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What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?


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Mahirap kung kasal ka dahil sa presumption of paternity sa batas natin. Pero kung syota iwan mo. Hindi mo parin pwedeng pilitin ang lalaki na magpakasal dahil may nabuntis. Hindi rin pwedeng ipakulong dahil ayaw na magpakasal. Pero kung siyota/live-in yan palayasin mo na. Kung tinanggap mo para mo naring ipinahiwatig na okay lang ginawa niya. Baka gawin uli sa susunod.

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Natural reaction is to drop everything and leave the bitch.

 

But for me, i will ask some probing questions, since some girls just want to have a baby from the guy. And will create a situation for the guy to hate and leave her.

 

I have at least 2 personal experience on this, which i found later on that that baby is mine. This is after 5 years or so.

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May kasamahan akong therapist before na nabuntis ng client and yunh client na yun e bet na bet niya talaga pero di sya pinanagutan. May live in partner siya that time and tinanggap pa rin siya kahit na nabuntis siya ng iba. Too good to be true ano? haha. Akala ko talaga "sana all" eh. Pero now, itong si ate gorl ay nangungulit sakin na gusto niya na magwork ulit, na bigyan ko sya ng client, not to mention na 1month palang since ng manganak siya at hindi pa dapat nagttrabaho pag ganun. Dito na siya nag open up na yung live in partner niya e oo tinanggap nga yung nangyari, pero hindi na tulad ng dati yung pagsasama nila. sinusumbat at pinapaalala lagi sa kanya na nagkamali siya. and now hndi na daw nagwowork yun, bale siya daw ang bumubuhay at gumagastos (parang kapalit ng pagtanggap sa kanya despite of what she did) haha. nakakainis sila pareho. bat ganon? sana pag di na masaya, pag di na kaya ayusin e just leave.

Sinungaling yun : hindi siya tanggap nung lalaki.

Gini-guilt trip na lang nung lalaki yung tropa mong thera - malamang pa yan ginagamit lang niyang rason yan "tanggap nga kita kahit naanakan ka ng iba" para talagang mapanindigan niya na "siya yung matino at mapagparayang lalaki" tsaka isipin nitong si babae na wala na siyang mahahanap na ibang lalaking tulad nun ... pero ang totoo magpapalaki lang ng itlog yan habang nagpapaka-sugar mommy yang tropa mo.

 

Iwan na lang niya yung lalaki kaysa buong buhay nila na nagsusumbatan sila. Tapos buhayin na lang niya anak niya kaysa pati yung lalaki bubuhayin rin niya.

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The getting pregnant is a bit different scale for me. But for the past few years, i kind of dont care much if my wofe was seeing someone.

 

Most that i do is check if our financials are being touched whenever i feel she has some boytoy and if not, i dont really give it a lot of thoughts. Perhaps i have disengaged completely.

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