Guest takenbyjo Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 I used to a lot ... pero I've learned not to na rin ... minsan na lang ... he reads my phone when he thinks I won't catch him ... Okay lang naman kasi one and only ko sya e ... wala syang makikita doon na ndi dapat Quote Link to comment
malambingdxb1 Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 i let him...pero ngayon hindi na...UUBUSIN BA NAMAN ANG LOAD KO !!! Quote Link to comment
Ret.hGv Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 nope.... but if she asks, well "Sure sweetheart!!! here it is...." Sabay..... "mga frnds ko lng po yan ha!!!!" GUILTY!!!!! Quote Link to comment
malambingdxb1 Posted February 18, 2009 Share Posted February 18, 2009 hahahhaahme naalala din ako ...yung walanghiya kong exlahat ng phonebook nya pangalang lalake...and when i accidentally open the incoming message...aba sabi sa msg "baby..miss na kita" from JO-JOeh di napa dilat mata ko ... sabay "honey--bakla ka??" Quote Link to comment
Guest romantico888 Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 Wala pang nakaisip nito, but this happens very often sa mga existing relationships, jealousy over a text message. Its a crisis when jealousy starts because of a simple text message, the question is: Is it right to let your bf/gf/husband/wife read text message from your phone? Or is it just paranoia? Comments and suggestions please. bat ka naman magtetext kapag kasama mo na sya? ciempre diskarte mo na yun, dapat alam nung other party kung what time kayo magkasama. Kidding aside pre, di na kailangan yun. TRUST her/him na lang. invasion of privacy yun. wag naman masyadong mahigpit/sinasakal na. Quote Link to comment
lovebites Posted March 6, 2009 Share Posted March 6, 2009 yes i will let her read my text messages kasi text lang naman yan eh basta ba huwag sya reply kasi piso nalang ang load ko hirap magpapasa eh... Quote Link to comment
basic_instinct Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Yang PRIVACY na yan ang dahilan kung bakit matapang ang iba na mangaliwa. Kung lahat ng tao ay gagawin yang privacy na yan eh maraming mga nangangaliwa ang di mabibisto. Dahil idadahilan na lang lagi na privacy nya yun so di nga mabibisto. Quote Link to comment
deckard Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 ayus lng nmn cguro ipabasa yung text sa gf or bf mu...text lnlg nmn yun mahirap kung mahuli kayo n magkasma nung nsa text jejejejejeje... :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
misschelle Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 ok lang. i find it sweet kasi simple text messages lang pinagseselosan minsan. ayoko lang pag sumomosbra na. Quote Link to comment
TheBlackDahlia Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 no... para walang away... Quote Link to comment
basic_instinct Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Sinasabi ng ilang dito na unfair kung babasahin ang text or email patago man or hindi. How about naman kung nangangaliwa talaga asan naman yung fair doon? Di ba mas unfair yun. Pinagsasabay pala kayong dalwa. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 kung wala ka naman ginagawang masama ok lng hehe Quote Link to comment
antonhachirocku Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 wala namang hassle kun mabasa niya an mga messages s cp ko... it actually measures the level of trust that both partners apply in a relationship. i myself can be an example, kpag magkasama kmi syempre hawak ko cp ko but indoors iniiwan lang namin siya sa isang lugar... madalas pa nga na kapag may nagtext sa amin eh nauutusan pa namin ang isa't isa ng "paki-tingnan nga kun sino ang nag-txt at kun ano sabi".. me and my baby makes sure dat our level of trust is always at its highest peak ksi naman u cannot truly love someone if u dont involve trust in it, di ba.... nagiging confidential lang kapag ibang tao na ang nakialam and u know wat i mean by dat... Quote Link to comment
BallBreaker Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I can leave my phone lying around without any fear he might snoop and read them, and even if he does, it's ok. I sometimes read my messages with him. As for the other way around, I respect his need for privacy. I don't need to go snooping to see what is inside his inbox. Besides, he readily gives me his phone when I need to text someone using his. Sometimes, even with the sight of his inbox line up without any care at all since there is nothing to hide. When I see something questionable, I ask and he answers. Vice versa. It's easier to erase the contact number of a person who means nothing rather than to lose the trust of the person who means everything. Personally, when I am already legally committed, I don't want to use my privacy to give me an excuse to give in to the temptation that I can hide something. I recall an incident of a guy texting me messages that might mean nothing to me but I told him about anyway. It was bothering na pala for him even though I thought that the messages were a bit over friendly lang and not flirting which it was already. I simply made the habit of showing him his subsequent messages and when he thought it was way out of line na and was leaning towards what we suspected, one text from him with my consent and it's all over. Had I not be open about it, I might have been committing emotional infidelity unconsciously already. What's funny is how the guy asked me how come he knows he is texting me those messages. Duh? I don't think corrupting my principles for him is justifiable. Quote Link to comment
masterkamote Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 ok lng ipabasa if u give her d authority. but for her to read my phone inbox on her own. thats something! kungbaga respeto nlng sa partner mo yun, for not to read his/her text messages. Quote Link to comment
Leyna Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 no problem with that...we often read our text messages together. Quote Link to comment
cHinitababe86 Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 yea. open naman siya. letting me read his phone. ako naman pinapakita ko pa. mnsan binabasa ko pahabang magkasama kame. pag wala ka naman kasing tinatago,hindi ka matatakot na mabuksan nya phone mo, or phone nya Quote Link to comment
saleisha Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 yep ok nman yun..kaya lang mas ayus kung walang pakialaman..hndi naman kasi may tinatago..pero parang its ur personal thing and respetohan lang naman ng privacy! :hypocritesmiley: if u love him or if he loves u..may respect and trust dapat! Quote Link to comment
86bangher Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 (edited) Having partner read your personal sms without your consent? I think that's way beyond ethics! Eh yung sulat ng may sulat, di nga binubuksan ng magulang ko noong buhay pa sila... partner ko pa or my spouse? Personals iyan eh. As long as there's no explicite consent, when someone did that to me... i considered them boorish. Edited April 22, 2009 by 86bangher Quote Link to comment
kismet13 Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 if i'm the one who read it first. it's OKAY Quote Link to comment
GrandLurker Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 Before, I never mind my partner reading the text messages in my cel but now its a matter of respecting the space. you must be able to resist the urge to control the life of your partner. Quote Link to comment
Kharnall Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 When i had a partner - yes . but she never understood the contents ...most of my messages are data and reports from my counterparts and my people doing fieldwork , some forwarded messages and TC qoutes from my mom and pops and relatives. one time i let her borrow my cookie when she went out clubbing with her office friends, i forgot to mention that i was expecting instructions from my pops. Pops knows that someone was living with me hehehehe what a way to introduce a fubu. what i dont let her read are my emails - too many confidential information . Quote Link to comment
MS Posted May 4, 2009 Share Posted May 4, 2009 I will allow him.. I got nothing to hide I can just leave my phone with him but I know he won't read it not unless maybe if I asked him to. As for him, minsan he allows me, siya pa ang nagpapakita and I appreciate it, kahit pa about his business yung pinabasa nya, ang ok dun at least he shares it with me But general rule, it's ok not to, so you can have a privicy as individuals even if you are partners.. you got to keep something for yourself as always. Quote Link to comment
sajuuk Posted May 4, 2009 Share Posted May 4, 2009 in some cases, no but for some reasons, mas naauna pa xang magbasa sa mga txt para sakin.. grr... kaka-asar.. nawawala na ang privacy ko... gf pa nga lang, wala na. Quote Link to comment
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