Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[MsCareGiver]

maybe yes/maybe not, recently ive came from a relationship that pretty good everything is in good term,suddenly it turns totally disaster,he have a long lost girlfriend and they have a child.and one day girl that ask for help to him blah blah blah,,,and he decide to marry that girl for the sake of the child and he left me behind he was telling me that one day i'll find someone much better than him,i cant understand that reason because i truly loved that man and i even offer myself to be his mistress,to answer the question maybe if he allow me to be his mistress i'll go for it,ganun aq ktanga at ganun q xa kmahal,,....

Edited September 1, 2007 by MsCareGiver

[Pietro Maximoff]

Almost fell for one, though unintentionally. Went with the tip of a so-called breakup, which was my undoing. Upon confirming my doubts, however, had no difficulty rectifying the mistake. It was a no-brainer, but certainly a heart-rending decision.

[SoulMTC]

No ... matakot sa karma

[angel_by_day]

not anymore.. things that started out wrong will probably end much worse..

 

nicely put....and i share the same sentiments.....moreso when you realize that you are worthy of someone who is not (taken)....

 

but then again....tis always easy to say these, than act it out...

[cfran55]

mahirap magmahal ng syota ng iba yun lang

[empress]

im kinda in a situation like this right now..

 

but i dont have plans or intentions of going further with this thing that with what we have now. its beyond what goes on inside the bedroom.

 

he gives me the attention that i need, which is good enough for me.

[papajong]

Sorry, not my cup of tea.

[neville]

No ... matakot sa karma

 

TRUE....

[Carlito4977]

For now, I don't think so. But I really don't know, I'll probably cross the bridge when I get there.

 

I can never say never. :goatee:

[petejam]

if i can help it, i will not.

[markus_cruzade]

What goes around comes around :thumbsdownsmiley: Believe me if he/she can do that to her current what would make him/her not do it to you ??:thumbsdownsmiley: Bottomline is ...if fling or just wanna score...but don't fall to much..coz not all the time its real :cry:

[Saeki®]

nope

 

dati oo kasi flings lang hanap ko noon

[Justin Nicholas]

Hell no!

 

I respect the way things are meant to be around each and everybody.

[hoshi]

hell no!!! that is a no no!! matakot sa karma..hehe

[insomniac]

well it wasn't intentional... i didn't know at the time that she was my cousin's girlfriend... she broke up with him, i was disowned by my cousin's family... then she got back with my cousin... f#&king thing sucks...

[bryanfury]

For guys there's no need to, even if it's your ex, let it go. If it's your new crush let her be.

With the ratio of male to female today, at least here in the Phils., which I think is 1:8(correct me if I'm wrong), a guy can have 3 to 4 gf at a time if he wants to. Though that's unfair.

So there's no need to fight over a girl if she has someone already. There are many pretty girls here in our country, but you don't need a pretty girl, what's important is the chemistry, connection, acceptance of who you are.

Mababaw na reason but that's reality that's our population.

There are many lonely/single girls out there who wants some loving. We just have to keep on looking and not mind the rejection, once you have the girl you want, balewala lahat ng rejection.

So guys let's spread our love.

[MasterM]

no i won't....mahirap na

[nuggetable]

Its easy to be noble and say no, but circumstances often dictate otherwise

[Guest freyja]

no. sharing is a good thing but it doesn't apply to relationships.

[neville]

true...and i still wonder how other people can bear the idea of sharing each other with other halves of couples

[Palakangtot]

i'd say yes. speaking by experience as an ex ofw

[angel_by_day]

Its easy to be noble and say no, but circumstances often dictate otherwise

 

precisely....and i'll leave it at that. hay....

[detective kyuu]

decision in this means taking things into consideration between risks and benefits whether to go on or let it slip

[wizard23]

done it twice. both with married but separated.

[shuzee]

Would you go after somebody who's taken? (Not Married for the sake of Moral Issues)..... This is not about cheating (so dont go after me ) What if you meet the right one, and that person already has a boyfriend/Girlfriend? would you go thru it? Are we doing them a favor by testing thier relationship? What are your thought?

 

Hehehe, the exact situation im in right now...actually i dunno what to do, its like watching from afar and waiting for an opportunity! we talk (me and the girl) a lot but she doesnt bring up her bf. She knows about my feelings for her (though it's not openly discussed) and we keep in touch. But at the end of the day... i get lonely. "maybe its wrong to say please love me too, but i know you'll never do..somebody else is waiting there inside for you..maybe its wrong to love you more each day cause i know he's here to stay.. but i know to whom you should belong.." gaddemmit!