Switlass Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 (edited) Its better NOT to get caught! ;-) I still disagree. Though some poor unfortunate souls *scroll few posts up* assume that infidelity is to be accepted, it's still not right. Better not to get caught? Sis, better not to do it. To have something to hide is to give up any claim to peaceful relationship. pa inglis inglis pa kayo! kayong mga babae kasi ayw ninyo ng niloloko kayo! ayaw nyo pang tanggapin ang realidad, kayo ay tagapaglingkod lang ng mga lalaki! at yun ang totoo! hindi ninyo ba alam o nagbubulagbulagan lang kayo? bilyong beses na na niloko ng lalaki si babae sa istorya ng mundo! kaya wag na kayong magpa tweetums effect! yan lang ang papel nyo talaga, girls! That's an intresting thought. Did you just cross over from the Medieval Ages? Welcome to 2005 Edited October 20, 2005 by Switlass Quote Link to comment
cactusjack Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 kayo naman masyado kayong mga isnabera sa personal...aminin nyo na! talagang ganyan lang ang papel nyo sa mundo....hirap aminin pag totoo ano? medieval? 2005? kayo ang gumising, kailanman nakatatak na sa inyong mga babae na palamuti lang kayo sa aming mga lalaki kaya pag niloko kayo talagang ganun. yun lang naman ang papel nyo ang magpaloko sa aming mga lalaki! har! har! har! :boo: Quote Link to comment
boglish Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 if you are not yet married.. like bf gf pa lang.. ok lang mag cheat wag lang pahuli.. kapag married ka na. ok din lang mag cheat basta wag kalilimutan ang mga responsibilidad sa family... cheating to others is a way to have fun.. life is short.. so enjoy.... Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 I still disagree. Though some poor unfortunate souls *scroll few posts up* assume that infidelity is to be accepted, it's still not right. Better not to get caught? Sis, better not to do it. To have something to hide is to give up any claim to peaceful relationship. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Infidelity is still a sin and should not be accepted, but we all know that this is happening, this is a reality. Alam naman natin, lalo na sa mga lalake, na hindi minsan madali ung maging totally faithful ka sa partner mo. Kasi andaming factors e, andyan na ung nakakantyawan ka ng mga barkada mo, or kaya ung gusto mo ring ma experience ung feeling na magkarun ng ibang partner. Pero as i said, hindi naman ibig sabihin nun na hindi mo na mahal ung partner mo, kaya the best thing na lang is to accept the person, and don't discuss anymore the issue. Kaso the more you dwell on the issue, the more na magkakarun ng lamat ung pagsasama niyo. Unlike kung i accept mo na lang siya, give all the trust, and live a new life with him, im sure mas lalong titibay ang pagsasama ninyo. Well, i have to make an exception, kasi may mga lalake din na talagang unfaithfull na, irresponsible pa at walang iniisip kung hindi mambabae ng mambabae. With this kind of person, of course mas maganda na iwanan mo na lang. Quote Link to comment
simple2905 Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 kung mahal mo bakit hindi...give him another chance! as long as wala ka sa ganyang sitwasyon mahirap magsalita ng tapos!!! Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 i feel that the right thing to do is to let go because it really is hard to accept kasi how can you move on and forgive if the person involved wont even say sorry kasi nga pinaninidigan na walang ginawang masama. but you know, this happened to me and i did give the guy a second chance. see, magulo <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hindi naman kailangan sabihin ung "sorry" word para iparamdam mo sa partner mo na u feel sorry talaga e. There are so many ways para iparamdam mo kanya na u really feel sorry sa nangyari without letting her realize na may ginawa ka ngang kasalanan sa kanya. Anyway medyo O.T: I'm quite sure that what you did, by giving him another chance, is the right thing to do Goodluck! Quote Link to comment
chikideng Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 f u really love that person, giving him or her a second chance is stilla gud decision. however, u shud be stronger ds tym. and always keep in mind thatif he did it once, he can do it again. Quote Link to comment
bill lomita Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 if she's just a gf with no legal commitment, let her go. . . but if there will be legal impediments, maybe take another chance, for the sake of the kids, if there are kids (and if they are yours). . . OT: for the barbaric poster, a little respect for the ladies please, cause you also came from the womb of a woman, unless you are an experiment gone awry. . . Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 whatever the reason for his/her cheating on you, IT WILL NOT BE ACCEPTABLE!!!! KUNG HINDI NA KAYO MASAYA SA RELATIONSHIP NYO E D MAGHIWALAY NG MAAYOS!!! Bakit kailangan pang lokohin ang partner nyo which you loved once!!! that's being SELFISH, INCONSIDERATE, and most of all STUPID!!! my two cents worth po!!! peace!!!! :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
kilawin Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 We live in a world of double standards, even our laws favors us men and there is a very valid reason behind the intent of these laws. In conclusion, if your husband cheated on you, forgive him for the sake of the children. Better yet dont get caught! However, if your wife cheated on you, that's a different story, It's inforgiveable, since the child she might bear may not be yours. Quote Link to comment
poknat Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 Christ forgave our sins, who are we not to give someone ( husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend ) another chance. Is that the price he/she must have to pay? :sick:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> we can forgive someone and not get back in a relationship with them naman eh diba? and to answer the topic question. NO, i wouldnt stay. Quote Link to comment
asungot Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 Yes you should pero pag nagmumuka ka nang tanga...tapos ginagago ka pa rin,,,mahirap ata yun...dba? Quote Link to comment
russ Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 hhmmmm... everybody deserves a second chance... if the relationship is worth saving, yes i would continue the relationship pero if she cheated on me tapos she did it coz shes bored or something, pare parang nakakalalake di ba... pero kung yung second chance mo eh niloko mo pa, ibang usapan na yun... Quote Link to comment
devil_lance Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 (edited) For me, I can forgive, but it's still goodbye. Friends nalang, because it's gonna be hard for me to forget her infidelity. The experience will haunt me and i will never be able to recover, the relationship will suffer lang kung itutuloy pa. Edited October 25, 2005 by devil_lance Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 we can forgive someone and not get back in a relationship with them naman eh diba? and to answer the topic question. NO, i wouldnt stay.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> you are sooo right pareng poknat... u can forgive pero getting back into the relationship is another thing... Yes you should pero pag nagmumuka ka nang tanga...tapos ginagago ka pa rin,,,mahirap ata yun...dba?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> right on dude! hhmmmm... everybody deserves a second chance... if the relationship is worth saving, yes i would continue the relationship pero if she cheated on me tapos she did it coz shes bored or something, pare parang nakakalalake di ba...pero kung yung second chance mo eh niloko mo pa, ibang usapan na yun...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> tama ka dyan pareng russel... fool me once, shame on you... fool me twice, shame on me!! For me, I can forgive, but it's still goodbye. Friends nalang, because it's gonna be hard for me to forget her infidelity. The experience will haunt me and i will never be able to recover, the relationship will suffer lang kung itutuloy pa.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i agree with you pareng devil... pag may lamat na ang relationship, mahirap na talaga! you will always be haunted with what she/he did... the relationship might never be the same... some relationships grow stronger, some break apart... di mo talaga masabi Quote Link to comment
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