whapakk Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 Affair involving the heart or love, No. Casual sex or good times, Yes. Agree Quote Link to comment
kurokaze Posted July 26, 2014 Share Posted July 26, 2014 For anything amorous, no. It's something I'd rather be open to the public about. Quote Link to comment
lordbaal Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 Previously I thought I'd never..but it being that everyone seems to do it..even my wife..might as well join in the fun. hahaha Quote Link to comment
lordbaal Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 If you cant beat them join them Quote Link to comment
wife on call Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 Ipaalam na lang para hindi secret at hindi masakit sa bangs Quote Link to comment
francis2014 Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 Yes. May thrill. Quote Link to comment
jeibi Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 I have been in this scenario before, but as time goes by, it becomes really unhealthy. Only have one love, i.e., your ex girlfriend (of course your wife). :-) Quote Link to comment
jasper.custodio Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 FUBU as secret affair...Yes, but it is not good it will be a burden para masira ang isang magandang relationship! Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 No, never again. If for some reason you have to keep your affair secret, then you should not have it in the first place. Sa umpisa lang yan masaya. But when reality sinks in, magiging mahirap din at masakit lang. Di bale ng wala kang matinong relasyon pero wala ka naman kelangan itago. Kesa naman in love nga kayo, lagi naman kelangan lumingon sa paligid at baka mahuli Quote Link to comment
mryr Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 yan ang progressive!Previously I thought I'd never..but it being that everyone seems to do it..even my wife..might as well join in the fun. hahaha Quote Link to comment
layman37 Posted September 28, 2014 Share Posted September 28, 2014 it's fun and does give life ( though, not for all) other flavor ( a bit of spice) but surely not fun in the long run. it becomes a burden Quote Link to comment
great_escape Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Secret love affairs are for cowards who do not have the balls to call it quits with their significant others and are not man enough to own up to their lusts. Of course we can justify and romanticize our indiscretions. Pero bottomline, its all about being truthful to oneself. Kung ayaw mo na, dont punish yourself in to sticking out with your partner. Kaya nga may annulment e. Life is too short to be wasting your time fearing that you might get discovered in your indiscretions. Ibang usapan na lang kung talagang trip na trip mo ang maging philandering husband. I suggest you consult some professional help. Quote Link to comment
toruk makto Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Secret affair is exciting. More of it the better. That's why I have four of them. Hahaha. Quote Link to comment
carotene.beta Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Never tried but i guess kung nandun ka na sa situation na yung girl na ang nagpapahiwatig malamang di mo matatanggihan ang tawag ng laman Quote Link to comment
nusab3yo Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 I can't imagine myself being involved in an affair, especially the part that I have to hurt my wife para lang sa tawag ng laman... Too much a burden for me.. Quote Link to comment
sidlucero Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 i have a strong feeling i might get into this sh#t Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Secret love affairs are for cowards who do not have the balls to call it quits with their significant others and are not man enough to own up to their lusts. Of course we can justify and romanticize our indiscretions. Pero bottomline, its all about being truthful to oneself. Kung ayaw mo na, dont punish yourself in to sticking out with your partner. Kaya nga may annulment e. Life is too short to be wasting your time fearing that you might get discovered in your indiscretions. Ibang usapan na lang kung talagang trip na trip mo ang maging philandering husband. I suggest you consult some professional help. A year ago, Id punch you in the face for this post. But today? Id say tama ka! You are spot on. Mahirap talaga maging duwag at laging lingon ng lingon dahil alam mong problema pag nahuli Quote Link to comment
great_escape Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 A year ago, Id punch you in the face for this post. But today? Id say tama ka! You are spot on. Mahirap talaga maging duwag at laging lingon ng lingon dahil alam mong problema pag nahuli Yes. I'm not one to sugar coat what I have to say. Glad that you are over that episode in your life. Ako kasi much as I would like to live in the moment- I would also like to anticipate that how I do things right now will definitely have an impact on my future. So balanse dapat. You have to be both practical and logical as emotions cannot be trusted. Love like all others take judgment. It's a decision. Pinaninindigan. If I'd be in the position (god forbid) to be tested with a temptation, I would like to be fair and cut clean first- before I pursue another. It's also the same kind of thing I expect no less from my partner. Kahit masaktan ako. Basta Kung gusto na niyang mag loko- tapusin na niya Muna un sa akin. Life is too beautiful to be wasted on someone who is not truthful to you. Marriage after all is based on love, respect and trust. You take one off- parang it loses all it's essence. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Yes. I'm not one to sugar coat what I have to say. Glad that you are over that episode in your life. Ako kasi much as I would like to live in the moment- I would also like to anticipate that how I do things right now will definitely have an impact on my future. So balanse dapat. You have to be both practical and logical as emotions cannot be trusted. Love like all others take judgment. It's a decision. Pinaninindigan. If I'd be in the position (god forbid) to be tested with a temptation, I would like to be fair and cut clean first- before I pursue another. It's also the same kind of thing I expect no less from my partner. Kahit masaktan ako. Basta Kung gusto na niyang mag loko- tapusin na niya Muna un sa akin. Life is too beautiful to be wasted on someone who is not truthful to you. Marriage after all is based on love, respect and trust. You take one off- parang it loses all it's essence. I had to learn it the very very painful way. I went through a battle with alcoholism and depression lol. Obviously I get to laugh about it now. One thing kasi that blinded me nung nandun ako sa ganung klaseng relasyon was that sobrang saya ko. I had relationships before at hindi ako naging ganito kasaya at fulfilled. Kahit payo ng mismong pamilya di ko pinakinggan. Akala ko kasi, dahil masaya ako, I should pursue this. Pero di ko narealize that by being in this relationship, maraming taong pwedeng masaktan and most of them do not deserve to. Second is that, by aggreeing to be someones dirty little secret, I was not being fair to myself, hence not loving myself. Kaya natutunan ko, Happiness is not a gauge for right or wrong. Just because something makes you happy, it does not mean you should pursue it. Because in an instant kung gaano ka kasaya magiging 10 beses naman sakit na kapalit. Quote Link to comment
