silentkilla Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 Virginity is no longer an issue to me. The imporrtant thing is that she is with me now and I make sure that she feels good all the time. I will nurture our feelings for each other so that it will last. Virginity is never a factor in a relationship anyway... Quote Link to comment
loner Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 guys, your views on this: bakit kailangan natin maka-score pag alam natin na hindi na virgin ang gf natin? it's a theory of a lady friend of mine...  ladies, if you're in this thread, do you believe this theory? any experiences you wanna share?  enlighten me.  --- my thoughts on this: its because of our ego. ayaw natin pahuli sa mga naging experiences nila. and we're thinking that it's ok with her since she did it before and she might be missing it. well, initially, ganun inisip ko dati. but then i realized that i would rather make love to my girl than just have sex (for me magkaiba ung dalawa)... and it's worth the wait.... Quote Link to comment
hsmeilop Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 if my "GF"is no longer a virgin, then that's good. Dont have to teach her anymore. Â But seriously... I dont think I need to score with her if she's not ready yet. Quote Link to comment
yuulimoe Posted January 11, 2005 Share Posted January 11, 2005 hmm..if she's not a virgin..first thing that comes to my mind is... It's sure I'll get some! :boo: well, first...how would you know kung virgin pa siya? given na hindi pa kayo nagpopopoy...syempre pag 2 lang kayo..mapupunta na sa ganung usapan..tapos magiging action na! automatic! oh yes! :boo: Â nagkagirlfriend na rin ako ng virgin..badtrip nga eh...nung alone na kami...sinabi niya agad na para tumagal kami, wag ko daw siyang pilitin ng ayaw niya..un nga, ayaw pa nya ng popoy.. :cry: tapos after 2 days, pinuntahan niya ko sa boarding house, tapos malungkot daw cya...umiiyak..at kami'y naghalikan...hanggang kuskusan lang..walang popoy..ayun..di rin kami nagtagal..walang popoy eh! :boo: Quote Link to comment
missmanners Posted January 11, 2005 Share Posted January 11, 2005 when a girl is still a virgin, it's either by choice or she's too naive to want otherwise. guys who will take advantage of her just to pop her cherry are crude and primitive. so are guys who think they'll score just because a girl is no longer a virgin. so what if she slept with more people than you?! does that make you less of a man? should it matter whether she is a virgin or not? if you really like a girl, shouldn't you respect her and her wishes? and what should the number of sexual partners equate to really? siiigh. it makes me angry to think that there are men out there that let their other head do the talking. there's a reason why your brain is above your shoulders and not your dick. Quote Link to comment
hotr0d Posted January 11, 2005 Share Posted January 11, 2005 when a girl is still a virgin, it's either by choice or she's too naive to want otherwise. guys who will take advantage of her just to pop her cherry are crude and primitive. so are guys who think they'll score just because a girl is no longer a virgin. so what if she slept with more people than you?! does that make you less of a man? should it matter whether she is a virgin or not? if you really like a girl, shouldn't you respect her and her wishes? and what should the number of sexual partners equate to really? siiigh. it makes me angry to think that there are men out there that let their other head do the talking. there's a reason why your brain is above your shoulders and not your dick.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  right on.... very well said...... :cool: Quote Link to comment
EiNNoS Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 when a girl is still a virgin, it's either by choice or she's too naive to want otherwise. guys who will take advantage of her just to pop her cherry are crude and primitive. so are guys who think they'll score just because a girl is no longer a virgin. so what if she slept with more people than you?! does that make you less of a man? should it matter whether she is a virgin or not? if you really like a girl, shouldn't you respect her and her wishes? and what should the number of sexual partners equate to really? siiigh. it makes me angry to think that there are men out there that let their other head do the talking. there's a reason why your brain is above your shoulders and not your dick.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>   kudos!!! Quote Link to comment
Guest Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 nothing! i'm in the relationship because of her and not because of her hymen. Quote Link to comment
loner Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 when a girl is still a virgin, it's either by choice or she's too naive to want otherwise. guys who will take advantage of her just to pop her cherry are crude and primitive. so are guys who think they'll score just because a girl is no longer a virgin. so what if she slept with more people than you?! does that make you less of a man? should it matter whether she is a virgin or not? if you really like a girl, shouldn't you respect her and her wishes? and what should the number of sexual partners equate to really? siiigh. it makes me angry to think that there are men out there that let their other head do the talking. there's a reason why your brain is above your shoulders and not your dick.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> :cry: i was guilty of this...  ...good thing i changed for the better... Quote Link to comment
