Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[jgc813]

@jgc813, are you a what-if type of guy? Can you let go easily?

 

What is the worst thing that could happen if you don't go for it?

Options:

1) You will lose your friend anyway to the other guy and/or she will reject your relationship.

2) You will break their relationship, hurt the other guy. But you will have the start of new relationship

3) She's with him and you will remain friends if you never tell her.

 

If you don't say anything, 1 is the worst and 3 is the best thing that could happen.

If you say something, 1 is the worst and 2 is the best thing that could happen.

 

4) The last option, wait for her to break up with this guy but what if that doesn't happen then you actually lost your chance.

 

Hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

 

Well... I don't create such scenarios. I am not a "what-if" guy. I know where I stand, and I don't regret what I decide on or what I do.

 

I was just thinking aloud, but really, I'm fine the way things are -- status quo.

 

 

 

Edited November 19, 2012 by jgc813

[mr armed and dangerous]

Damn the missiles

Am going for it

Even if it takes me to hell

[friendly0603]

Well... I don't create such scenarios. I am not a "what-if" guy. I know where I stand, and I don't regret what I decide on or what I do.

I was just thinking aloud, but really, I'm fine the way things are -- status quo.

Great for you then. If you are fine, then it's no real loss for you. Sometimes for others, you really have to take the risk.

Better to find out if there's a chance of happiness there. Sometimes the woman is just waiting for the guy to make a move because like you wasn't prepared to lose the friendship if things don't work out.

Edited November 19, 2012 by friendly0603

[307]

its being logical

[Chi-Chi]

Kung worth it why not choc nut!

 

for example, sam milby!

Edited November 20, 2012 by Chi-Chi

[ron2b1l]

if sya ang nagpapakita ng intensyon.. y not.. palay n nga lumalapit tatangihan ko p b yun.. at nsa tao yun f wla nmn tlagang gsto yung girl eh wla tlgang magagawa...

[mikemahalmo]

Kung love pag-uusapan, no. Pero kung sex, sige lang.

[Ronnick]

Taken? as in bf/gf lang why not, however if taken as in married na definitely its a big NO.

[joggy061794]

Hindi po ser.

[wishywishylily]

No, definitely.

[elowyuayi19]

Definitely not. Taken na pala eh. Ano ako kabit?

[sOin2you]

I could be open to my feeling towards him, but I'm not gonna pull him to something he might regret.

[mikecallanta]

That depends siguro kung talaga mala Serendipity ang mangyari. You can never can tell.

[eaglesrock56]

Taken? Definitely no.

[lonieme]

bakit naman hindi? mas madali nga hulihin ang nakatali.

[shampooh]

Married men are so tempting

[closer88]

If she seems worth it, why not? Hehe. I'm taken too.

[cHinitababe86]

yea. if worth it. bakit hindi. on the side lang din naman siya saken eh.

mas exciting ung minsan na iniisip mong may nag mamay ari pero sayo nahuhumaling.

hahaha

ung reality na mas ikaw ang iniisip niya makita at makasama kahit committed siya.

well, siguro excitement lang ang habol ko. sa pagkakaalam ko, mas matibay pa kame

kesa dun sa naging partner niya, wala na sila. magkasama parin kame ngayon.

nagkikita parin kame. wahaha.. oh well.

[saw]

yes

[sniper_wolf]

susubukan ko

[KKarina]

For sex? Yes.

[AutoPimp]

No, hell no.

[romanticlove]

i already did this... well for you to survive this dapat hindi ka seloso/selosa kasi pag talagang nahulog na ang loob mo you would ask for more, more time, more love and try to compare things from the other. hehe

[Kheaven]

Why not?

[cttyme]

of course