don't need to consider him first in deciding for the shift at work that i would choose. at times kasi our relationship used to affect my time at work.

 

however, i feel a bit disappointed coz when i was just about to open my heart and trust once again, it doesn't still seem to work. which makes me think: where did i go wrong? i feel lonely coz i am quite used being him around. i feel free though coz i can focus much on myself alone again...

Edited March 21, 2007 by _Honey_

[jad]

knowing that he's gone doesn't really make me lonely. as much as i could, i always try my best to look at the other side of the coin most of the time. at some point, i felt relieved. mas hawak ko na ang oras ko ngayon. i don't need to consider him first in deciding for the shift at work that i would choose. at times kasi our relationship used to affect my time at work.

 

however, i feel a bit disappointed coz when i was just about to open my heart and trust once again, it doesn't still seem to work. which makes me think: where did i go wrong? i feel lonely coz i am quite used being him around. i feel free though coz i can focus much on myself alone again...

 

sad story.. but still GOD has reason for it

 

for me.. feeling lonely

[myk_atok]

its normal to feel sad after a failed relationship... :cry:

its normal to feel angry when you know that you did everything possible but ended up separating

but there's an upside to this...

 

you'll have more time with your family and friends without worrys.

you're more wiser now in choosing a partner.

you're stronger now when it comes to failures.

 

at the end of these ordeals... just remember people get wiser not because of what they've read or heard but from what they've gone through...

 

kaya don't worry be happy... :cool: