Solaryan

What did I see in you, that made me this way? Was it the little thoughtful things you did? Was it the acts of random kindness that I have seen you do? Is it the sweet sweet tone of your voice?

Are you some form or torment to my indomitable spirit? Wherein, life shows me that even when I'm down, I can still get lower? That, in my most lowest point, I see an angel only realize that the angel was not meant to save me, only to show me that others have angels, and I only have these envious eyes that lets me see what others have that can never be mine?

Will you fault me, for wanting to spend more time with you. Borrowed, yes, I will take what I can get, so long as it is from you...

Yun isang post na kapwa MTC user... napatawa tapos smile ako.

Para sa mga GM na inlove isang nakakatawang qoute sa isang lumang tagalog movie na napanood ko dati. "Nahuli mo ang kiliti ng babaeng walang balakang" Hahahahaha. Walang ako pinariringan o hidden meaning, nakakatawa lang yung linya.

Hahaha! Natawa din ako sa linyang to ah. Nice share dude!

Traffic sa edsa maski 345pm umalis sa makati, di pa rin abot sa 5? 🙁

Practice self-restraint and be a better ninja. I'm too chatty/noisy. I need to take a little chill pill.

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wish ko, okay na. granted na, makasama lang sya...

yun thought na makakasama ko sya today..

Hahaha! matigas ulo ko at gusto ko talagang wag magfall.. pero panu pag falling na nga. Dahil palaban ako, lalabanan ko pa rin...ganun talaga eh. don't give in, fight it! Try to meet other people: thera and non-thera. Para masaya.

Pero tao lang ako, at magpapasko na, baka pedeng regalo na rin sa sarili ko na mag indulge sa alam kong later pagsisisihan ko, di ba?

Parang pag diabetic ka, pero pasko naman so kumain ka ng ice cream, fruit salad, cake for dessert. Tapos uminum ka ng maraming juice. Ang mindset mo, pasko naman.. baka pedeng ngayon lang mag indulge di ba? Tapos ganun ulit sa new year's eve? :D

Hay....

Margot Robbie.... hot!

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Bakit ganun isang PM nya lang ang saya saya ko na? Ndi ba sya nabubulunan o di kaya dumudugo na dila nya kakaisip at kwento ko about sa kanya? Ako kaya naiisip man kang nya?

 

Hahaha...that's one of the most overused lines among therapists, "Sau ko lng ginagawa to."...I have grown to accept that unless the thera does something really out of her way like return your tips, go out with you on dates, maybe even make love with you outside the confines of the spa without payments involved, then the ES that you get is mostly likely at par with other clients. She makes you think that you are getting a higher mileage as a marketing ploy, to make you patronize her services and hers only.

Haha! I have the same thoughts. She only really likes you if you met her outside for dates wherein she is not paid to spend time with you. And all the rest he said.

Anyway, I am not pursuing, cause' she is already taken. So I am just enjoying this madness, I call my life.

Wishing u good luck if you are pursuing a relationship with one and hope reality wont be harsh on you like what it did to me. I have the same mindset like you back then even defending their line of work. In time you will realize bakit maraming tao na sobrang gipit na din pero nagtitiyaga s minimumwage kahit n may itsura nman to sell their body. It all comes down to their values and respect sa sarili. I am in no position to judge its everyone decision to do what they want in life. Wish u well.

thank you for wishing me well sir!

I can only hope to land an amazing woman (devil may care on what she does for a living).

 

I don't mean to burst your bubble but just because she doesn't do it to you doesn't mean she never did it to others. Hence, the concept of differing mileage.

I didn't notice this earlier. No bubble was burst, James. I hope you don't mind me calling you by your first name. Hehe.. I feel that somehow we are more acquainted now, since we have been exchanging our POVs on this topic.

I am aware of the many possibilities that is or can be happening. Like for example, she may be doing that service before but stopped for her bf's sake. But, since her previous clients have already grown to that service she may only be doing that for those select clientele. Or she may not really be doing it for clients only for those she's in a relationship with. There's also a chance that she only does it for thos she find attractive (myself not included )

There's a lot, trust me, I spent so many nights pondering all my questions.

But at the end of all this (dawn), I still want to go see her. Even if we may end up just talking...that's how much I like what I am getting form her. Her time....

There was this therapist a couple of years back who was one of the "it" therapists. When I tried her, I had a great time. She was the real deal and I was able to have my way short of "singing" since she didn't "sing" because that was her rule only to find out that she "sang" to another guest. I didn't mind since I am aware of the concept of differing mileage. You win some, you lose some.

Again, we are seeing eye to eye here.

I guess, my question would be (more to myself, but I will welcome anyone's answer), how do I find that out, for certain? Most if not all, will keep it to themselves to maintain the perks he is getting. Plus, there's also a possibility that a GM will lie to you to make you feel bad about the thera you like.

