love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[Alexandra®]

binabasa nya pag tulog ako...hehehe

no choice

[Boysbe]

She reads mine, I dont get to read her's. So sinong unang maingit,mainis,talo.

[rpxhost]

I got this from a relationship therapist interviewed in a mag, and from that moment I saw the logic of it all:

 

 

Partners (including husbands and wives) should be allowed to keep secrets, and their individual privacy should be respected. Hence, no reading of texts..

 

 

 

 

 

 

binabasa nya pag tulog ako...hehehe

no choice

[HoneyBoy]

kung gusto niya e di basahin niya. wala naman akong tinatago e.

[Jhelicious]

kung gusto nya basahin why not' pero hindi ung ako pa mag provoke na basahin nya..

[lomex32]

We are earning each other's trust ..... YES bothways

[ButtChicKick]

depends on the intention.

 

if I can't go to the phone and there's a text, he would usually open it for me. no biggies with that. but to actually peruse my cellphone to look for some evidence or something, well, thats a different story. It's not a question of "may tinatago o wala"

but a question of trust and honesty.

[derek brown]

yup, i let my partner do that.because im confident na wala syang mhuhuli sa fone ko.if a have a fling, i make sure to use a different sim card

[honeylette]

d noh, pano nman un tinatawag nilang privacy...

[psychOKinetic]

1 phone = business calls

 

1 phone = family and wife/girlfriend

 

a phone hidden under the trunk with the spare tire for "special ops"

 

a whole lot of sim cards.

 

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let her read all she wants!

[Cmayfrayna]

sure i do after i read it all first and deleted messages that might cause me harm from my partner hahaha :evil:

[dixiechiq]

seriously, for me, it's no biggie if he wants to read my sms. the thing is, he doesnt do that because he thinks i might want to read his and hence discover he's cheating/flirting again.

[dakota]

For reasons unknown to the both of us, we just don't mind each others cellphones. Call that respect for one's privacy, but it's working well for us.

Edited May 12, 2007 by dakota

[singkit`]

Read it up or not, sa akin yon.

[simpatiko]

No Choice eh.....

Edited May 12, 2007 by simpatiko

[jzee19]

Not exactly... im not hiding anything naman...

[saitox]

pinapabasa ko na lang ang sa akin para walang away na mangyari sa akin at ng gf ko...

[objectofmydesire]

I am entitled to my own privacy so i guess he knows how to respect that.

[w_monette]

Why not? We have nothing to hide but we respect eachothers privacy. If I look into his message he doesn't object, if he does, I don't object, too! Trust is all!

[tagpi]

No. I find it an intrusion into privacy. We are all entitled to a little space. :goatee:

[chaistar]

sure why not...kung wala ka naman itinatago bket ka matatakot na pkita un khet na anung message na mtangap mo sa text...hehehe..if its really nothing then dont freak out kung mabasa ni gf o kung cnu man at kung anu man un text..

 

:thumbsupsmiley:

Edited June 25, 2007 by chaistar

[aswang]

Aba mahirap yata maghanap ng ka txtmate ha! Balak pa nya mangopya.... manigas sya!!!!

[angel_by_day]

well, he doesnt usually do this but i wouldnt mind at all... i've got nothing to hide

[moon_bunny]

Before, he used to read all my messages but after our small "talks" about respecting my space and all kinds of crap..he stopped. :goatee:

[myfreeride]

Why not? We have nothing to hide but we respect eachothers privacy. If I look into his message he doesn't object, if he does, I don't object, too! Trust is all!

 

 

i dont read her texts. she should not read mine but if she does bahala siya! what you dont know will not hurt. :goatee: