Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[clandestinecuddles]

Yeah if he's worth being taken from somebody who does not appreciate him. And if taking him away from that relationship will ensure his happiness then why not?

[Londonlea]

yess

[Fusarium_jimini]

Almost did it, but got tired of the lies and the bullshit coming from her..

 

 

Now that we knew our place with each other, it seems like she's starting to really open up with me..bout how bad her current relationship is..and her good-for-nothing, happy-go-lucky bf..

 

 

Would have swept her away if I knew then..but now I only have pity on her..whatever love I had was gone..

[clandestinecuddles]

I think you are a realistic, emotional person. You made me smile reading your topics. Thanks. Be happy.

Thanks. But after what I've gone through, i would say takot ako sa karma, but i dont want to live miserably for the rest of my life. If he happens to be taken , borrow lang for a while haha.

[DyosangLigaw]

Ang complicated... Bakit gugustihin paguluhin ang buhay?

[Bugatti Veyron]

No I don't think I'd like to after someone who is already taken. Baka makarma ako. What goes around comes around.

[HITMAN21177]

yes.... mahirap talaga pero.... why not?

[am168]

Yes very well said.

In regards to the topic on hand. . .

 

I guess one can still pursue a girl even if she's already spoken for. . .

 

I see nothing wrong with it, as long as you have the noblest intention with the girl. . .

 

what I think is wrong is if the girl is already married or about to be married, but other than that, I see no wrong with it. . .

[Lord Superb]

Some people would say that if a country can be invaded and taken by force, then how much more someone who is already taken?

 

Others would say that if you go after someone taken and she falls for you and dumps the current boyfriend, then you are merely doing them a favor and proving that they were not meant to be after all.

 

Still, I would not do it. If she chose the wrong guy, well, then she has to deal with it. She has her own life to live; I have mine. Some women can be impulsive in their choice of a partner. They fall for good looks and sweet words and would even forgive his occasional cheatings, believing she can change him, despite evidences to the contrary.

 

On the other hand, if she is happy and content with her current boyfriend, then all the more reason for me to stay away and reserve my love for somebody else. True, love requires taking risks and fighting for it, but sometimes you just have to accept that you can't always have what you want.

[clandestinecuddles]

If that's the case, you can borrow me. Just ask permission from the owner. Haha!

OMG! The owner might not want to share!

On topic.. Relationships are meant for two. Not TWO timing. Others don't know how to count haha.

[blow_gobi]

I will if I really like the girl. But following the sage advice of someone I used to look up to, I'll exert only 10% effort to get her.

 

 

I actually went after someone who was taken, and got her. But that's because she took the first initiative to make contact, at naging mag-on kami bago nakuha siya sa akin nung ka live-in niya. Kaya binawi ko lang yung dating akin . Mga one year uli kami bago siya nag-Japan at nawala na contact ko sa kanya.

[Moronoxy]

Hmm... I would not go (for a relationship) after someone who's taken - I might, as clandestinecuddles put it, "borrow" though.

[boxer_NA]

nope. ayoko naman bumalik sa akin yung ginawa ko.

[philcute007]

Nope !! just to give respect to their relation!! and beside i do beleive in CARMA!

[ionon]

but how could you resist... if it insist....

[_mademoiselle_]

of course not!

[cookingmama]

right now, I preferred taken girls... had my first newly married girl to fool around with. I told her I knew she was married and that was "perfect". baka natakot. hay...

[<Prince>]

Kung okay lang sa kanya, eh di okay lang din sa akin

[Fusarium_jimini]

Taken as in w/ Bf pwede.. Pero never if married na..

[ladyboy]

big no matakot sa karma

[neville]

No. I don't want to be cheated on, so I say no to cheating.

[maxiev]

As a general rule, no. But a guy may be so totally blinded by love that he doesn't really care at that moment whether it's right or wrong. Emotions can overrule the intellect when one is in love. Especially if the other party is receptive to that love.

 

It's much, much easier to control one's emotions if the other person does not return the love and tells the love-struck romeo that she loves her bf and does not love him.

 

That kind of brutal frankness is sometimes needed to bring the person back to earth.

[Clit master]

No not my cup of tee.. I hate this stuff very un gm.

[t.funwich]

No. Pano kung ikaw nman maagawan ano mararamdaman mo?

[neville]

Being the other party means secrets and lies. I can't take that.

 

What's mine is mine.