The Janitor Posted June 4, 2020 Share Posted June 4, 2020 We broke up cuz she cheated on me on during our 5th year. I forgave her at first, even the second time around, and due to my stupidity and love for her, I still forgave her the third time around.. 4th time, I gave up. X.X Good for you man, congrats at nagising ka din. Almost the same case; pinatawad ko 1st time. Etong 2nd time nya nagloko, ako na nakipaghiwalay. Quote Link to comment
sanchezZZZzz Posted June 4, 2020 Share Posted June 4, 2020 Good for you man, congrats at nagising ka din. Almost the same case; pinatawad ko 1st time. Etong 2nd time nya nagloko, ako na nakipaghiwalay. nakakatuwa yang story na mga ganyan, kase diba woman will always do it cold bloodedly. They can be loyal to you, and to your ex and to the future boyfriends, its just a turn.. and it hurts us men because we want a loyal woman. we want to make sure that her offspring is our offspring. I hear so much horror stories na pina niwala ni girl na ang ama ng dinadala niya ay ung boyfriend o asawa niya, that is blatantly disrespectful Be better alright? the best revenge is to let them know what they have missed. Because every now and then women check their ex boyfriends to check whats new.. it f#&king hurts them so deeply seeing their guy got so much better in looks, in shape, in life and they effing did not see it coming.. good luck brother!! 1 Quote Link to comment
MatureMom Posted June 4, 2020 Share Posted June 4, 2020 We broke up because I wanted a different flavored salami. 1 Quote Link to comment
The Janitor Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 nakakatuwa yang story na mga ganyan, kase diba woman will always do it cold bloodedly. They can be loyal to you, and to your ex and to the future boyfriends, its just a turn.. and it hurts us men because we want a loyal woman. we want to make sure that her offspring is our offspring. I hear so much horror stories na pina niwala ni girl na ang ama ng dinadala niya ay ung boyfriend o asawa niya, that is blatantly disrespectful Be better alright? the best revenge is to let them know what they have missed. Because every now and then women check their ex boyfriends to check whats new.. it f#&king hurts them so deeply seeing their guy got so much better in looks, in shape, in life and they effing did not see it coming.. good luck brother!! Haha thanks, man. No relationship is perfect. I screwed up sa ibang decisions that affected us both, pero di ako nagloko sa ilang taon naming pagsasama kahit pa mas marami syang sablay kesa sakin. I admitted my mistakes and did something about them. Bumawi ako. The problem is, it was too late. It doesn't matter kung babae ka or lalake ka sa relationship na pinasok mo, ang importante pag ayaw mo na, strap on a pair and say so, hindi yung ilalabas mo frustrations mo by sleeping around and justify your actions by blaming your partner kasi they screwed up, or that they're not enough, etc etc lalo kung narcissist sya, you're the only one to blame kahit pa siya nagloko. You're the reason and her / his actions are completely justified. By the time na nagkabistuhan the 2nd time she fooled around with a co-worker, I landed a promising job. I'm earning enough for the kids (yeah, we're married. Just my luck). Bumabawi ako sa lahat ng pagkukulang ko sa kanila nung nawalan ako ng work kasi I decided to pursue my passion which she supported (pero hindi pala. she secretly hated me for it). We were set na maghiwalay late last year. We both agreed na sige, wala na ito na yun. Let's be civil para sa mga bata. Then recently, gusto nya "ayusin" kung ano meron kami. She said, nakikita nya nag i-improve ako sa responsibilities ko, sa kung panu ako focused sa career ko para sa mga bata, sa physical transformation ko (got more tats and starting to lose weight. wala eh, I needed the distraction), sa mga future plans ko, etc etc. No. Andun na yung fear na pagnagka problema kami uli, she'll resent me again and then find comfort na naman sa iba. First sign of trouble, she goes running. No, no no. NO.NO.NO. Quote Link to comment
Donabelle_Tisay Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 He left me kasi napromote ako to be the boss of his boss. Quote Link to comment
sanchezZZZzz Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 Haha thanks, man. No relationship is perfect. I screwed up sa ibang decisions that affected us both, pero di ako nagloko sa ilang taon naming pagsasama kahit pa mas marami syang sablay kesa sakin. I admitted my mistakes and did something about them. Bumawi ako. The problem is, it was too late. It doesn't matter kung babae ka or lalake ka sa relationship na pinasok mo, ang importante pag ayaw mo na, strap on a pair and say so, hindi yung ilalabas mo frustrations mo by sleeping around and justify your actions by blaming your partner kasi they screwed up, or that they're not enough, etc etc lalo kung narcissist sya, you're the only one to blame kahit pa siya nagloko. You're the reason and her / his actions are completely justified. By the time na nagkabistuhan the 2nd time she fooled around with a co-worker, I landed a promising job. I'm earning enough for the kids (yeah, we're married. Just my luck). Bumabawi ako sa lahat ng pagkukulang ko sa kanila nung nawalan ako ng work kasi I decided to pursue my passion which she supported (pero hindi pala. she secretly hated me for it). We were set na maghiwalay late last year. We both agreed na sige, wala na ito na yun. Let's be civil para sa mga bata. Then recently, gusto nya "ayusin" kung ano meron kami. She said, nakikita nya nag i-improve ako sa responsibilities ko, sa kung panu ako focused sa career ko para sa mga bata, sa physical transformation ko (got more tats and starting to lose weight. wala eh, I needed the distraction), sa mga future plans ko, etc etc. No. Andun na