tobertsarcher Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 if she would cheat on me then i would cheat on her..so call it quits.... then go on separate ways...find a girl who would say i am the last man for her.... Quote Link to comment
imagirl Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 im sorry for asking this, but is there any way for you to find out if your partner is cheating on you? Quote Link to comment
rhenyecis Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 im a married guy and came from a broken family. if my wife cheated on me? will be going on our separate way and my kids stay with me. Quote Link to comment
n2ny Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 no, if that happens its time to move on Quote Link to comment
n2ny Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 yes there is if you are willling, some people turns a blindeye to them coz they are afraid to face the consequence im sorry for asking this, but is there any way for you to find out if your partner is cheating on you? Quote Link to comment
wizard23 Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 if my partner cheated on me? God forbid, i don't know.... i'll cross the bridge when i get there. but my impulse is to forgive if you really love your partner. Quote Link to comment
imogen Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 darnit.... CHOKESLAM! Quote Link to comment
bigdaddysmooth Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 NO....move on!!! Quote Link to comment
Dr.Love Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 I'll forgive if I really love her... Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 (edited) cheating, in any manner, in any form, is a sign of discontent. I'd most likely let him be, since that is what he wants...and i'd be more than willing to set him free of any obligation and guilt. Ganun ako kabait. I'd have to cut the ties, though, and move on. It's utterly useless to dwell on something which is based on lies, deceit, and false foundation....and it would be totally wrong, likewise, to prioritize someone to whom I am clearly just an option. Edited November 18, 2007 by angel_by_day Quote Link to comment
Hush Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 its my nature to save everything that i believe can still be saved from a relationship.. so i olweiz give second chances.. and in the end, it olweiz turns out they don't deserve it.. and some of them thinks its ok to do it again coz u proved that u love them that much & u will forgive them anyway.. guess, i just never learn... Quote Link to comment
noel1224 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 i'm a kind of person that's very kind and open minded..even though i looked so tough my loved one is always my weak point..on my last relationship i had a gf from pampanga her name is jhen..our relationship started last janunary 6, 2007..on the 7th of febuary i recieved a news that she was cheating on me..at first i didn't mind that news..and then on the 23rd of the same month o friend of her told me that jhen was to be married to another man..because of that news i immediately told her to go here in lucena..so she went here and we lived together for 2 months..while she was living here with me i asked her about the rumors that i was receiving in the past few days..at first she denied it but later on she admitted it and asked for forgiveness and because i loved her so much i instantly forgave her..and then on the 27th of may she told me that she want to go back to pampanga because she misses her family specially her son jr..even though i don't want her to go there i granted her wish because i only want her to be happy..then on our 5th monthly aniversary she told me that she want to start our family and she wants us to be married..i was so happy to hear that but the there was a big problem..i'm still studying and i don't have any money for our wedding so i decided to stop my studying and to find a work so that i can save money for our wedding..then on the 12th of may i received a news from her mother that jhen was cancelling our marriage because she was already getting married with another guy on that same date..even though i have given her everything, done everything just to make her happy i recieved this kind of treatment from her.. and i have now realized that any form of cheating is bullshit!!and once someone has cheated and you forgave him/her he/she will just do the same thing over and over becease he/she knows that you are always willing to forgive them.. Quote Link to comment
noel1224 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 I stayed. It takes a lot of strength and endurance to stay with someone who has cheated on you. And a lot of prayers. Yup I agree with that but the fact that he/she would do it again knowing that we will forgive them again. Quote Link to comment
balotolab Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 I'm sorry kasi pride mo as an individual ang nakataya e Quote Link to comment
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