sexygurlie07 Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 i been cheated once..twice...sabi nga sa quote once is enough.two is too muchand three is a poison that kills a person,..Nung una I forgive him..second I forgive him againon third parang nakakasawa pala..immune kana situation pero sawa kna..sabi nga khit na gaano ngkamali if true love tlga you would be blind sa katotohanan..pero kahit powerful pala ang love dadating ung point na u would totally give up at magiging zero ung love mo sa kanya..Love is all about sacrifice pero wag naman abusuhin..Dahil pinapatawad ko siya paulit ulit na lng niyang gngawa ksi alam nia mahal ko siya kaya papatawarin ko siya..BASTA REMEMBER IF NAGAWA KA NIYANG LOKOHIN MAGAGAWA PA NIA IN THE FUTURE..KASI PARANG LANG CIRCLE YAN..NO END..PAULIT ULIT..BE CAREFUL ON LOVING TOO MUCH.. Quote Link to comment
mightbeyou Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 BASTA REMEMBER IF NAGAWA KA NIYANG LOKOHIN MAGAGAWA PA NIA IN THE FUTURE..KASI PARANG LANG CIRCLE YAN..NO END..PAULIT ULIT..BE CAREFUL ON LOVING TOO MUCH..   :goatee: i agree to all your previous statements aside for the above quoted one...wouldnt it be unfair for someone who has proved his worth and has really, honest to goodness, changed for the better, if we would have the presumption that since s/he has been guilty of it once, s/he is capable of doing it again in the future...it hasnt occurred yet and we cant predict the future to say that that person would do it again...therefore, i would be compassionate enough to let her explain her side and open up...a good conversation without the angst would help us resolve the conflict...then most probably we could compromise regarding the situation...after which, i would let her decide...what option does she want to take...does she want to continue or would she want to walk away...being the man in the relationship, i would accept whatever decision she makes...so if she decides to stay, i would gladly embrace her back...this time making sure that the reason for her infidelity would be filled up by me... :goatee: Quote Link to comment
edzpak Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 kung first time pede siguro pagbigyan. dahil mahal ko sya, benefit of the doubt. sort things out, kung ako me mali. Â pero kung umulit. thats the end of it. Â di naman ako manhid para di masaktan. Quote Link to comment
jayvee75 Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 for me, the girl wont be given a second chance...kc we are talking about cheating here....cguro kung ibang problem pwede pa, pero cheating?? no way.. Quote Link to comment
YuujiXD Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Pwede pa siguro pagbigyan sa 1st offence. You could talk things over and figure out on what went wrong. Dun mo naman mara-rationalize kung pwede pa ba or hindi. Pero if the 2nd time comes, ibang usapan na yan siguro Quote Link to comment
SNAKE05 Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 medyo kuryente ito ehh wag maasar ang mga girl ha pag ako naoko hiwalay na pero sana pag ako nanloko patawarin naman wala ehh boys will be boysssssss Quote Link to comment
verynaughty Posted October 3, 2009 Share Posted October 3, 2009 What about if he has been secretly cheaating/f#&king other women for more than 10 years - with different women and even sired a child (again secretly)? Or possibly there are more children elsewhere?? I may never know .............. The women he f#&ks around are not all the GROs, CGs, or "paid" ones Most are women willing to sin - - plain fubu, GFs, mistress, kabit, or whatever you call them........... What do you guys and gals think? Should I still forgive and forget and keep the relationship? I have forgiven him once too many, many years ago - but I guess ONCE A PHILANDER ALWAYS A PHILANDER - ONE DOES NOT CHANGE at all no matter what they say - Maybe titigil lang siya pag hindi na gumagana ang totoy niya. Quote Link to comment
ron2b1l Posted October 3, 2009 Share Posted October 3, 2009 NO!!!!!! :thumbsdownsmiley: Â Â kc pag ngwa n nya ng isng beses un... kyang kya n nyang ulitin ulit...... no space for forgiveness... :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
UglyTruthGuy Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 let's put the bar higher. What if the guy cheats but already has kids with you. Now my question is this: Should the girl continue on with the relationship or marriage, just to let the children grow up with a father? Quote Link to comment
AutoPimp Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 It might be easy to say "no more" and let go than go through with the relationship thinking that it might happen again. However, yeah it might be easier but sometimes the aftermath of the letting go can be so grim that it would really bring you down to depths you've never been before. One might think it's fair to leave, since the gf/bf cheated already and I do believe that being fair is good, but can you be fair when your heart and your brain doesn't want you to? My principle is to gather the facts first before I make a move especially something that could make or brake me. The main reason why she cheated might be me in the first place. If that's the case then I could accept her again and again and again. The catch is that I learn, I learn quick and I do my best not to do the same mistakes again, so that wont give her the same reason as before. This is were the word "limitation" comes in. It might be sky high when you're in-love but sometimes the piles of the facts that were gathered is enough already to reach that.   :mtc: Quote Link to comment
kupaloid1 Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 nagyari sakin to dati ko gf huli ko lagay pa niya pic ng ex niya na magkasama sila sa friendster tapos yun pala lage pa sila uusap,ok lang ang baho naman katawan ex ko na yun amoy beefsteak kili kili kahit bago ligo na hindi kawalan sakin,sana naging sisig nalang amoy mas paborito ko pa kaysa sa beefsteak Quote Link to comment
