transcience

help naman. first time ko to humingi ng legal advise.

 

3 years na ako hiwalay sa wife ko. may isa akong anak sa kanya. 4 y/o na. 3 years na din ako nagbibigay financial support para sa anak ko. 10k the first year then ginawa ko 15k after kasi nagumpisa na mag aral ang bata.

now, 2 months back. nag abroad misis ko. im living abroad too btw. iniwan nya anak ko sa parents ko. sa madaling salita. sa amin na nakatira baby ko, kami na nag parents ko na nagaalaga and sumasalo sa gastusin.

 

now, pwede ko na ba stop pagbigay ko ng pera sa wife ko kasi nasa amin na baby ko? kasi binigigyan ko pa x-wife ko around 13k a month then i give 5k pa sa mom ko pangastos ng anak ko now na nasa amin na sya.

 

tama ba na stop ko na yun then ibigay ko na lamg lahat ng money to my mom. kasi sya nman na nagaasikaso sa anak ko.

 

ayon sa batas. if im earning 50-60k a mont . magkano legal na ibigay ko for cjhild support for my 4y/o daughter ?

 

thanks sa sinuman makakatulong. kung pwede pm na lang ang reply.

 

good day!

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can somebody please shed some light to this. i'm in the same predicament but on a different note i.e. ex only gives when and how much he wants. am not seeking financial support for myself and my kids because i can raise them on my own. however, the ex has responsibility to provide support because they are his kids too.

thanks to whoever would reply.

there has to be a very good reason to quit smoking. i quit cold turkey when i got pregnant. after that, i never touched a stick ever. sometimes, i'm tempted but rather not succumb to it. it's bad for my health anyways.

taking off from the previous post above me, do we have a law compelling the husband to provide financial support to his family i.e. children specifically, if in case marriage was nullified or the couple are legally separated?

in other countries where divorce is legal, i believe this is a must. but in the phils, people have the tendency to be lax in complying with laws etc.

The MBA-jd program of DLSU and FEU does not have very good feedback.  It's sort of like a program with an identity crisis... and you end up half-baked in two specializations.  Better if you take mba and law separately.

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yeah, i know. that's why i'm half-hearted about it.

wala lang by bud tomas

it's a collection of essays. but i like reading this guy.

this is the case that i was saying.

 

anotinio v. reyes

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i've read it half-way. now, i'm getting some ideas from that case.

vitiligo reminds me of michael jackson. he said the reason why he's alabaster white is that he has this skin disease which i believe is pure bs.

yeah right...even me is against to the idea of keeping the marital tie when the love and respect are gone..

 

but still sir it is the law, we govern by law.....

 

anyway, it is still a question of fact if your case merit the granting of nullity of marriage....expensive lang talaga.....

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frustrating 'no.

anyway, i'm not a "sir".

i'm thinking of the mba-jd program in dlsu. otherwise, it's up for me.

I read this book almost two years ago and since then i have bought it as a gift for many of my friends and family. This is a great book full of inspiration, wisdom, and the idea of following your heart... finding your true path in life.

 

Have you read this book? any comment?

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i've read it. it kinda gets boring midway. but, yes inspiring.

yes sir, the law sucks until and unless our family code is ammended...

the spirit of the law according to our supreme court is the preservation of family being the smallest unit of the society.

in case of doubt in the interpretation of the law should be judge in favor of the preservation of family..

 

if you will notice gasgas na yung rason na pyschological incapacity kahit hindi talaga...and what is more irrational eh ung right of the goverment to inquire to the collusion of both parties in the annulment proceedings initiated by one of them.or to inquire to the validity of the grounds and evidence procured by both parties.. :mtc:

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"preservation of family being the samllest unit of the society" -- but what about the preservation of sanity of the people involved? and the right to live a happy normal life?

the law is selfish.

i suggest that you read the recent decision of antonio v. reyes, 10 march 2006. it will be helpful to your case. find it in supremecourt.gov.ph.

 

i will try to explain it if i get the time. sorry, im busy now.

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ok. i'll try to find time reading it. thanks.

wheww...i dont have my family code with me..but anyway as far as i remember there are few grounds for the granting of annulment and infedility is not among of them.. however it is a grounds for legal separation....

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okay, i'm good as dead. either i profess i'm gay or claim that i've been sired by other men or whatever.

the law sucks. legal separation would neither sever the ties with the ex.

transcience, (and please mtc lawyers comments)

 

annulment is becoming a generic word when people intend to have a declaration of nullity under article 36 (psychological incapacity).  50k for a package is cheap since for the psychologist alone 25k na plus appearance fee for at least 2 hearings, e yung sa abogado pa at kung minamalas-malas ka pa sa fiscal.

 

if both parties wanted the marriage to be dissolved, the easiest way is to file annulment based on intrinsic fraud, it's easy as one party alleging and the other admitting that he or she is gay and hid said fact to the other prior to the marriage.  but of course, there must be no signs of collusion or else, mahal na naman babayaran nyo kay fiscal.

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aside from being gay, what else constitutes intrinsic fraud?

for the sake of discussion, what if the grounds of the annulment is infidelity? would that merit an annulment?

in my case, i still am legally married but have been separated for quite sometime. i have a healthy friendly relationship with the ex. the thought of annulment was raised before but have not progressed since then. i've asked lawyer friends for costing. cost and expenses range from php80k-php300k, fees obviously would depend on the lawyer.

guys, will appreciate your comments. thanks.

Aside from the Standard English and Filipino Subjects that you took, were there any other foreign languages you learned from school?

 

For me, unfortunately none, the schools that i went to didn't include any other Language Subjects aside from those mentioned Though it is my dream to learn Japanese, Spanish or Mandarin

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studied spanish and nihonggo in high school.

calculus - both differential and integral.

why?

because i wrote all the formulas in a cartolina then plastered it on the walls of my room for me to really absorb every single formula. i bade goodbye to my social life because of my math subjects. i quit eventually.

nung nag-aaral ka pa, magkano inaabot ang tuition fee mo sa bawat semestre? ilang semestre kayo sa isang taon?

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year 1991, dlsu, bs-ime : approx Php7,500 per trimester full load (18 units)

year 1993, dlsu-csb, bsba-ca : approx php13,000 per trimester (can't recall if this is full load already)

the tuition fees nowadays are much much more expensive.

i'm studying in up now, really big difference. ang mura ng tuition!

saan ba meron outlet/branch ang brothers burgers? d pa ako natikim nyan...

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there's one in convergys building along ayala and another one is pasong tamo extension. i think they have a branch in rockwell and the fort, too.

Where's the beef?

 

Where do you go when you crave for burgers?

 

Personally, I like Hotshots & Wendy's.

 

I hate Jollibee's version cause it has mayo.

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brother's and hungry hippos

vanilla ice cream

banana with peanut butter

tea with milk or chowking's nai cha

chicharon bulaklak

i alternate glasses and contacts.

kiss or hug my boys.

whenever we file our itr's every year, we have to secure a residence certificate, right? the amount we pay varies on our gross taxable income. effectively, the gross taxable income is taxed the second time around which is so unfair!

the phils is one of the heavily taxed countries in asia. my counterparts in singapore, hk, etc are paying less than 10% income tax. poor little me pays 3 times as much. again, so unfair!