$uddenly $ingle : Feeling Lonely Or Free Again?

[Shizuka]

Being single has its perks. The irony is I am not seriously looking for a boyfriend. I am actually enjoying the dating scene and the variety of men that I meet.

[gerber4adults]

i'm enjoy being single... i got the freedom to meet different people and date different women whenever I can.

[Hottie_Babe]

I can't help but feel truly liberated after two long relationships. The last 7 months of having no attachment is the longest I have been single eversince I started having relationships.

 

It felt strange having no one pick you up or meet up after work. When he's your constant movie buddy, you just cant help but feel a little emptiness when you look at his usual side of the seat, and you don't see him. At the same time, it gave me enough time to reassess what I really want to do or the things that I have missed when I was living the "couple" life.

 

I slowly started dating though. I can't deny that it surely brought some smiles but I just want to be, like they say, "Steady lang".

[lomex32]

In short one can say ...

 

I do this, i do that because I SIMPLY CAN

 

i'm enjoy being single... i got the freedom to meet different people and date different women whenever I can.

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[bluegreen717]

Free again and scared shitless.

 

I've never been so guarded with my feelings. Short of saying I'm a cold fish.

 

Beats being lonely.

[Joyboy]

i guess it depends on how he relationship was in its last few days. free if the relationship was bad and lonely if the relationship was good for the most part. right now, im just trying to move on... letting sleeping dogs lie.

[draven06]

That really depends on how deep the relationship is.

If I'm seriously in love, I'll be feeling lonely for a year utmost!

[Knife_47]

I'v been separated for almost 3 years and the petition for annulment is already for decision. its liberating coz no one is there to dictate unto me what to do and what not to do. I dont have the time to feel lonely coz she left me the three kids. In fact i'm too much preoccupied with the kids and work that i dont mind being loveless.

[wonderboi2]

M wants to bump this thread...

 

for SweetBaby!

[lamonking]

very lonely. bigla na lang mawawala yung mga routines mo with the other person. yun yung nakakamiss masyado. yung routines. and syempre kung naaalala mo yung routines, maaalala mo din sya, then you're gonna feel lonely again. hassle no?

[u.allen]

Hi, newbie

 

Single since december after a four year on & off relationship. Tagal..

 

Now passively looking (labo ba?). Kung meron, cool. Kung wala, cool pa rin.

 

Not that I'm trying to be mean or anything. But as a plain fact, sometimes another side of your ex can be seen after the breakup. For my case, she turned for the worse.. sigh..

[tsunade]

Phase 1: No more routines... empty space beside your pillow ( Lonely)... Solution: Replaced empty space with someone else - a gay friend.

 

Phase 2: Gay friend is fun... went out and met other people ( Free ) ...

 

Phase 3: After 3 months , get someone else aside from Gay Friend to replace empty space even if temporarily ( Back to Normal )

 

:thumbsupsmiley: Oh, Thanks dear!

[wyette]

At times, lonely. Perhaps there is this thing called, reminiscing.

 

But at this moment, it feels I am free again.... though I know the other party hasn't let go yet.

[sweetie]

malungkot kung sa malungkot..

 

pro ano naman gustong nilang gawin ko.. magmukmuk maghapon magdamag.. i still find time to enjoy my time.. para makalimot saglit..

[CommSys]

lonely lng nmn pg ikw nlng mag1 lalo na nasanay ka that magkasama kayo lage sa bahay...