NihonJin Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 admittably, pag tayong mga AlphaMales ang na scorned, hindi talaga natin mapapatawad ang mga babae, pero vice versa pag tayo nahuli, we want them to understand why we have done that and obliged them to forgive us.., parang nasa Culture na natin un ganyan eh.., Quote Link to comment
ligtasan Posted October 8, 2009 Share Posted October 8, 2009 admittably, pag tayong mga AlphaMales ang na scorned, hindi talaga natin mapapatawad ang mga babae, pero vice versa pag tayo nahuli, we want them to understand why we have done that and obliged them to forgive us.., parang nasa Culture na natin un ganyan eh.., True, it's the old double standard. It's been around since before our great-grandfathers. What's gotten stupid is the fact that you have all these "Alpha Male" idiots running around today like a dog in heat expecting any woman he lays eyes on to worship the ground he walks on. Even worse, there are some girls that actually do because they feel they either can't do any better or that "he'll change for me". Ladies, choose your partners wisely. All men are dogs. It's your choice whether you want a faithful hound or a manyak mutt (askal). You know why there's no divorce law in the Phil? How embarrassing would it be for an "Alpha Male" to be served divorce papers by the wife he's been cheating on? For them marriage is just another trophy showing his "success". Guys, we may be dogs but that doesn't mean we have to stay that way. A man is faithful to woman he loves, everybody else is wondow dressing (you can look but you can't touch). An immature child is the one still running to his FUBUs or to an MPA and bragging about how many high school girls he just f*cked in the past week....despite the fact he's married or in a good relationship. Quote Link to comment
silentkilla Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 kung hindi na-buntis ng other party, i'll save it and try to work out the things i have neglected to make her cheat in the first place. Quote Link to comment
ladyinpink44 Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 True, it's the old double standard. It's been around since before our great-grandfathers. What's gotten stupid is the fact that you have all these "Alpha Male" idiots running around today like a dog in heat expecting any woman he lays eyes on to worship the ground he walks on. Even worse, there are some girls that actually do because they feel they either can't do any better or that "he'll change for me". Ladies, choose your partners wisely. All men are dogs. It's your choice whether you want a faithful hound or a manyak mutt (askal). You know why there's no divorce law in the Phil? How embarrassing would it be for an "Alpha Male" to be served divorce papers by the wife he's been cheating on? For them marriage is just another trophy showing his "success". Guys, we may be dogs but that doesn't mean we have to stay that way. A man is faithful to woman he loves, everybody else is wondow dressing (you can look but you can't touch). An immature child is the one still running to his FUBUs or to an MPA and bragging about how many high school girls he just f*cked in the past week....despite the fact he's married or in a good relationship. nice, very well said. Quote Link to comment
ligtasan Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 nice, very well said. The funny thing is, a lot of foreign girls praise how Filipino guys are so "romantic"....then they come here and the illusion is shattered. A true measure of a man is how he treats his wife and family or his GF, not how many notches are on the bedpost. Quote Link to comment
ligtasan Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 (edited) Double post...nevermind. Edited October 14, 2009 by ligtasan Quote Link to comment
Miss Zelda Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 True, it's the old double standard. It's been around since before our great-grandfathers. What's gotten stupid is the fact that you have all these "Alpha Male" idiots running around today like a dog in heat expecting any woman he lays eyes on to worship the ground he walks on. Even worse, there are some girls that actually do because they feel they either can't do any better or that "he'll change for me". Ladies, choose your partners wisely. All men are dogs. It's your choice whether you want a faithful hound or a manyak mutt (askal). You know why there's no divorce law in the Phil? How embarrassing would it be for an "Alpha Male" to be served divorce papers by the wife he's been cheating on? For them marriage is just another trophy showing his "success". Guys, we may be dogs but that doesn't mean we have to stay that way. A man is faithful to woman he loves, everybody else is wondow dressing (you can look but you can't touch). An immature child is the one still running to his FUBUs or to an MPA and bragging about how many high school girls he just f*cked in the past week....despite the fact he's married or in a good relationship. I'd like to say that this brightened my day! i completely adore you Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted November 6, 2009 Share Posted November 6, 2009 I'm Sorry ...because if your sorry it's an admission of guilt na nagkamali ka....at isusumbat lang sayo kung evil yung pinag sorry-han mo.. Quote Link to comment
Guest FL Posted November 27, 2009 Share Posted November 27, 2009 I LOVE YOU - very hard to utter those words. - it means commitment. - responsibility - loyalty Same here, I love you. It also means trust. Quote Link to comment
zenislev Posted November 27, 2009 Share Posted November 27, 2009 ...is I love you to a person I don't. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 it will probably take me a second or two before i say i'm sorry. Â it will take me forever to say i love you. Quote Link to comment
tatang1972 Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 it will probably take me a second or two before i say i'm sorry.  it will take me forever to say i love you. This holds true with me... Quote Link to comment
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