tilltheytakemyheartaway Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 i have been the third party, the beneficiary of the third party, but i have never been the victim. and hopefully will not. and to this day, i still think even if that someone is taken, go for it if u really love that person Quote Link to comment
temari Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 nope i wont...sobrang hirap and sobrang saket...:thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
jojo Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 nah... i'll just wait for their relationship to end then wait for the right time to enter... Quote Link to comment
tombone Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 nope , there are other to go about Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 nah... i'll just wait for their relationship to end then wait for the right time to enter... what if there is no end in sight? Quote Link to comment
rdaq97 Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 what if there is no end in sight? then you don't go after her. in my experience, whether the person you are going after is in a good or bad relationship, it's really up to them if they want you to rescue them. it's always a matter of choice. it's a difficult task to chase after something you know will never be yours so the choice is also yours if you want to pursue it. it all depends how bad you want that person you're chasing after. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 then you don't go after her. in my experience, whether the person you are going after is in a good or bad relationship, it's really up to them if they want you to rescue them. it's always a matter of choice. it's a difficult task to chase after something you know will never be yours so the choice is also yours if you want to pursue it. it all depends how bad you want that person you're chasing after. fair enough.... Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Mahirap lumabas, magugulo ang buhay mo. why not? :goatee: Quote Link to comment
john2004 Posted August 9, 2007 Share Posted August 9, 2007 why not ? meron akong kaibigang babae, meron na siyang boyfriend,tinanong nga niya ako kung sakaling magkakaiwalay daw sila ng syota niya,gusto mo ba maging mag-on tayo? by the way, crush na crush ko yung girl.basta ganun lang, di ko lang sukat akalaing tatanungin niya ako ng ganun.BOTTOM LINE IS...... pwede naman pala pero hindi lahat pwede. Quote Link to comment
one_hot_momma Posted August 9, 2007 Share Posted August 9, 2007 sounds exciting....but i would rather not hurt other persons feelings.... one night stand is enough Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Its but normal if the 2 of you like/love each other, whether both of you have bf/gf or just one party, nothing beats the feeling of spending stolen sex moments with that person... :evil: Quote Link to comment
lovejones Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Definitely. Hindi naman ako seloso :boo: Quote Link to comment
pphyles_core Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Maybe, if I've been courting that someone before and it turns out that she's not happy (which may involve emotionally and physically) with her current relationship then I'll probably persuade her... Quote Link to comment
jojo Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 (edited) what if there is no end in sight? then it's time to move-on... as long as you let know or i let know the girl that i'm always here for her as a friend that she can rely on... you can be good friends even if she's taken right? as long as i won't be breaking any relationship, it will be fine... Edited August 10, 2007 by jojo Quote Link to comment
amante Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 yup.I draw the line with those married with kids.dont feel right Quote Link to comment
Entengtot Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 no. ayokong mangyari din yun sa akin ... maybe i will just respectfully wait for them to break up.i wouldnt want o be a cause for a broken relationship. Quote Link to comment
saleisha Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 bin there! done that! it hurts!! Quote Link to comment
Palakol Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 i never go hunting... i go fishing. Quote Link to comment
dyakhardy Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 i dont know but when a chick gets or is hooked, the more she becomes more attractive to me, more challenging.... i must be a sicko! Quote Link to comment
JackGrimaldi Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 i won't...dami pa namang free dyan... Quote Link to comment
temari Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 nope... i wont... and i will not try agin... i been there.. done that... its pain in the ass... dont want to suffer anymore... and i dont want to feel the same misery if he will leave me with somebody new.... Quote Link to comment
feb10 Posted August 18, 2007 Share Posted August 18, 2007 Why something so wrong feels so right? Right love at the wrong time? Its simply what's meant to happen will happen. Kahit anong iwas o denial pa gawin ng both parties, mahirap itago ang feelings...It happened to me...Ano gagawin namin kung pareho kaming na inlove kahit meron kaming both commitments...Kung mas masaya kami sa isa't isa kesa sa talagang ka relasyon namin...We both never imagine na mangyayari sa amin ito...Dapat ba kaming magsisi o manghinayang na bakit ngayon lang late na kami nagkakilala...We both know na masasaktan lang kami dahil sa relationship namin... Ayaw naming saktan ang isa't isa...masasaktan kami kasi mahal talaga namin ang isa't isa...I'm married and in the process of annulment and she has a boyfriend which she admitted na mas mahal nya ko kesa sa bf nya... Advise naman jan pls Quote Link to comment
Deechan Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 Never! it's not worth it, I would never step on another persons feeling just to achieve happiness, because I will never be truly happy knowing that someone is hurting in the process. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 I'm married and in the process of annulment and she has a boyfriend which she admitted na mas mahal nya ko kesa sa bf nya... Advise naman jan pls  I guess the more rational thing to do is that you wait for your marriage to be annulled, and that she break with her bf, likewise (if she is more in love in with you, as you say)...only then can both of you be happy. Nobody says that either of you would end up getting hurt....it's just a matter of waiting for the right time. Obviously, in the present scenario, guilt is something that you have to deal with....and it's not something trivial that you can easily do away with. Set things straight...and all else will follow (i hope).... But then again (hay....why is there always a but....)....it's easier to blurt out these words....but always difficult to put them to action Quote Link to comment
johnsorix06 Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 If she broke off her relationship because she was interested in you, even if you never hinted on one, then that wouldn't be your fault. My ex's present husband approached her as a friend at the time. In the course of our conversations while we were still together, she gave away details which led me to believe he was interested in something more than friendship. I pointed them out, but she refused to attach meaning to his gestures. From a guy's point of view, his moves were pretty obvious. I suppose she never wanted to put malice into them, which was why she was comfortable sharing such details. As he ingratiated himself to her with all his favors, it came to a point wherein she even wanted me to befriend him. I knew where this was all leading to, so after telling her that he would confide his true feelings in due time, I decided to avoid playing the jealous card. While I was still in the process of making travel arrangements to spend some time with her, all I had going for me then were our conversations over the phone and the internet. Rather than being confrontational about the whole matter, I just said my piece whenever appropriate, and left it at that. True enough, he eventually proposed. The decision fell on her shoulders...it was out of my hands. It was rather unfortunate that being practically alone in the States left her emotionally vulnerable; otherwise, I think we stood a pretty good chance. She's been through quite a lot, really. That decision was a heavy burden, and I tried to do my part to ease it. All's well now. Her close friends speak of how happy she is with her married life. I'd do anything to make her happy; I'm glad it all worked out for her.nice bro.i admire you. Quote Link to comment
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