We Broke-up Because...

[The Janitor]

nakakatuwa yang story na mga ganyan, kase diba woman will always do it cold bloodedly. They can be loyal to you, and to your ex and to the future boyfriends, its just a turn.. and it hurts us men because we want a loyal woman. we want to make sure that her offspring is our offspring. I hear so much horror stories na pina niwala ni girl na ang ama ng dinadala niya ay ung boyfriend o asawa niya, that is blatantly disrespectful

 

Be better alright? the best revenge is to let them know what they have missed. Because every now and then women check their ex boyfriends to check whats new.. it f#&king hurts them so deeply seeing their guy got so much better in looks, in shape, in life and they effing did not see it coming.. good luck brother!!

 

Haha thanks, man. No relationship is perfect. I screwed up sa ibang decisions that affected us both, pero di ako nagloko sa ilang taon naming pagsasama kahit pa mas marami syang sablay kesa sakin. I admitted my mistakes and did something about them. Bumawi ako. The problem is, it was too late. It doesn't matter kung babae ka or lalake ka sa relationship na pinasok mo, ang importante pag ayaw mo na, strap on a pair and say so, hindi yung ilalabas mo frustrations mo by sleeping around and justify your actions by blaming your partner kasi they screwed up, or that they're not enough, etc etc lalo kung narcissist sya, you're the only one to blame kahit pa siya nagloko. You're the reason and her / his actions are completely justified.

 

By the time na nagkabistuhan the 2nd time she fooled around with a co-worker, I landed a promising job. I'm earning enough for the kids (yeah, we're married. Just my luck). Bumabawi ako sa lahat ng pagkukulang ko sa kanila nung nawalan ako ng work kasi I decided to pursue my passion which she supported (pero hindi pala. she secretly hated me for it). We were set na maghiwalay late last year. We both agreed na sige, wala na ito na yun. Let's be civil para sa mga bata. Then recently, gusto nya "ayusin" kung ano meron kami. She said, nakikita nya nag i-improve ako sa responsibilities ko, sa kung panu ako focused sa career ko para sa mga bata, sa physical transformation ko (got more tats and starting to lose weight. wala eh, I needed the distraction), sa mga future plans ko, etc etc.

 

No.

 

Andun na yung fear na pagnagka problema kami uli, she'll resent me again and then find comfort na naman sa iba. First sign of trouble, she goes running. No, no no.

 

NO.

NO.

NO.

[Donabelle_Tisay]

He left me kasi napromote ako to be the boss of his boss.

[sanchezZZZzz]

Haha thanks, man. No relationship is perfect. I screwed up sa ibang decisions that affected us both, pero di ako nagloko sa ilang taon naming pagsasama kahit pa mas marami syang sablay kesa sakin. I admitted my mistakes and did something about them. Bumawi ako. The problem is, it was too late. It doesn't matter kung babae ka or lalake ka sa relationship na pinasok mo, ang importante pag ayaw mo na, strap on a pair and say so, hindi yung ilalabas mo frustrations mo by sleeping around and justify your actions by blaming your partner kasi they screwed up, or that they're not enough, etc etc lalo kung narcissist sya, you're the only one to blame kahit pa siya nagloko. You're the reason and her / his actions are completely justified.

 

By the time na nagkabistuhan the 2nd time she fooled around with a co-worker, I landed a promising job. I'm earning enough for the kids (yeah, we're married. Just my luck). Bumabawi ako sa lahat ng pagkukulang ko sa kanila nung nawalan ako ng work kasi I decided to pursue my passion which she supported (pero hindi pala. she secretly hated me for it). We were set na maghiwalay late last year. We both agreed na sige, wala na ito na yun. Let's be civil para sa mga bata. Then recently, gusto nya "ayusin" kung ano meron kami. She said, nakikita nya nag i-improve ako sa responsibilities ko, sa kung panu ako focused sa career ko para sa mga bata, sa physical transformation ko (got more tats and starting to lose weight. wala eh, I needed the distraction), sa mga future plans ko, etc etc.

 

No.

 

Andun na yung fear na pagnagka problema kami uli, she'll resent me again and then find comfort na naman sa iba. First sign of trouble, she goes running. No, no no.

 

NO.

NO.

