saeed Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 NO! and she better move the hell fast out of my sight... Quote Link to comment
sulatanmoko Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 for me, it's harder to say i'm sorry. i don't say i love you just to anyone if i don't mean it. Quote Link to comment
gherome Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Saying "I love you" .... as you're supposed to mean it... Quote Link to comment
vanna Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 no. i can never trust the guy again after being unfaithful. Quote Link to comment
OscarLopez Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 its game over na pag ganon. pag nakipag commit kasi ako sya lang talaga no matter what. if she cant be content with me, what's the point of being in a committed relationship? Quote Link to comment
ligtasan Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 NO. She betrayed you once, she'll do it again. If you're stupid and forgive her you deserve any pain you get when she betrays you again. Quote Link to comment
Eddy Syet Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 The hardest thing for me to say would be telling someone that I don't love her anymore knowing that she's still very much in love with me... Quote Link to comment
gherome Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 No... waste of time...if she did that, then she's not worth fighting for... Quote Link to comment
wynona_20fqc Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 (edited) i wont stay in a relationship lalo na kung nagcheat na yung guy..dahil baka pag naging kami ulit eh ako naman ang magloko,.mas mahirap naman yun diba? Edited February 24, 2008 by wynona_20fqc Quote Link to comment
mwah Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 Many factors can lead to cheating - neglect, loneliness, boredom, hurt, revenge, or even lack of communication - but whatever the reason is, it would never be good enough. Nobody's perfect so no relationship is perfect. Unfortunately, cheating is a fact of life. It happens. It erodes trust, fosters a sense of insecurity and lack of respect. A person who chooses to be in this kind of relationship should be strong enough to take responsibility to work things out or get out. If my significant other would be humble enough to admit that he cheated, then I'd probably forgive him but it comes with higher costs and higher expectations. Quote Link to comment
1800donttry Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 Saying "I Love You" is harder for because when you say that you're sorry, you know what you're giving up and you know you're letting go of your proud so it really couldn't get worse. When you say, "I love you," you're giving up so much more and you also don't know if the person's gonna reciprocate it (at least not the first time that you say it) so it's scarier. Quote Link to comment
1800donttry Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 I know I should reconsider but most probably NO. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I can forgive but it's not easy to forget. Trust is very important in a relationship but napansin ko sa sarili ko, madali akong mag-give ng trust sa isang tao but if given a reason to not trust someone, di na maibabalik yung initial trust ko. Fortunately, I've never been in this situation. Quote Link to comment
tsoisecret Posted February 24, 2008 Share Posted February 24, 2008 i am sorry... Quote Link to comment
gandararugu Posted February 25, 2008 Share Posted February 25, 2008 (edited) Depends on the circumstance, who's involved and how long I've been with that person. There's a variety of factors, however there's no hope for a 2nd chance if there is no forgiveness. Edited February 25, 2008 by gandararugu Quote Link to comment
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