rich beem Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 isang beses lang pwede.......mapagmahal akong tao eh... Quote Link to comment
solicitor Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 We live in a world of double standards, even our laws favors us men and there is a very valid reason behind the intent of these laws. In conclusion, if your husband cheated on you, forgive him for the sake of the children. Better yet dont get caught! However, if your wife cheated on you, that's a different story, It's inforgiveable, since the child she might bear may not be yours.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Here you go again with your insensetive comments. This is totally distasteful!!! Where are the feminists of MTC? We are living in a democracy where husband's and wive's are on equal footing. Cheating is cheating.There must be no exception. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 i have been cheated. cant fully describe the feeling. but i was able to forgive after she made an genuine repentance. now we're happy together. tell me im stupid, but love is all stupidity to me. Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 i have been cheated. cant fully describe the feeling. but i was able to forgive after she made an genuine repentance. now we're happy together. tell me im stupid, but love is all stupidity to me.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> thats very big of you pareng gigolo... its very hard to forgive and forget especially about something like that... its good that it all worked out in the end for your family! usually ang importante, the one who cheated should be genuinely sorry for what he/she did... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 thats very big of you pareng gigolo... its very hard to forgive and forget especially about something like that... its good that it all worked out in the end for your family! usually ang importante, the one who cheated should be genuinely sorry for what he/she did...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> that's nice to hear zencalix... thanks... it's also important to forget... Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 Infidelity is still a sin and should not be accepted, but we all know that this is happening, this is a reality. Alam naman natin, lalo na sa mga lalake, na hindi minsan madali ung maging totally faithful ka sa partner mo. Kasi andaming factors e, andyan na ung nakakantyawan ka ng mga barkada mo, or kaya ung gusto mo ring ma experience ung feeling na magkarun ng ibang partner. Pero as i said, hindi naman ibig sabihin nun na hindi mo na mahal ung partner mo, kaya the best thing na lang is to accept the person, and don't discuss anymore the issue.Kaso the more you dwell on the issue, the more na magkakarun ng lamat ung pagsasama niyo. Unlike kung i accept mo na lang siya, give all the trust, and live a new life with him, im sure mas lalong titibay ang pagsasama ninyo. Well, i have to make an exception, kasi may mga lalake din na talagang unfaithfull na, irresponsible pa at walang iniisip kung hindi mambabae ng mambabae. With this kind of person, of course mas maganda na iwanan mo na lang. Mike naman e, the question here is staying if your partner has cheated on you. Not 'would it be acceptable to accept a partner who cheated' Yun na nga yun e. Hindi ako marunong magpatawad. Id rather spend the rest of my life wondering about the might have beens rather than spend them sorry and bitter because I stayed yet I wasnt able to forgive. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 depends on your level of maturity and love for the person. Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 Yun na nga yun e. Hindi ako marunong magpatawad. Id rather spend the rest of my life wondering about the might have beens rather than spend them sorry and bitter because I stayed yet I wasnt able to forgive.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> hmmmm, this is like a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation... either way you lose... you still end up miserable... hirap naman Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 Mike naman e, the question here is staying if your partner has cheated on you. Not 'would it be acceptable to accept a partner who cheated' Yun na nga yun e. Hindi ako marunong magpatawad. Id rather spend the rest of my life wondering about the might have beens rather than spend them sorry and bitter because I stayed yet I wasnt able to forgive.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ay sowee po, na off-topic na pala ako . Anyway para hindi OT, IMO, everyone deserves a 2nd chance :hypocritesmiley:. hmmmm, this is like a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation... either way you lose... you still end up miserable... hirap naman <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ur right pareng Zen, so its better to forgive and accept, and you will be in a win-win situation Quote Link to comment
kilawin Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 Here you go again with your insensetive comments. This is totally distasteful!!! Where are the feminists of MTC? We are living in a democracy where husband's and wive's are on equal footing. Cheating is cheating.There must be no exception.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> C'mon you have tried cheating with your better half? Don't you want to have the best of both world? Admit it, us guys wants to have our cake and eat it too! You are as HYPOCRITE as the guy who posted about Christ and forgiveness. Quote Link to comment