So all in all, it's a leap. Honestly for me, if I find out that she gives more mileage to other clients than she gives me. I will be sad, but I am at a point, where I don't think I can stop myself from seeing her. I tried that already, only to realize that Joker (Jared Leto's version) was right. Desire becomes surrender. Surrender becomes power. My only thought now is, how come she gets all the power? lol

Anyway, nice discussions going on in this thread..

Then I guess we each have different definitions of the word "cheating".

Mr. Cutter, we are in agreement.

Which is why I asked you if she tells the bf that she "sings" to guests? Or maybe if she did it with a lucky guest, did she tell him?

Which is why I asked you the questions above. So far, you haven't answered them.

Fine, I will answer this. Haha! She does not sing. As far as I know. I mean she has never done it for me. Like I said, she sets her boundaries and It's my choice whether I still avail her or not. That is RESOLVE.

I was about to log off, but I decided to answer this post first.

On a sad note, I will really be bummed if I hear she sings for others but not for me. Hahahahah! And of course, I will ask her if her bf also knows that particular ES she does for others (not for me.. huhu)

I don't know where to begin my reply to this post.

Anyway, I have work to do.. So, maybe later. Or maybe someone else can take over. lol

All I can say is, spirochete, again brother. I mean no offense to what I am about to say. Sincerely.... But, not all of them are like your ex. As you have seen, there college students/ college graduate theras out there who are just making the most of what fate/life has dealt them. It does not, in anyway decrease their value and values (morals)* as people. Even JC was judged by the Pharisees for allowing Magdalene to follow him and his disciples.

My point is, who are we to judge? Love and be loved.

If it didn't work, the blame is on one or both parties, but please don't blame it on a job..

It's off putting to say, nah, she's a thera so she's prone to this blah blah blah.. I'm better of with a non-thera gf etc.. If that is what you believe in, then again, by all means go for it. No one will stop you. We're all free here. Free to love a thera and free not to love one..

Last, di naman lahat ng GMs matanda na. May mga nasa 20s din naman.. haha!

Solaryan off to work....

* Footnote: offtopic - pero have you guys noticed, mejo marami na akong nakikitang theras na may necklace na cross noh. Wala lang. observation ko lang..you're free to interpret it anyway you want to...

So you're justifying the cheating? Ok, since you said she tells the boyfriend what she does, does she tell him she "sings" to guests? Or maybe to the lucky guest, does she tell him she does it with a guest?

I'm not justifying anything. What I am saying is, is it still considered cheating if her bf already knows what she does inside and concedes to the fact that she is only doing it to make a living?

It is only cheating if she tells her bf that she only does standard ES but in reality she gives more services to others (ie. her loyal patrons).

So I ask you this, if your gf/wife/partner allowed you to kiss/suck/f*ck someone. As in, that person told you, that I understand James, you need to do that to save my life. I won't get mad. I understand and support you. Would you still consider yourself as a cheater? If you answer yes, then, I guess that is how you define it. But sorry that I don't define it that way..

Maybe, maybe not but based on the odds, a therapist will cheat. I am talking generally. But then again, doing intimate things with guests already constitutes cheating, right? That is if the girl has a husband or bf. All therapists who had boyfriends all said the same thing, "Sir, hindi niya alam."

That is why I find the thera I like, different. She tells her bf what she does. So I guess, for 'them" it's not cheating since she is forthcoming with what happens inside.

it's like doing the massage but only on the intimate parts. Haha! And as long as the bf can tolerate it, who are we to judge, right? I mean come on, we've heard of swingers or wives allowing their husbands to participate in a 3some as long as they are present. Is the idea of somehow, being okay that your thera-gf is fondling another man's cactus that surprising? If you know full well that she can be trusted and that she has dreams/plans to save enough money to be independent in the near future?

Binigyan p nga nya ako ng deadline na if I dont get promoted soon she will go back to the industry which I say I wont accept.

Natawa ako dito

Hehe ultimatum, dapat mapromote ka.. kundi lagot ka.

Anyway, sorry sir. Alam ko minahal nyo ang isa't isa pero, siya po bilang tao, ang nagsimula ng ikinatapos ng relasyon nyo...hindi po yung trabaho nya. Yun lamang po..

Like I said, it is more likely that therapists will cheat because of the smorgasbord of men they meet every day. No matter how sturdy a therapist's moral fiber is, that will weaken. Kung baga sa baseball, meron talaga diyan magbabase hit. Because of the sheer number of men she meets and does intimate things with, she will cheat.

 

Now, in the context of the love story, the girl cheated because the guy could not provide for her family.

Hehe, I like the baseball analogy

But, I disagree with the matter of fact tone, that she (the girl) will cheat. I like to believe that somewhere out there, there's a strong-willed individual who can withstand insurmountable odds and temptation just to make ensure that they remain faithful and together....