Tanya08 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 The Hardest Thing for me to say... hmm.. wala ata sa dalawa.. ay meron pala.. yung saying 'im sorry' dahil makikipag break kna.. and saying 'im sorry' dahil babastedin mo na sya... gee ang hirap nun! bigat sa dibdib sabihin Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 I'm a very expressive type of person. But of the two....from my experience....it's harder to say i'm sorry to my partner. It disturbs me a lot knowing that i've hurt a person. Ayoko siyang masaktan....that's why i couldnt bring myself to say i'm sorry. But saying "I love you" geeeezzzz....i could tell you that as often as you want (kung mahal nga kita). Quote Link to comment
pilo555 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Well, kung kaya nyong hindi lumingon o magduda everytime he/she is not with you then by all means tuloy nyo, if there is just a little bit of doubt in you then it would be best to move on. That's what I'd do... Remember, the number of years you spend with someone is nothing compared to a lifetime. Kaya wag kayong manghihinayang kung saka sakali Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Well, kung kaya nyong hindi lumingon o magduda everytime he/she is not with you then by all means tuloy nyo, if there is just a little bit of doubt in you then it would be best to move on. That's what I'd do... Remember, the number of years you spend with someone is nothing compared to a lifetime. Kaya wag kayong manghihinayang kung saka sakali <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Agree...!! :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
naked_angel Posted November 17, 2005 Share Posted November 17, 2005 no. no second chances for cheaters. if they did it once, they can do it over and over again. i won't give him the benefit of hurting me again... shame on you if you fool me once,shame on me if you fool me twice... Quote Link to comment
LostCommand Posted November 17, 2005 Share Posted November 17, 2005 The practical way forward here is to check your market value relative to the other party. If you are damn marketable anyway, if I smell even a hint of impropriety I might just go. If you are a jobless smelly 60 year old, well....matters could be slightly different perhaps? Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 The practical way forward here is to check your market value relative to the other party. If you are damn marketable anyway, if I smell even a hint of impropriety I might just go. If you are a jobless smelly 60 year old, well....matters could be slightly different perhaps?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> hahaha!! sigurista.....but i like the approach.... Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 i don't think there is any valid reason or justification for cheating. kung sa tingin nya may prob yung relationship, di maso-solve yan ng pag-cheat. eh di hiwalayan na lang diba. cheating will only aggravate the pain that both of you will have to suffer. if a person thinks that she/he has been wronged for whatsoever reason, it does not give her/him the license to cheat. everything can serve as reason... as justification. depende sa point of view yan ng bawat individual. pero kung ganito yung logic, na every time na magkakaroon ng reason na magpupush sa isang tao to cheat eh kailangan sya intindihin, i don't think magiging masaya mundo natin hehehe peace out po... just sharng my thoughts on the subject. ---------- pwede siguro kami maging friends eventually, pero definitely i won't keep the relationship.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I agree that the problem cannot be solved by cheating, but i dont think na ung "hiwalayan" is also a way to resolve the problem. Give a try to resolve the issue, then kung talagang malalim na talaga ang problema at hindi na talaga kayang i save pa ung relationship, then that's the time para mag decide na kayo to separate. Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 comfront him/hersay wat yu want to say.. kung di mo na kayaung ginagawa nya,sabihin mo.. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 I agree that the problem cannot be solved by cheating, but i dont think na ung "hiwalayan" is also a way to resolve the problem. Give a try to resolve the issue, then kung talagang malalim na talaga ang problema at hindi na talaga kayang i save pa ung relationship, then that's the time para mag decide na kayo to separate.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I agree.... I dont think that a partner cheats because he/she finds it a solution to a relationship problem. Siguro yung problem na yun made him/her vulnerable to cheating. I dont also think that hiwalayan is always the way to go, once a partner cheats. I could be....but not always. Kaya nga naging kayo kasi mahal niyo ang isat isa. Unless the feeling is gone and the damage is irreparable.... hiwalayan will make your hearts bleed more. Talk....give it some time. Laging sa huli raw ang pagsisisi. Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 :cry: There was a bf of mine who cheated on me four times but everytime he asked for forgiveness and goes back to me, I always accept him ---- Why??? I know stupid may it seem but the answer is I love him so much to the point that I can endure and accept anything he did. It just really depends on how much you love the person... The downside of it was I it destroyed me... It's so easy to say you've forgiven the person but it's so hard to forget what he did until there came a time that I also cheated on him as a sort of a revenge. He already changed that time but I don't know why the things he did in the past still haunts me that's why I was able to cheat also. I'm not justifying what I did even though he's the reason why I did it cause I know whatever the reason is, it's still wrong. When he found out about it, he wanted to separate or he told me he'll stay but he'll have a girl again. I told him that this will never end if we keep on taking revenge and hurting each other. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 ....would you cheat if your partner has already cheated on you. Quote Link to comment
EFF-EXS Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 I don't know, perhaps. Giving second chances won't be easy. Quote Link to comment
solicitor Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 I agree that the problem cannot be solved by cheating, but i dont think na ung "hiwalayan" is also a way to resolve the problem. Give a try to resolve the issue, then kung talagang malalim na talaga ang problema at hindi na talaga kayang i save pa ung relationship, then that's the time para mag decide na kayo to separate.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Am just curious Bro, are you Joe D Mango? Quote Link to comment
-mariane Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 giving a chance? f*ck!!! n0 way..a chance f0r what? t0 f00l y0u again? erp!.. Quote Link to comment
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