great_escape Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 I had to learn it the very very painful way. I went through a battle with alcoholism and depression lol. Obviously I get to laugh about it now. One thing kasi that blinded me nung nandun ako sa ganung klaseng relasyon was that sobrang saya ko. I had relationships before at hindi ako naging ganito kasaya at fulfilled. Kahit payo ng mismong pamilya di ko pinakinggan. Akala ko kasi, dahil masaya ako, I should pursue this. Pero di ko narealize that by being in this relationship, maraming taong pwedeng masaktan and most of them do not deserve to. Second is that, by aggreeing to be someones dirty little secret, I was not being fair to myself, hence not loving myself. Kaya natutunan ko, Happiness is not a gauge for right or wrong. Just because something makes you happy, it does not mean you should pursue it. Because in an instant kung gaano ka kasaya magiging 10 beses naman sakit na kapalit. I'm sorry to hear that bro. It must be one f*kcng whack in the head to be going thru a heart ache and worst, have to battle out depression and alcoholism. For a girl? Or was it just because of compounded disappointments in life? Since you are comfortable mentioning it, I have to assume that you have already overcome that chapter in your life. I also have to assume that you're single- and that you're the third person in this girls life. My apologies for being too candid if not insensitive on my previous posts. Ikaw pala Ang Hindi pinanindigan. I must say - girls really are different nowadays. Or should I say far from what society has stereotyped them to be. Anyway, when you age like I do- happiness is not all that matters. Marriage is about sacrifice kasi you do out of love for the person. Things you don't so before- or you think do not imagine doing- you wil just act it out naturally. I say good luck to you. You sound young. You will meet your partner in life who later on would make it right for you. Not because she will complete you but because she will brig out the very best in you. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 I'm sorry to hear that bro. It must be one f*kcng whack in the head to be going thru a heart ache and worst, have to battle out depression and alcoholism. For a girl? Or was it just because of compounded disappointments in life? Since you are comfortable mentioning it, I have to assume that you have already overcome that chapter in your life. I also have to assume that you're single- and that you're the third person in this girls life. My apologies for being too candid if not insensitive on my previous posts. Ikaw pala Ang Hindi pinanindigan. I must say - girls really are different nowadays. Or should I say far from what society has stereotyped them to be. Anyway, when you age like I do- happiness is not all that matters. Marriage is about sacrifice kasi you do out of love for the person. Things you don't so before- or you think do not imagine doing- you wil just act it out naturally. I say good luck to you. You sound young. You will meet your partner in life who later on would make it right for you. Not because she will complete you but because she will brig out the very best in you. Lets just say that its so complicated aabutin tayo ng ilang pages kung ikweikwento ko pa lahat. You have no idea how excruciating my pain was. So difficult na I was actually living 5 mins at a time. But those 5 mins marched into days and weeks and months, and a year. And I made it! The journey has been difficult but I can honestly say I am a much better person now. Yun lang naman ang key eh, patawarin mo sarili mo, at umpisahan itong mahalin sarili mo, at matuto ka. You just need to refuse to keep being a victim and be a survivor. Now I am single and I am enjoying having a relationship with myself lang muna. Kasi when I was swinging from one relationship to the other, masyado kong di tiniran sarili ko kaya dapang dapa ako nun. Eto pa isang magandang aral from a female friend. Ang puso parang bata yan na masarap pasiyahin. Pero pag nasobrahan na, nagiging sutil na at hindi na makikinig sa pagpapayo. Kaya kelangan dinidisiplina din natin ito para huwag maging spoiled masyado Quote Link to comment
great_escape Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Lets just say that its so complicated aabutin tayo ng ilang pages kung ikweikwento ko pa lahat. You have no idea how excruciating my pain was. So difficult na I was actually living 5 mins at a time. But those 5 mins marched into days and weeks and months, and a year. And I made it! The journey has been difficult but I can honestly say I am a much better person now. Yun lang naman ang key eh, patawarin mo sarili mo, at umpisahan itong mahalin sarili mo, at matuto ka. You just need to refuse to keep being a victim and be a survivor. Now I am single and I am enjoying having a relationship with myself lang muna. Kasi when I was swinging from one relationship to the other, masyado kong di tiniran sarili ko kaya dapang dapa ako nun. Eto pa isang magandang aral from a female friend. Ang puso parang bata yan na masarap pasiyahin. Pero pag nasobrahan na, nagiging sutil na at hindi na makikinig sa pagpapayo. Kaya kelangan dinidisiplina din natin ito para huwag maging spoiled masyado Hmmm I can only imagine. Yes, true mark of maturity is to endure to be by yourself in the midst of your confusion/ pain. If its not to imposing pare, may i just ask...If it hurts so much and it's painful to be apart from this person, why not fight for her? Sure she is committed and it also takes for her to fight for you as well-- pero all those time to just get over her, di ba parang that's rare? I mean we don't usually fall that hard for somebody? Parang Ang Hirap ulit hanapin un ganun. I mean that's just me. Pero I guess it's meant to be that way. Sabi nga Kung masalimuot talaga- it's not God given. You will know that it's right- if everything just fall in to its proper place naturally. Very light. Very spontaneous. Quote Link to comment
BingoXOXO Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Parang ipinagbabawal na gamot lang yan..... Masarap ang bawal!!! Quote Link to comment
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