NO.

sabe nga, "when our woman lost interest in us, we can pin-point the blame on ourselves but when they sleep around with other men it is not anymore our fault. It is a woman's fault". it is only their pussy that they have to look for and they give it away for free to other tyrone, now they've lost an upperhand.. may nasabe ka na parang kasal pala kayo,all the laws are in-favor of women. The laws are design to rape men with his financial.. get a hold of yourself brader ah, I am glad you are in control of your driving seat.. if you wanna go that way, go that way no matter what cos a woman should be a compliment to your life, a cherry on a sundae cos you are the cherry.

 

 

**we broke up because i said i love you.. If you want a woman to make her leave, say i love you 3x a day for 1month she is gonna leave you, maybe not yet physically but emotionally shes gonna lose interest. If you truly love a woman, do not say that you love her

[Cathlebas]

Because there was never an us..

[Cathlebas]

Glad you found yourself.

 

Haha thanks, man. No relationship is perfect. I screwed up sa ibang decisions that affected us both, pero di ako nagloko sa ilang taon naming pagsasama kahit pa mas marami syang sablay kesa sakin. I admitted my mistakes and did something about them. Bumawi ako. The problem is, it was too late. It doesn't matter kung babae ka or lalake ka sa relationship na pinasok mo, ang importante pag ayaw mo na, strap on a pair and say so, hindi yung ilalabas mo frustrations mo by sleeping around and justify your actions by blaming your partner kasi they screwed up, or that they're not enough, etc etc lalo kung narcissist sya, you're the only one to blame kahit pa siya nagloko. You're the reason and her / his actions are completely justified.

 

By the time na nagkabistuhan the 2nd time she fooled around with a co-worker, I landed a promising job. I'm earning enough for the kids (yeah, we're married. Just my luck). Bumabawi ako sa lahat ng pagkukulang ko sa kanila nung nawalan ako ng work kasi I decided to pursue my passion which she supported (pero hindi pala. she secretly hated me for it). We were set na maghiwalay late last year. We both agreed na sige, wala na ito na yun. Let's be civil para sa mga bata. Then recently, gusto nya "ayusin" kung ano meron kami. She said, nakikita nya nag i-improve ako sa responsibilities ko, sa kung panu ako focused sa career ko para sa mga bata, sa physical transformation ko (got more tats and starting to lose weight. wala eh, I needed the distraction), sa mga future plans ko, etc etc.

 

No.

 

Andun na yung fear na pagnagka problema kami uli, she'll resent me again and then find comfort na naman sa iba. First sign of trouble, she goes running. No, no no.

 

NO.

NO.

NO.

[PlainJane]

My first boyfriend and I broke up because I was convinced at that time of taking the righteous path, religiom was a big deal back then but yes here I am, doing the exact opposite haha #teendramas

[A_Fat_Man_Inside]

my own parental & familial issues & insecurities which are the realities i have to live with while in Philippines, even though i have lost a lot of finances to being swindled for opportunities outside the country (not earning enough, uber traditional mentality, demanding ladies, etc)

 

i was forced to drop a lady i really loved, even tough i had accepted but had to keep a lifetime secret that she aborted her 1st child, after finding out she was the mistress of her married ex, and was the daughter of a mistress.

 

she is half pinay, half chinese. but neither trained nor spoke Chinese (which my family & relatives are uber strict about)

 

she is also supporting her family, as her brother & mother were unemployed, with her dad not giving a crap to them

[aStro_]

My then s.o. was an achiver. I was then, as someone from her family described, mediocre at best. I never really minded what they thought of me. But as the years went by and she achived so, so much I saw myself left behind by this person I barely understood. I didn't even know how to interact with her then current friends. Most of the time I did not even know what they were talking about. All those jargons and inside jokes. Looking back i can described myself as a monkey on top of a tree, laughing along this group of people having a good time. I did'nt know what was funny, they laughed so I laughed. But still I felt proud of myself, above them, because i was on top of my tree.

 

In our journey together we stumbled upon a fork in the road. Our path divereged while i kept myself always looking back on the road we had taken together. The moment that i had looked in fornt of me she was already so far along her own road. I did not even tried to catch up.

 

We both knew what had to be done.

 

I couldn't, so she did

[Princess100]

Because ma pride xa ayaw tumangap ng mali or pgkatalo

Second mas priority nya mga frnds nya kesa skn mas gsto nya mkipg inuman s mga frnds kesa asikasuhin aq

Third merun n xang iba ahaha

[Ms. V]

mahilig sya sa party party (3rd party)

[moan13]

We broke up because i took her for granted.

