love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[ndn]

Before,yes when im still with my wife. Nasa kanya pa nga minsan yung fone ko the whole day,ok lang sakin nun kasi i have nothing to hide naman. Pero it came to a point na siya na rin ang nagrereply sa mga msgs lalo na kapag babae. Girls that ive known before i even met her and talagang friends lang. Inaaway niya and kung ano2x sinasabi kaya the result is marami akong nawalang friends. Kaya ang ginawa ko is i dont allow her to hold my celfone anymore and na-realize ko din kasi na mali yun eh. Na dapat may respect sa privacy ng bawat isa and tiwala lang naman yan eh. Naging issue sa amin yun kasi whenever my fone beeps e inuunahan akong basahin yung msg pero syempre i dont allow her. Eventually naghiwalay din kami. Ok lang kasi malinis naman conscience ko. It all boils down to TRUST and RESPECT.

Edited November 13, 2010 by ndn

[malisyosa_ako]

mahilig ako mag basa ng message sa phone,. and even i also txt them back,.. hnd nmn ako ngagalit kht hacky pancky na yung nababasa ko..

mas gs2 kong wlang tnatago skn na kalokohan kesa mahuhuli ko pa.. mgaling pa nmn ako mang huli..

hnd ako naniniwala sa salitang privacy pag married or in a relationship ka.. kc yung privacy sa mga taong single lng yun.

 

yung phone ko nmn madalas naka tago... dhl madalas ako yung nag che-cheat.. hahhaha..

maraming mababasa dun.. at maraming nag ttx and nag ca-call hahahha... so mas mgandang itago nlng. para wlang away.

[Seishi]

I don't check my personal cellphone # for missed calls, for text messages, nor keep it with me anywhere I go, even bathroom. If I hear the tones ringing, masasagot ko. If not, expect for delayed response. I've always been like that. I monitor only my business number.

 

So every night, it is my husband who recharges our cellphone batteries, who checks my phone for missed calls or even messages and would just tell me... "Tumawag Dad mo 3x" Most of the time, he reads all of the text messages. Nothing to worry, I learned to keep my personal number private.... and the rest of the numbers disposable.

[rom-san-jr]

a BIG NO

[MikeyArrovo]

opkors, lalo na kapag gusto ko ng makipagbreak

[ndn]

if she wants to then why not? She can even have my fone for a month. I've got nothing to hide naman.

[chizbun235]

nope.gg ako pag ganun.away aabutin namin for sure .kaya always have a security pin on your phone just to be safe

[jedi_walker]

I don't mind my GF checking my phone basta magpa alam.

[vanillacream08]

Matters of the heart... Well, if my man asks me to check everything that I have, why not? Being a couple means you do things together, this is my opinion coming from my heart. I am willing to share everything that I have and own to my better half. That's the point of being a couple, not just a partner in legalities but also in physical, emotional, and spiritual issues...

 

Nothing against those who care enough about their "Privacy"... Lets just try to recall or review the oath you guy had or will oath on your wedding day. Cheers!

[ChardPurple]

If my girl wants to, I won't hesitate giving my phone to read my messages as long as she will also let me read her's (although I won't really read her messages, I will just browse through her phones' menu). I'm not into texting anyway.

Edited June 16, 2011 by ChardPurple

[superblack]

Yes para walang away.

[harry pounder]

No.

[SaintPeter5858]

Yes of course

[SaintPeter5858]

If my girl wants to, I won't hesitate giving my phone to read my messages as long as she will also let me read her's (although I won't really read her messages, I will just browse through her phones' menu). I'm not into texting anyway.

 

That's right. It erases any iota of doubt of loyalty

[SaintPeter5858]

Hindi naman sya yung type na nagchecheck ng phone, maybe because he thinks that it's a personal or private thing. I also do that before -- i don't read his cp. But after I've discovered a couple of ugly things just recently.. t@ena no way he can keep it from me. Trust is an issue now.

 

Correct. That's why I always allow my gf to browse my phone anytime she wants to. Anytime actually

[moodywriter]

My ex used to read my messages. I didn't really mind then. But it came to a point that he "forgets" to tell me that he read my messages and what those were. I kept on missing the messages from my boss or my family.

 

And I never check his phone.

[Inday]

My bf reads my messages whenever my phone beeps if he's with me or asking me from whom is the message. I never checked his phone and i don't care.

[orionquest]

nope. not letting my partner read my messages doesnt mean im hiding or cheating nor its a sign of cheating.

i just value my privacy as much as i value hers. so i dont peek at her fone so i expect she would do the same.

Edited June 25, 2011 by orionquest

[ladyboy]

no may space at privacy kami sa ganyan bagay

[cHinitababe86]

i can freely peek on his phone. hahaha pero hindi ko naman masyado naiisip.

masyado akong secured e. wala akong kinakatakot. sobra tiwala eh

sakanya, pinapakita ko. kaya lang mas mukhang ayaw niya tignan dahil

alam niya andameng guy friends ko na nagtetext. seloso factor ang lolo mo.

[brvheartmanalo]

yup...right after i deleted some...ha ha ha...

[bulletproofcar]

I really don't mind, its not like I have something to hide. I'll even let her call all the numbers in my phone if she wants lol. But if its done frequently, like every single text or call I receive, then I'd feel there's a lack in trust, and that's a major issue for me.

[lamborginigallardo]

yes.. but i don't look at hers..

[smx75]

yes, and she does it all the time.

 

we used to txt secretly before when we still had our own separate partners.

 

 

[BallBreaker]

yup. no biggie. he gives me his phone at times too. am free to look around. I don't even have to fish out for his passwords... he casually told me his password when he asked me to check something from his files. dunno why but it makes us feel better that way.