solicitor Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 C'mon you have tried cheating with your better half? Don't you want to have the best of both world? Admit it, us guys wants to have our cake and eat it too! You are as HYPOCRITE as the guy who posted about Christ and forgiveness.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> First, im not commited to anyone at the moment. Second,its not in my nature to cheat on my partner. Third, not all men are the same. (look at you?). Fourth, i dont agree on the guy who posted about christ and forgiveness either, because its a totally different thing( maybe he wants to get attention by using christ which is pathetic). Fifth, hypocracy is not in my vocabulary. And finally, "i just wish this topic becomes reality in your personal life"............ Quote Link to comment
wink1777 Posted October 27, 2005 Share Posted October 27, 2005 for me i let him go, kung talagang mahal nia ako hindi sia makaka isip magluko.i set him free para mabigyan ko ding ang sarili ko ng panahong maka pag adjust ng walasia sa buhay ko....i had to move on too hindi lang sia ang may sariling kaligayahan...ako din Quote Link to comment
centrino Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Hay I just got sacked last night... twas a 6-year relationship inahas lang sakin ng officemate niya. Anybody willing to help me get a retribution??? Kahit 24-hour harrassment lang nsa fone Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Hay I just got sacked last night... twas a 6-year relationship inahas lang sakin ng officemate niya. Anybody willing to help me get a retribution??? Kahit 24-hour harrassment lang nsa fone <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ey im sorry to hear that. i gues it's because laging silang nagkikita, parang na-develop. do you still want her back? just like our topic her "Your Partner Has Cheated On You" can you forgive her? Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Hay I just got sacked last night... twas a 6-year relationship inahas lang sakin ng officemate niya. Anybody willing to help me get a retribution??? Kahit 24-hour harrassment lang nsa fone <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hirap na yan pre... may lamat na ang relationship nyo... Quote Link to comment
bakedzitiguy Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 depends... if i believe that my partner was somebody who hasnt cheated before, I'll assume that there must be some shortcomings on my part. but if it was somebody that i thought wasnt giving me the whole picture all along then probably the break up was a good thing. Quote Link to comment
imantot Posted October 29, 2005 Share Posted October 29, 2005 *wolves that will gonna be hard if my gf cheat on me...but anything has a reason...i dont know if i will gonna forgive her because i'm not in that situation yet, sana wag mangyari sa akin yun because it will be very painful...If ever it will happen to me, it may take time before I forgive her and the trust that i gave to her will not be that strong... :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
arrow Posted October 29, 2005 Share Posted October 29, 2005 it depends on the degree on how am i being cheated. Quote Link to comment
Pimp_daddy Posted October 29, 2005 Share Posted October 29, 2005 it depends on the degree on how am i being cheated.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
XquisitAngel Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 Yes...Give him/her a chance....but this is only applicable if u believe that person has a good and kind heart...Like the first time you have met him/her....Coz he/she may change again, just have Faith. Quote Link to comment
centrino Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 ey im sorry to hear that. i gues it's because laging silang nagkikita, parang na-develop. do you still want her back? just like our topic her "Your Partner Has Cheated On You" can you forgive her?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes I guess so... but I just realized that she's not worth all these pain. Can I forgive her? Yes, maybe in time... but am I willing to patch the damage? NO! I don't I ever wana be with her again. Quote Link to comment
centrino Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 hirap na yan pre... may lamat na ang relationship nyo... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Tama ka diyan pre... Wala na kong balak balikan yun, ang gusto ko ngayon makaganti dun sa guy na nang ahas :evil: Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 keep her so you'd get the chance to get even... cheat on her also... hahaha! Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 Tama ka diyan pre... Wala na kong balak balikan yun, ang gusto ko ngayon makaganti dun sa guy na nang ahas :evil:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> the best way for revenge is to let him keep her if she was such a bitch... if not, then try to win her back and then break up with her (medyo grabe na ito) but if you really want to get back at her. But then again kung mahal mo sya talaga just let her be be at peace na lang. Quote Link to comment
best_X_girlfriend Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 he did. and im still with him. 'cause i saw him change and that he was sorry. but if i found out that all of these are just frontin' and that he's still flirting with some bitches out there, itatali ko sila sa billboards sa Guadalupe:D Quote Link to comment
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