Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[U.P. AdMU2008]

Pag bago lang sila, no problem.

[SaintPeter5858]

Or kung pwede pang makalusot

[SaintPeter5858]

But of course I have to be prepared for the risks

[Devil'sCupcake]

Never again...

[jgc813]

Like some women who are attracted to married men, I have a penchant for married women. They exude a different aura -- they're more confident, empowered, and comfortable with themselves and with practically almost anything. They know what they want, and they sure know how to get what they want.

 

I have a feeling that when it comes to love-making, they belong to the upper echelon class of women. They're experienced, and have no more qualms. They're comfortable with their bodies, and would know how to "move about" in bed.

 

Would I go after them? In principle, no. As some put it here: it can get out-of-hand, and complicated especially if feelings start to get in the way.

 

But I know there is that big possibility. I easily get along with married women, and the converse is true. We strike it out very well even at the start, and I know that if I pursue them, our friendship can progress to something of the more-than-friends type.

 

Now that should be the warning for me. I shouldn't try to get too close for comfort to any of them.

[clandestinecuddles]

If I know that he is already TAKEN why do I still need to TAKE him? This will only hurt me in the process for I can never be his. I will never be his priority and will always play second fiddle. I entered into a relationship to be happy and feel loved but not to be miserable. But this is easier said than done.

[dansky]

basta tinamaan ako ni kupido at basta hindi pa kasal I'll go for her. meron legal action na kasi na kasama kpag kasal na

[chrispt21]

I don't think so, they're taken for a reason, why ruin something good for my personal gain?

[SaintPeter5858]

Pwede pa naman, di ba?

[clandestinecuddles]

Just heard this. So what if he is TAKEN? Just take out the T and he is AKEN .

[Pantasya]

I never meant to, but my ex was already married when he again sought me and we ended up having a "second time" around. I let go though, things got a little bit complicated...

[chrispt21]

It is very tacky and mean to pursue someone who is already in a relationship.

[cocoy0]

I always start up doing that, and end up doing badly. Don't try this at home.

[SaintPeter5858]

Basta not yet wed to someone

[BrightestStar]

Depends of course.

[Guest Riveria]

Correct it depends...on the situation and the people revolving around the situation.

[Guest simply_tinA]

no

[chrispt21]

Ang tunay na lalaki nakikitikim lang hinde nang-aagaw ng babae.

[gentle_maniac]

Married or not, no. Coz it will end up hurting someone.

[BrightestStar]

sometimes it's not worth the risk eh.

[SaintPeter5858]

Will it make me happy?

[BrightestStar]

I'd rather keep my peace :0

[SaintPeter5858]

For me, it's like starting some great trouble

[bbburaot]

If married, your chances of a happy/successful relationship are almost zip. If may bf/gf, your chances are close to 2%

Why not try it out? You could be the 0.0001% if married, or the 2% if taken?

[cris ibarra]

When I met her, she already had a boyfriend. And then I fell head over heels in love with her. So I pursued her, wooed her, and won her heart. And we now have two grown children, and are still happily married. I am blessed.