yung fear na pagnagka problema kami uli, she'll resent me again and then find comfort na naman sa iba. First sign of trouble, she goes running. No, no no. NO.NO.NO.sabe nga, "when our woman lost interest in us, we can pin-point the blame on ourselves but when they sleep around with other men it is not anymore our fault. It is a woman's fault". it is only their pussy that they have to look for and they give it away for free to other tyrone, now they've lost an upperhand.. may nasabe ka na parang kasal pala kayo,all the laws are in-favor of women. The laws are design to rape men with his financial.. get a hold of yourself brader ah, I am glad you are in control of your driving seat.. if you wanna go that way, go that way no matter what cos a woman should be a compliment to your life, a cherry on a sundae cos you are the cherry. **we broke up because i said i love you.. If you want a woman to make her leave, say i love you 3x a day for 1month she is gonna leave you, maybe not yet physically but emotionally shes gonna lose interest. If you truly love a woman, do not say that you love her 1 Quote Link to comment
Cathlebas Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 Because there was never an us.. Quote Link to comment
Cathlebas Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 Glad you found yourself. Haha thanks, man. No relationship is perfect. I screwed up sa ibang decisions that affected us both, pero di ako nagloko sa ilang taon naming pagsasama kahit pa mas marami syang sablay kesa sakin. I admitted my mistakes and did something about them. Bumawi ako. The problem is, it was too late. It doesn't matter kung babae ka or lalake ka sa relationship na pinasok mo, ang importante pag ayaw mo na, strap on a pair and say so, hindi yung ilalabas mo frustrations mo by sleeping around and justify your actions by blaming your partner kasi they screwed up, or that they're not enough, etc etc lalo kung narcissist sya, you're the only one to blame kahit pa siya nagloko. You're the reason and her / his actions are completely justified. By the time na nagkabistuhan the 2nd time she fooled around with a co-worker, I landed a promising job. I'm earning enough for the kids (yeah, we're married. Just my luck). Bumabawi ako sa lahat ng pagkukulang ko sa kanila nung nawalan ako ng work kasi I decided to pursue my passion which she supported (pero hindi pala. she secretly hated me for it). We were set na maghiwalay late last year. We both agreed na sige, wala na ito na yun. Let's be civil para sa mga bata. Then recently, gusto nya "ayusin" kung ano meron kami. She said, nakikita nya nag i-improve ako sa responsibilities ko, sa kung panu ako focused sa career ko para sa mga bata, sa physical transformation ko (got more tats and starting to lose weight. wala eh, I needed the distraction), sa mga future plans ko, etc etc. No. Andun na yung fear na pagnagka problema kami uli, she'll resent me again and then find comfort na naman sa iba. First sign of trouble, she goes running. No, no no. NO.NO.NO. 1 Quote Link to comment
PlainJane Posted June 12, 2020 Share Posted June 12, 2020 My first boyfriend and I broke up because I was convinced at that time of taking the righteous path, religiom was a big deal back then but yes here I am, doing the exact opposite haha #teendramas Quote Link to comment
A_Fat_Man_Inside Posted June 13, 2020 Share Posted June 13, 2020 my own parental & familial issues & insecurities which are the realities i have to live with while in Philippines, even though i have lost a lot of finances to being swindled for opportunities outside the country (not earning enough, uber traditional mentality, demanding ladies, etc) i was forced to drop a lady i really loved, even tough i had accepted but had to keep a lifetime secret that she aborted her 1st child, after finding out she was the mistress of her married ex, and was the daughter of a mistress. she is half pinay, half chinese. but neither trained nor spoke Chinese (which my family & relatives are uber strict about) she is also supporting her family, as her brother & mother were unemployed, with her dad not giving a crap to them Quote Link to comment
aStro_ Posted July 3, 2020 Share Posted July 3, 2020 My then s.o. was an achiver. I was then, as someone from her family described, mediocre at best. I never really minded what they thought of me. But as the years went by and she achived so, so much I saw myself left behind by this person I barely understood. I didn't even know how to interact with her then current friends. Most of the time I did not even know what they were talking about. All those jargons and inside jokes. Looking back i can described myself as a monkey on top of a tree, laughing along this group of people having a good time. I did'nt know what was funny, they laughed so I laughed. But still I felt proud of myself, above them, because i was on top of my tree. In our journey together we stumbled upon a fork in the road. Our path divereged while i kept myself always looking back on the road we had taken together. The moment that i had looked in fornt of me she was already so far along her own road. I did not even tried to catch up. We both knew what had to be done. I couldn't, so she did Quote Link to comment
Princess100 Posted September 7, 2020 Share Posted September 7, 2020 Because ma pride xa ayaw tumangap ng mali or pgkataloSecond mas priority nya mga frnds nya kesa skn mas gsto nya mkipg inuman s mga frnds kesa asikasuhin aqThird merun n xang iba ahaha Quote Link to comment
Ms. V Posted September 7, 2020 Share Posted September 7, 2020 mahilig sya sa party party (3rd party) 1 Quote Link to comment
moan13 Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 We broke up because i took her for granted. 1 Quote Link to comment
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