[🤪]

Ang dami kasi hirap imaintain lagi nahuhuli. Nkka guilty mga decente pa nmn. They deserve better.

Per kilo nlng

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

Sugar mommy dating ko. Hahahaahaha

[Paui]

We broke up because ....

. . . I cheated on her,

. . . focus daw muna sya sa studies nya,

. . . cousin ko pala sya,

. . . religion issues,

. . . she's too demanding,

. . . focus sa career and ayaw muna ng expectations,

. . . I am not that ready to accept her excess baggage

[plug]

Presently I am on the verge of ending a relation pero how it will happen parang nakabitin pa.

It started when I agreed for her to stop from working in a spa and start her own business. So while she was preparing the business I provided her needs in school. Siya at kanyang nakakabatang mga kapatid ay umaasa sa kanilang hiwalay na ina sa pagtitinda.

We see each other from time to time while she monitors her business after school. Kontento na marahil siya dahil wala akong naririnig na reklamo o problema. For me I was already thinking of ending the relation dahil di naman talaga ako nakikipagtagalan sa mga katulad niya at di ko naman tatanggapin na siya ang aking maging asawa. So nasa situwasyon ako na nagsawa na marahil. Also my practice is to put a certain budget that I can afford to an individual and I have to cut the relation if it will go beyond or if I am not happy with her anymore.

Then came the lockdown this March so she has to close her business naapektuhan pati yung pnagkikitaan ng kanyang ina. Di na rin kami nagkikita kundi text messages or calls. Habang tumatagal ang lockdown paubos ng paubos naman ang kanilang dapat pagkakitaan. By June she started asking for help. Marahil may kasalbahihan din ako dahil naisip ko na gawing excuses ang restrictions ng lockdown to personally give my help. She knows me only by my false nickname because I never give or will not give my real identity even my address. This is my own policy para sa aking bisyo. For this reason I can not send her money using those padala systems. Also I only know her real first name and never ask for more even her exact address. I normally drop her near her place even though she invited me to her house several times. Her mother knows she is in relation dahil sa kanyang business na nasabi niyang tulong ng kanyang boyfriend.

Kasama na rin na parang tinitiis ko siya so my plan is to wait for her to stop the relation by her own way rather than it will come from me. Ayoko rin naman makipag argue just to end the relation. I normally just stop communicating or just disappear even to decent girls. Or maybe I still like her.

However, I was wrong because she is persistent with her messages.

Namiss lang kita tagal na natin di nag kikita…………...

Kahit di mo ko love okay lang...………...

Panatag ako kasi sayo dahil mabait ka sakin miss talaga kita sa totoo lang...….

 

Mag kikita din tayo mag karoon lang talaga ng vaccine diba? Di mo naman ako nakakalimutan diba…..

 

Siyempre noong time na kelangan ko lage tulong ni minsan di mo ko pinabayaan , miss na miss na kita sana ako din miss mo....

 

Miss na kita ………………………………………………....Ganoon ka pa rin ba sa akin na wala na akong nagagawa para sa iyo

Okay lang at least di tayo nawawalan communication basta lage ka mag iingat………..

 

So she wanted the communication to continue.

Then nagpasabi siyang titigil sa pagaaral at maghahanap ng trabaho muna dahil marahil nakaramdam na malabong umasa na siya sa akin. Di naman binanggit kung may balak pa siyang bumalik sa spa na di ko naman din inungkat.

Maybe once nagkatrabaho at kumikita na doon na siiya dahan dahan lalayo sa akin. Aayon na lang ako sa mangyayari at tanggap ko naman matapos na ang relasyon.

Why I like her? The best convincing personality of her is her acceptance of being unfortunate in life in short kapos. She is meek, subtle and submissive. She is quite simple with nothing hanging to adorn her and innocent on some matters. Masasabi din na mababaw ang kaligayahan. I think all she wanted is na makaraos ng maayos.

She was advertised by her former spa as a car show model but she has no idea what a car show model is.

Hindi palagay ko katulad siya ng said to be a car show model as promoted in another spa na pag nakaharap mo the thera doesn't look like a model but more of a car na dilapidated pa. Kung sabagay part of business strategy.