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For the boys:

 

Confidence is the key. Yung eksakto lang, wag sobra na parang presko o mayabang ang dating mo.

 

Mindset. No fear of rejection. No hesitation.

 

Practice. Do your lines in front of the mirror. After that, practice with friends - boys then girls. Do not be so intense as to make her wary or even afraid of you. Be as nonchalant as possible, na para bang "kung di mo ibigay e ok lang"

 

By experience, do not just go up to a girl and ask for her number. Eye-contact muna, approach kung mabasa mo na "pwede," pasok. Chat her up, read the signs.

 

Pag ok na, tsaka mo hingin ang number.

 

Kung di naman ok ang pasok mo, di ka naman kakausapin nun e. Ni hindi ka na aabot sa puntong makakahingi ka ng number.

 

Good luck!

 

 

Sa girls:

 

Ewan ko ba. Lalaki ako e.

 

Pero yung mga nanghingi na ng number ko e parang ganoon din ang style. Pa-cute lang nga muna para pansinin. Pag may eye-contact na, cum-hither ang look para lapitan nung guy.

 

Kabagsak-bagsakan, yung lalaki pa rin ang parang manghihingi ng number. Babanatan ka ba naman ng "aren't you going to ask for my number?" E di siyempre pag binigay na niya e kailangang magbigay na rin yung lalaki.

 

Ang galing 'no?

 

Mas ok pa nga sa kanila kasi madalang naman na di magbigay ang lalaki ng number pag hiningi ng babae - maganda man o pangit.

 

Less risk for rejection.

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  • 4 weeks later...

..okay sana makatulong. One thing na ayaw mong gawin is ask directly, If you

really have to, at least ask with confidence, hindi 'yung parang naghihingi ka ng

favor. You have to be in the "frame" or state of mind wherein you believe it is you

who is giving the favor by asking for his/her number. And take it easy.

 

..or go indirectly, give them chance to ask for your number. Set it up. One of my

favorite line is "I really enjoyed this, let's do this again some other time..ü

tawagan na lang kita!..ü" And if they're really interested, and been waiting for you to

ask for their number mapapansin naman nila 'yun and say "Pano mo ko tatawagan, di mo

naman alam number ko?" I'll just say "Ay oo nga noh!" sometime I leave it at that,

and nakakatuwa minsan 'pag kinuha pa rin nila number ko despite the obvious na "trip"

ko. Minsan naman I'll say "Ay oo nga noh, okay trade na lang tayo ng number", ganun..

 

..pero asking a "total stranger" for a number, mukhang mahirap 'yun and corny. Set it up,

para cool..

 

Respect

-Sin™

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