t3sla Posted May 13, 2016 Share Posted May 13, 2016 Ilang beses ko na na experience to. Last was with my ex of 3 months. Grabe pang abuso ginawa sakin to the point na sinaktan sarili and trying to call her friends at sabihin na sinasaktan ko sya. Tantrums, sigaw emotional abuse etc. When I got the courage to break up with her, she was smashing her head sa window ko. Andami pa nangyari and take note 3 months lang to ha. Di pa kasama mga pang bblackmail at kung ano ano pa. Tama si sir Edmund. They are SELFISH MANIPULATIVE and ABUSIVE partners. Ingat sa mga taong ganito. Usually sila yung kulang ang attention nung kabataan nila. 1 Quote Link to comment
Dumplings Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 i used to have an 8 yr relationship. already had a business and a job. only thing left was my graduation. i was getting ready to propose for marriage (i was 24 at that time), had a jeweler make a ring for me. then suddenly nalaman ko n lang na may bf pa siyang iba. parang nawalan ako ng purpose that time. super bigat to the point that i drank bleach. (seemed easy way to go at that time) buti na lang naisuka ko lahat, but still got hospitalized. being hurt sucks..... but not living your life is worse Quote Link to comment
lone23 Posted December 29, 2016 Share Posted December 29, 2016 Mahirap silang iwanan kasi nakakakonsensya kung magpakamatay sila. 1 Quote Link to comment
kambing Posted December 29, 2016 Share Posted December 29, 2016 sila yung mga tao na ayaw ng rejection. Quote Link to comment
camus Posted December 29, 2016 Share Posted December 29, 2016 Happened to me once. I told her I won't stop her. Bakit ako makonsensya? Just ask yourself... Do you want her to die? Did you pull the trigger? If the answer to both is NO, then it's not your fault. She's an adult, it's her life and her decision to make. Another thing is... Love is given freely. If someone is threatening or controlling you, then that isn't love. 1 Quote Link to comment
Mr_man Posted December 30, 2016 Share Posted December 30, 2016 Dated one hell of a drama queen who at the end of our comical relationship threatened to commit suicide. I was grateful that she was making these threats over the phone and not in my house.After that I completely lost interest in communicating with her - I had had enough of the antics. People like that are really weak and need help to address issues they already had before meeting you. Quote Link to comment
Sir Galahad® Posted December 30, 2016 Share Posted December 30, 2016 Hard to tell sometimes. I was in a toxic relationship in the early 2000s. It was a threat she usually makes. I'm glad I was able to break it off. Quote Link to comment
lone23 Posted December 30, 2016 Share Posted December 30, 2016 They cant take rejection easy. Quote Link to comment
theoneandonlymistressmia Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Yeah this is so fcked up. My ex used to do this. Hilig mag laslas after ko hiwalayan. Eh hinihiwalayan ko naman kasi nambababae. Oh I was stucked in an unhealthy 4 years relationship back then. First love s@%t. Aint gonna happen. Quote Link to comment
TheRedHood Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 this is a simple thing thought this needs professional help cause it's a serious problem that needs to be tend to Quote Link to comment
Queen Darkeinjel Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 The first thing that you do have to look for would be: Were there signs of former suicide attempts? If there were, what the person is saying may not be just empty threats. The best thing to do would be to walk away from this toxic person who's holding you hostage. However, it would also be a humane thing to do if you could inform his/her family about it (lest of course it is your fault that the threat arose - cheating, etc). Let them seek help for the person you have once cared for and had feelings for. But, other than these steps, there's no need for you to go back to the relationship. It can be good for her/him but detrimental for you. The best way to deal with this is for both parties to be able to move on without each other. Quote Link to comment
BEaST-RiPPed Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 there is no such thing as a suicidal lover, but meron mga insecure individuals , kung love ang reason for them wanting to die, it's not the love of one person but the absence of acceptance...Kung minsan, kung sino pa yun nagsasabing magpapakamatay sila, sila pa ung freak out kapag dinapuan ng ipis Quote Link to comment
lito leon Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 I had several ex who are like this, I know they were hurt so much that they feel that they are good as dead. I tell them my story when i felt suicidal also when i was younger, when i thought that my life ends when the relationship ends. I told them that it was wrong to think that way...because when a relationship ends, a new life will come. and that is something to look forward to. but when you are physically dead,,, that will be scary... there wont be anything at all. you will just be a memory. Quote Link to comment
LeeBrownGems Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 Nakakatakot makaencounter ng ganyan relationship yung may suicidal tendency.. Quote Link to comment
miss_krista@nps Posted June 14, 2017 Share Posted June 14, 2017 hindi totoo mas mabbgyan mo sya ng laya kapag nagpakamatay ka mas magagawa nya lahat. Quote Link to comment
sapphy Posted June 16, 2017 Share Posted June 16, 2017 k*ll myself???? theres alot of things to do before commiting suicide right?.. id say they come to me for a list of things to do before committing suicide. just so u guys know, even a suicidal person(of course u target enemies ha!) is beneficial to the country... not sure if anyone got my point but thats it lol. Quote Link to comment
Dasmagurl Posted June 20, 2017 Share Posted June 20, 2017 (edited) ung muntik n ko pakamatay dahil sa isang semilya!! 😂😂😂 Edited June 23, 2017 by Dasmagurl Quote Link to comment
Hari ng Spakol Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 They need professional advise and guidance. Quote Link to comment
Chacharap Posted July 4, 2017 Share Posted July 4, 2017 dont let them dictate you Quote Link to comment
lone23 Posted July 4, 2017 Share Posted July 4, 2017 mahirap magmahal ng praning na babae. 1 Quote Link to comment
lito leon Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Love and Suicide should not be paired together, This is an Open World love can come as many times as you wish. suicide will come just once,,, love should not take you there and love will not follow you there. I was once in the verge of suicide because of a love i lost. Im thankful that God sent a hand to help me during that time. Then i experienced more love and pain, then more love and happiness. Quote Link to comment
AsianCutie*CA Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 I was traumatized nung nagka gf ako ng ganito, parang ayoko na mag gf ulit after ng break up namin before. Quote Link to comment
miss gucci Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 Pag alam mong hndi ka nya mahal. 1 Quote Link to comment
xders09 Posted August 21, 2017 Share Posted August 21, 2017 Mas mahal ko buhay ko Quote Link to comment
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