Hush Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 its my nature to save everything that i believe can still be saved from a relationship.. so i olweiz give second chances.. and in the end, it olweiz turns out they don't deserve it.. and some of them thinks its ok to do it again coz u proved that u love them that much & u will forgive them anyway.. guess, i just never learn... Quote Link to comment
noel1224 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 i'm a kind of person that's very kind and open minded..even though i looked so tough my loved one is always my weak point..on my last relationship i had a gf from pampanga her name is jhen..our relationship started last janunary 6, 2007..on the 7th of febuary i recieved a news that she was cheating on me..at first i didn't mind that news..and then on the 23rd of the same month o friend of her told me that jhen was to be married to another man..because of that news i immediately told her to go here in lucena..so she went here and we lived together for 2 months..while she was living here with me i asked her about the rumors that i was receiving in the past few days..at first she denied it but later on she admitted it and asked for forgiveness and because i loved her so much i instantly forgave her..and then on the 27th of may she told me that she want to go back to pampanga because she misses her family specially her son jr..even though i don't want her to go there i granted her wish because i only want her to be happy..then on our 5th monthly aniversary she told me that she want to start our family and she wants us to be married..i was so happy to hear that but the there was a big problem..i'm still studying and i don't have any money for our wedding so i decided to stop my studying and to find a work so that i can save money for our wedding..then on the 12th of may i received a news from her mother that jhen was cancelling our marriage because she was already getting married with another guy on that same date..even though i have given her everything, done everything just to make her happy i recieved this kind of treatment from her.. and i have now realized that any form of cheating is bullshit!!and once someone has cheated and you forgave him/her he/she will just do the same thing over and over becease he/she knows that you are always willing to forgive them.. Quote Link to comment
noel1224 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 I stayed. It takes a lot of strength and endurance to stay with someone who has cheated on you. And a lot of prayers. Yup I agree with that but the fact that he/she would do it again knowing that we will forgive them again. Quote Link to comment
balotolab Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 I'm sorry kasi pride mo as an individual ang nakataya e Quote Link to comment
Hush Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 easier to say im sorry, coz some people can say those words without meaning it.. Quote Link to comment
Guest Yavanna Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 NO. grabe, solid answer. i guess you'll know after the hurt is gone if the relationship is still worth keeping... if it's worth a second chance. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 grabe, solid answer. i guess you'll know after the hurt is gone this may take you days...or may last as long as years. Guess you'll just have to decide, right there and then (after doing some thinking, of course), and be willing to accept whatever the consequence of your decision will be....whether you would fight it out or simply give up. At any rate, there will always be a what if, and should have, any way you go. Quote Link to comment
shreky Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 Talk to my partner and know what's wrong. From there, I'll make my decision. Quote Link to comment
shadow1178 Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 For me, it will take years to regain the trust that i have for that girl kung niloko nya ako.....but counting that years...baka wala na rin ung feelings ko sa kanya. Kung close friend mo pa lng madali patawarin eh pero kung me relationship...mahirap talaga magforgive...but it still depends on the situation. Quote Link to comment
empress Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 maybe give him another chance or so... but after that.. il leave.. Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 If the relationship is worth keeping it deserves another chance... Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 It's harder for me to say I'm sorry... Quote Link to comment
janella Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 like what the band blue says at their song . . . . SORRY SEEMS TO BE THE HARDEST WORD Quote Link to comment
wynona21fqc Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 both lalo na kung di mo na maramdaman sa sarili mo na feel mong sabihin yng mga words na yon Quote Link to comment
morph6996 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 "im sorry" cgradong war nnman :evil: Quote Link to comment
sexydiameter1 Posted November 30, 2007 Share Posted November 30, 2007 depende poh...kasi mahirap din magsabi ng i love you,kung di mu nmn tlaga mahal ung tao,or mahal muxa pero di mu masabi dhil s pride mu,....bout sorry nmn depende din s sitwasyon,hehehehe...magulo bah, Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I'm not sure anymore Quote Link to comment
ilb4u2nyt Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 i would say the hardest thing to say right now is "i love you"... coz i wanna make sure its for real :goatee: Quote Link to comment
Season_Girl Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 "i love you" coz you have to be 101% sure that you're saying it to the right person. Quote Link to comment
scsicnarf Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 I love you... Quote Link to comment
rEdbuttErfly Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 SORRY . . . seems to be the hardest word Quote Link to comment
mounting pole Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 saying sorry doesnt degrade you as a man...instead, it shows how manly are you to admit your fault. saying iloveyou is the hardest for me....especially if you're really not sure if you really love the girl.... Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 It's hard to say : I'm sorry but I'm no longer in love with you... Quote Link to comment
imogen Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 i love you is harder for me.... Quote Link to comment
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