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Be Honest, Have You Hurt Someone?why? How?


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ako boyfriend ko na nasa states.. i cheated on him 7 times, and I told him about that. I didnt have sex naman or anything sa iba.. kiss lang and flirt. I told him everything and I tried to break up with him right form the first time, but then ayaw niya umalis. sabi niya mahal niya ako no matter what.

 

So ang ginawa niya bumalik siya all the way from the states to new zealand.. tapos nadeport sha on the same day kasi ang kailangan na pocket money $1000 new zealand dollars, ang dala niya $800 lang. so bumalik sha states iyak kami ng iyak non.. and then the next day I told him I just cant do it anymore dahil hindi ko talaga siya mahal. 1 yr and a half na kaming mukhang tanga dahil hindi ko naman talaga siya mahal. ayaw pa rin niya akong bitawan, nagsinungaling ako i told him na buntis ako para lumayo na siya.. sabi niya he doesnt care aalagaan daw namin ung bata!!

 

so ang ginawa ko as last resort... nagsinungaling ako and sabi ko pupunta na akong australia and hindi na niya ako marereach ever. and so nakadivert kapag sha tumatawag..

 

 

tapos ang masakit, napalayas siya sa bahay nila dahil nga nabaliw na siya sa akin, nakatira siya ngayon sa shelter lang :( 2 months na siyang ganon... nakokonsensya ako kaso I cant force myself to love someone! :(

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yes... though, i really didn't intend to do so...

 

they were my friend. 2 girls whom are close to me. I treated them like a younger sister, being sweet, caring and loving. It was clear from the start that we were just friends and they know that my treatment towards them are nothing special. It just happened that these 2 girls fell for me. secrectly they tried everything to make me fall for them, but sadly my heart already belonged to someone special. really got their feelings hurt.

 

from now on, i try not to be sweet with my new friends as to avoid this kind of situation.

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:sick: I have been with my boffriend for seven years. until our relationship becomes boring. I started working and me and my bf seldom see each other because of work. There was this one officemate who became my good friend. We started hanging around together, and we fell in love with each other and ended having sex. My bf does not want to break up with me because he loves me so much and I also dont want to dump him because i still have feelings for him but I got pregnant the very first time me and my office did it. I have no choice but got into marriage. My bf was so hurt, I was also hurt and feel sorry for him but everybody wants me to marry my officemate. I hurted my bf and I hoping for forgiveness.

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i hurt someone once.. i didn't mean to though. somehow, i value this person so much. the hard thing is, im still in the process of getting to know myself. and at that time, i felt like, i deserve a lil more.. i deserve something and someone else. i left.. as much i try to avoide the feeling, the more it persists..

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Yeah, well, I broke someone's heart not once, but twice. I treated her like a little sister since I am naturally malambing with my female friends. She assumed I loved her so she took a big leap and told me she loved me.

 

I told her that no, I'm sorry but I had my heart set on someone else. I could hear her crying like a little girl on the phone as she hanged up. 1st time.

 

A few months later she found out it was her bestfriend I had my heart set on. 2nd time.

 

I am such a heartless bastard. :(

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Yeah, well, I broke someone's heart not once, but twice. I treated her like a little sister since I am naturally malambing with my female friends. She assumed I loved her so she took a big leap and told me she loved me.

 

I told her that no, I'm sorry but I had my heart set on someone else. I could hear her crying like a little girl on the phone as she hanged up. 1st time.

 

A few months later she found out it was her bestfriend I had my heart set on. 2nd time.

 

I am such a heartless bastard. :(

I don't think you should be blaming yourself like that...none of it was your fault...you were just being really nice to her...even treated her like a sister ... right? ( or maybe you're not telling us the whole story? :D ) ....she lead herself to believe in something that wasn't even real..."she assumed"...unless you've given her false hopes...or has taken advantage of her in some ways?....if that's the case...then you probably are what you say you are...a heartless bastard. :P

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I don't think you should be blaming yourself like that...none of it was your fault...you were just being really nice to her...even treated her like a sister ... right? ( or maybe you're not telling us the whole story? :D ) ....she lead herself to believe in something that wasn't even real..."she assumed"...unless you've given her false hopes...or has taken advantage of her in some ways?....if that's the case...then you probably are what you say you are...a heartless bastard. :P

 

uy.

react.

affected.

:P

biro lang.

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Guest Cleone

Yes, I did but never on purpose. I have a good friend that I consider as my greatest confidant. After a major break up we hang out often until we realized we seem like dating exclusively for almost a year na. He fell for me. Unfortunately, I'm not ready for any relationship and I look at him as a brother. Eventually, I fell for someone else and broke his heart.

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