drEVILmba Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 Moderator's Note:   Merged Topic/s  Concept of Virginity of your GF Quote Link to comment
adriane888 Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 Initially, tanga girls pala GF ko, buti na lang lahat ng naging GF ko virgin pa nun... promise.. Quote Link to comment
marvin_8 Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 HONESTLY ....... i prefer experienced women .....i hate virgins .. it always gives me a hard time ....VIRGINITY is not a prerequisite ..... If u love the person .. kahit ilang tao pa naka ..... dyan .....ok lang .. past is past .....e ikaw ba nakailan ka na ?? perfectionist ka ..... perfect ka ba???so what ??? hindi importante yun .... kakaunti na lang ang double standard men ngayon .....mas mabuti pa nga yung meron na nauna .. at least they were tried and tested .. and they know how to move .. no inhibitions .... walang arte arte ..... hindi ka na magtuturo ... for the record i was successfully able to turn down 4 virgins ... who wanted me to be their first ....i hope u guys know why .... it's not about popping the cherry .....it's about how you feel ... and how will she feel after .....makunsensiya ka .. masisira mo buhay ng tao .. hindi mo naman mahal .. gusto mo lang laruin ....and it's better to play with women who know the game ...rather than hurt the virgins just so that you could count how many cherries u popped .....i've popped many ... but i came to realize KARMABabalik at babalik yan sayo .... and someday u will realize the wrong things you've done .....and siyempre ... as usual .... the revelations are already LATE ..... just like what happened to me ....... :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
nataraki Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 i dont consider virginity as the catalyst of my relationship and it wouldnt matter! what matters is that you couples are open and honest about it, with or without actually confirming it. however, if according to her, im her 1st bf and she hasnt had any physical contacts before to merit such and i later found out that she's not then i'd have second thoughts on her. when, where, why and to whom did she lose her virginity would be part of the question. if she lost it to someone else during our relationship then by all means virginity does count in. hmmm... what a perspective hehehe! Quote Link to comment
Iori Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 kung ganun ang nalaman mo and pinagtapat nya sayo, rejoice! wala ng paikot-ikot pa! wahoo! basta mahal mo ang babae at mahal ka nya, yun ang pinaka-importante sa relationship dba? Ano ba threadstarter nito? 1930s ka ba pinanganak? uso pa ba harana jan? Quote Link to comment
ayatolah Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 sex.....nakipagsex gf ko kaya di na sya virgin...pero it doest matter tome kung ganun...masmasaya nga yun eh di ba mga bros? Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 I'd still love her---hymen or no hymen (that didn't sound quite right...ngek!) Seriously, though, that's kind of like the chastity belt of olden times...a form of slavery that society imposes on women. Women are human too, right? So you must realize by now that she is allowed the same choices you can make yourself. Fair's fair. Quote Link to comment
Brian® Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 Why would anything change? Ang babaw mo kung hahayaan mong guluhin ka ng idea na yun. And guys who think its degrading is only insecure kasi may nauna sa kanila... Quote Link to comment
Brian® Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 Basta ako ang huli, okey lang yan! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I agree! :cool: Quote Link to comment
servo101 Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 ummm...nothing comes to mind...dapat ba meron? Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 Glad to know that Filipinos have finally arrived. True, chastity is a virtue---an act of preserving one's "purity". The concept is not without its own negative implications, too, however. Happily, we are more tolerant (and hopefully) more respectful of our own humanity. Being excessively concerned about propriety or decorum is a recipe for disaster. Quote Link to comment
jopoc Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 good. now the formalities are done with..... Quote Link to comment
jopoc Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 could also be:Â WHAT! HINDI KA NA VIRGIN? SANA TINIRA MO NAMAN PARA SA AKIN ANG PWET MO. hahahahaha Quote Link to comment
NIKNOK Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 ego na lang if something comes up to your mind hindi na love Quote Link to comment
Jodee Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 nkkwa nmng basahin ang mga replies nyo guys..... i admire guys hu says it doesnt matter to them kng virgin p ang girl or nde.. mron p rn kcng iba n nde gnun... like my bf un4tun8ly.. hayyy.. ... CHeeRs!!! Quote Link to comment
mike_23 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 doesnt matter as long as i love her and she loves me.. thats all that matters :heart: Quote Link to comment
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