lenuzo Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Secret love affairs are for cowards who do not have the balls to call it quits with their significant others and are not man enough to own up to their lusts. Of course we can justify and romanticize our indiscretions. Pero bottomline, its all about being truthful to oneself. Kung ayaw mo na, dont punish yourself in to sticking out with your partner. Kaya nga may annulment e. Life is too short to be wasting your time fearing that you might get discovered in your indiscretions. Ibang usapan na lang kung talagang trip na trip mo ang maging philandering husband. I suggest you consult some professional help. Secret love affairs are for cowards who do not have the balls to call it quits with their significant others and are not man enough to own up to their lusts. Of course we can justify and romanticize our indiscretions. Pero bottomline, its all about being truthful to oneself. Kung ayaw mo na, dont punish yourself in to sticking out with your partner. Kaya nga may annulment e. Life is too short to be wasting your time fearing that you might get discovered in your indiscretions. Ibang usapan na lang kung talagang trip na trip mo ang maging philandering husband. I suggest you consult some professional help.I AGREE! Quote Link to comment
MangMags Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 At this point of my life any love affair I will ever have would be a secret. :ninja: Have been contemplating a couple of times but couldn't have the courage to indulge into one... too much work, I'd rather spend my time on the things I really love. If ever I caught myself indulging, the affair would have been really really worth keeping. Quote Link to comment
temurlenk Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Makipag break muna sa curent GF or mag file ng divorce or annullment sa current spouse bago maghanap ng ibang ka relasyaon. Secret love affairs are not as romantic as it seems, sakit sa ulo yan at puro problema lang ang haharapin nyo everyday hanggat nagtatago kayo, in other words, no peace of mind. I wouldn't recommend it kids. Quote Link to comment
sharkymiketrot Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Play the game but think of the risks (and your long term plan) if you want to level it up. Take note: People will get hurt for sure. Are you ready for this? Just sayin. Quote Link to comment
hala beerah Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 Would You Indulge In A Secret Love Affair?- At some point of our lives, almost everyone had a secret love affair. I think its a combination of the thought of being caught, the excitement it brings and flattering thrill of being with another person that you are not committed or in a serious relationship with.. But as some of us mature, we tend to avoid this kind of set-up. However, some can't get over the cheap and exhilarating feeling that the secret love affair brings, so they keep on doing it... The only question is: Is it really worth it? So if I think if it's really worth it... If it feels good, then it ain't so bad right? So, what the heck, LETS GET IT ON! hahaha Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Ayoko na! I am done hiding, I am done being someone's dirty lil secret. I am done with this. Mahirap yung mabuhay araw araw na me skeletons ka in your closet eh. Sure masaya ka kapiling ng taong mahal mo kahit kakaiba setup. But at some point reality just catches up with you. And when it does, it usually hurts a lot. So ayoko na. Quote Link to comment
dinibdib Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 sikretong malupet yan! Quote Link to comment
THE DESTROYER Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 (edited) secret love affairs are for guilty parties only. Edited April 28, 2015 by THE DESTROYER Quote Link to comment
sharkymiketrot Posted May 1, 2015 Share Posted May 1, 2015 Tempting.. but always ask yourself 100x if its all worth it... Probably yes.. probably not.. but ther should only be one... So hindi na secrer yun.. haha.. ang gulo.. Quote Link to comment
KATTO Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 Depende. If its worth the risk, then yes. Hehehe Quote Link to comment
joshanolin Posted May 5, 2015 Share Posted May 5, 2015 Have done so. But eventually secrets come out. Quote Link to comment
shamrock8691 Posted May 5, 2015 Share Posted May 5, 2015 secret meaning third party? not a good idea Quote Link to comment
firealert Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 ummm why not? todo ingat lang s@%t might hit the fan eh.... Quote Link to comment
ping.guerrero Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 yes i would definitely like to try and experience it Quote Link to comment
babymaker Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 "secret" or "love" my ass... as long as there are no CHILDREN born out of such "affairs" it counts as nothing. When you have extra children between you... now we are talking about something significant. I love babies... the only reason I would get involved... Quote Link to comment
BRAIN FOR HIRE Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 Why complicate life? Don't give yourself a headache. If you need to go off the reservation, maybe its time to re-think and re-negotiate your situation. Quote Link to comment
fusionx1 Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 i agree with brain for hire, re-negotiate when you are at the point of breakage/temptation. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 Im done keeping skeletons in my closet. I am done keeping secrets. I am done looking over my shoulder. Quote Link to comment
femcasanova Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 Cguro kapag akin naman talaga.. naunahan lng ako ng "aksidenteng pagkabuntis" ng naging asawa nya. Or kpg trip ko habang wala p naman akong legit na relationship. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 If for some reason you gotta keep something secret, then most likely you should not be having it. Wala yan magandang kakahinatnan.Sa umpisa dahil masaya, di mo aakalaing mali ginagawa mo. In fact, yung isang bagay na mali, pilit mong itatama ng baluktot na katwiran like..... hindi mali pagmamahalan nyo, mali lang yung sitwasyon. O kaya di na naman sya kasi masaya. O kaya, maaayos din naman yan. Ano mang pangangatwiran, sa huli nagsisinungaling pa din kayo. Dishonest act pa din ito. And reality has a way of biting you in the ass when everything seems to be going well already. It does catch up, and all that bliss turns into pain regret and resentment. All because you chose to do something dishonest. So ako? never! because I don't wanna shortchange myself. Kundi namin kaya panindigan ang isat isa at tago kami ng tago, di bale na lang. Isa pa, di sa pagmamalinis, pero Id like to think na I would not corrupt my values anymore for something like this. So many times in the past I went on the challenge my values dahil akala ko dito ko nahanap fulfillment ko. Too late when I realized Is should have listened Now being older and wiser, I wanna think from here on Ill continue to keep walking a straight path. Quote Link to comment
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