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  1. what if you're married like in my case, i am married for 5 yrs. all those years my wife is just there for me, kaya umabuso ako, akala ko hindi nya magagawa sa kin. kaya to the point na halos hindi ko na sya nakakausap, yun pala napapabayaan ko na sya. akala ko nun, wala ng ibang magkakagusto or manliligaw sa wife ko. akala ko anjan lang sya for me. hindi kami nag away kahit minsan. i still go home everyday. pero most of the time wala ako sa bahay at nasa "iba". then one day eto nakahalata ako na iba na rin yung kinikilos nya. something that i noticed cause ganun din ako eh. pero akala ko takot lang ako sa sarili kong multo hangang sa ayun nahuli ko. now what will you do guys kung malaman mo na may nangyari sa kanila? pero eto sya nagmamakaawa sa yo na patawarin sya, inako nya lahat ng kasalanan kahit deep inside you, alam mong may kasalanan ka rin na hindi nya alam. hindi nya alam na mas matindi pa kasalanan mo. kayo, tatangapin nyo ba sya dahil mahal mo sya at may mga anak kayo? mahirap! masakit! pero kasalanan ko, kaya willing akong kalimutan lahat at tanggapin sya. ill just treat this as a VERY BAD DREAM! laging bumabalik sa isip ko yung mga nangyari, sabi ko sana hindi na umabot sa ganito bago ako nagpakatino! BUT WHEN CAN I DO, IT WAS ALL MY FAULT! PINABAYAAN KO SYA! AT ALAM KO ETO ANG KARMA KO FOR DOING ALL THOSE THINGS WITH OTHER WOMEN KAHIT ALAM KONG MAY ASAWA NA KO!

     

    MASAKIT, but I HAVE TO ACCEPT IT!

     

    pick up the pieces and move on.

  2. True. But know this: Never ask your heart to think or your mind to feel.

     

    When it comes to matters of the heart, I don't listen to my brain.

     

    If it's something you should think about, I never get my feelings get in the way of something rational.

     

    Which is rational and which is emotional? That's where you draw the line.

     

    I've ended up bruised and unhappy everytime I think about what I should do with my relationships. I don't do that anymore. I feel when I need to and I think when I have to.

     

    but sometimes when we're all jaded and disillusioned about relationships, we're too tired to feel anything anymore.

     

    well, each one is different. i've always been pragmatic and try not to get easily swayed by my emotions.

  3. Never is a very strong word. We can't choose the people we fall in love with. It's cupid's twisted humor.

     

    All my life I lived by a code:

    "Kung wala pang singsing, pwede pang agawin."

    "All is fair in love and in war."

     

    Just make sure that you're ready to commit yourself to what you're about to do. You'll be destroying a relationship. There are no excuses about it, you'll be looked down upon by other people and your friends as well. But for me, if she's worth it, I'll destroy everything to get her. I'll cut down everthing in my path, including my pride and my standing in the social hierarchy. This world has fought for money, power and respect. Why can't we fight as passionately for someone we love?

     

    the last paragarph is so romantic - fighting for the one you love.

     

    anyway, whilst it is true that we can't choose the person we fall in love with, we do have control, however, on our actions over the emotions that seemed to have washed away our senses.

  4. LOL @ me being a master

     

    I'm definitely not master yet but here's some tips.

     

    1) buy nice clothes. don't dress metrosexually, but have a sense of style. girls don't like men who just throws on anything they see. If you have no idea of what good looks like read men's mags, FHM, GQ, Maxim. Take a girl with you when you go clothes shopping. Get a decent haircut, trim your nosehair, make sure you have 2 eyebrows. Everything is in the details.

     

    2) read mothaf*cka! read anything and everything. This gives you ammo when you're chatting a girl up. It's really lame when the only things that you can talk about is your level in Ragnarok or how often you play pangya.

     

    3) Practice. Practice starting conversations with random strangers, security guards, cab drivers, the lady that sells you cigarettes, etc. This removes your fear of talking to people you've just met, and gets you comfortable talking to absolute strangers.

     

    4) Be confident. I cannot stress this enough. Swing your arms when you walk. Puff your chest out, straighten those shoulders. Nothing turns a woman on than confidence.

     

    5) DO NOT USE A LINE. No matter how original or funny you think your line is, it's still lame. a simple hi, or a compliment would do nicely. Using lines reek of desperation, women don't like desperate.

     

    6) Do not try to be funny if you're not. Seriously.

     

    7) Brush your teeth, and carry around tic tacs.

     

    I have more but I'm too lazy to type it all out. Anyway that should be enough.

     

    As for closing, I leave that up to you.

     

    To answer the question the quickest I ever sealed the deal is 10 minutes. It was at a bar in Nakpil (before Nakpil became the homosexual haven it is now) this girl rubbed her tits on my back at the bar, I turned around and asked her if she wanted to do the front now. A few laughs later, I was getting blown in the toilet. It helped that she was drunk and that she was a total slut too.

     

    this is good list to start with.

     

    truly, apart from the physical, it is paramount that the guy is able to strike up a nice convo and a sensible one at that. if they try too much, it becomes pretentious and it turns us off.

  5. please stop being hard on yourself. you've done so much already. i hope you'll learn to stop and smell the flowers.

     

    there are people who unwittingly desire you, with pure intentions. why can't you see them through? ruminating thoughts wouldn't help you either. you're slowly killing yourself.

     

    don't be so caught up with stereotypes. stop generalizing. stop overanalysing.

  6. hmmmm.... baka maliit kasi kamay ni deli :) i believe she prefer lang naman the smaller one hehehe :)

     

    i agree. dapat mas maliit talaga ang tickler.

     

    pero... kanya kanya lang naman yan eh hehehehe

     

    teka, may tickler kaba?

     

    hahaha! exactly.

     

    delisyus will k*ll me. why do i care about her tickler so much.

     

    yup, i do have and it doesn't need batteries.

  7. bad guy or not, people in general look for somebody who would fulfill what seems to be lacking in himself/herself.

     

    it goes with age. - true. and a whole lot more i.e. social status, culture, etc.

     

    men and women alike have their own complexities.

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