What Is The Hardest Thing For You To Say...

[kingpopoy]

i love you.. then next hard is ung i dont love you anymore, kaso wala sa choices eh. :headsetsmiley: its hard to say something that you dont mean. especially something that you cannot prove. :thumbsdownsmiley:

[MsJ]

let him go and move on

 

he did it once, he will do it again

[abnoys]

I love you.. if you don't mean it.

[Mike Chester]

Most people who responded here says "NO" to second chance. But I truly doubt if thats what they're going to do when time comes that this thing is going to happen to them.

 

It is not that easy to let someone go, no matter what he did, especially if you truly love that person.

[sensible33]

no more...when it comes to cheating.,..di na pinapalampas yun!

 

^i stick to my words....iba ako

Edited February 25, 2008 by sensible33

[Guest karen]

tried to give it a second chance but i just hated the guy more........ not a good thing to do..... better to let go and move on.....

[1800donttry]

Saying "I Love You" is harder for because when you say that you're sorry, you know what you're giving up and you know you're letting go of your proud so it really couldn't get worse. When you say, "I love you," you're giving up so much more and you also don't know if the person's gonna reciprocate it (at least not the first time that you say it) so it's scarier.

 

I meant letting go of your PRIDE. Goddang I can't type

[sensible33]

^kaya dapat wag na diba?

[karen26]

not anymore

[mr.bukol]

Most people who responded here says "NO" to second chance. But I truly doubt if thats what they're going to do when time comes that this thing is going to happen to them.

 

It is not that easy to let someone go, no matter what he did, especially if you truly love that person.

 

correct ka dyan!!!!

[Palakol]

I'M SORRY = i'm wrong.

I LOVE YOU = i'm weak.

[megaman_0000001]

saying Im sorry, cuz u know you made a mistake and you hurt the person

or because ur saying u have to let go of her/him and it hurts for both

it evokes a negative feeling

 

saying I love you , is easier -- its positive, its giving assurance or certainty.. even though sometimes its not meant fully

[hilong_talilong]

dunno kung mag agree yung iba sa inyo but try saying "I love you" sa parents mo minsan parang hirap or you feel awkward dba?

[ryc100]

then its goodbye

[ligtasan]

Most people who responded here says "NO" to second chance. But I truly doubt if thats what they're going to do when time comes that this thing is going to happen to them.

 

It is not that easy to let someone go, no matter what he did, especially if you truly love that person.

 

Heh heh, maybe that's what you did. Love in a relationship is between two people. If that other person cheated on you, then it hurts all the more because they've basically spat on your feelings for them. Your love was a joke to them. All that time being in a relationship with them, all those "I love you's" were nothing but words.

 

You let her go, you'll hurt, you'll grieve...but you'll get over it and move on. Only the weak try to cling to dead relationship and believe the lies the cheater tells.

 

There is no "okey lang" when it comes to betrayal.

[friendly0603]

what if you don't believe in monogamy or if you reserve love for one partner but just sex for others? losing the one you love is what you don't want but losing the others is ok.

 

Just a phase maybe that each person goes thru. what if commitment is not something you are capable of? What can you offer the one you love?

[Tigershark]

depende sa degree ng kasalanan nya, pero kung sa feeling ko kahit patawarin ko sya tapos her deeds would still haunt us, e let go ko na lang sya.

[gigolojoe]

no.. a cheater will always cheat

[ckgo]

i'd let him go... wala naman magandang return ang pagiging martyr diba?

[guyontheprowl]

to say I'm sorry knowing that you really hurt her!

[kyubi9tails]

a playah will always b a playah..

[pac-manoy]

Most people who responded here says "NO" to second chance. But I truly doubt if thats what they're going to do when time comes that this thing is going to happen to them.

 

It is not that easy to let someone go, no matter what he did, especially if you truly love that person.

 

 

correct ka talaga jan.....bkt ba tau nagpapakagago. We can forgive but can we forget? And if you don't forget, then you'll always be uneasy and suspicious. Hay lang talaga ang tao.

[Mike Chester]

Heh heh, maybe that's what you did. Love in a relationship is between two people. If that other person cheated on you, then it hurts all the more because they've basically spat on your feelings for them. Your love was a joke to them. All that time being in a relationship with them, all those "I love you's" were nothing but words.

 

You let her go, you'll hurt, you'll grieve...but you'll get over it and move on. Only the weak try to cling to dead relationship and believe the lies the cheater tells.

 

There is no "okey lang" when it comes to betrayal.

 

If you will ask those people who got cheated by their partners, alam nila na ginagago sila ng ka partner nila, that their partners are just plain liars, that they will grieve and get hurt more. But why they are still with these cheaters? Hindi kaya dahil sa kahit na nagloloko ung partner nila, eh masaya pa rin siya kapag silang dalawa na lang ang magkasama? Hindi kaya dahil hindi nya makita sa iba ung mga traits na nagustuhan nya sa partner nya ngayun? Sometimes, it is better to grieve but happy, than to not to grieve at all but sad.

 

IMO, to keep or to let go a relationship will depend kung anong naging reason ng panloloko niya. You just don't let go because he cheat, but you must "clearly understand" first the real reason why he did that before you come up with a conclusion.

Edited March 4, 2008 by Mike Chester

[lioness]

hard for me to say i love you to someone, except of course, sa immediate family members.

[qtguy888]

as the song goes "its hard for me to say im sorry"