Solaryan

di talaga dapat di ba... bakit ba kulit ko?

Bakit di nagtagal?It was a mutual decision for us to end it.Ako kasi naging super seloso. Inis ako pag may mga pumoporma sa kanya. Paranoid ako and I always question kung loyal siya sa akin.Yan ang madalas namin pag awayan.Nag adjust naman siya for me pero over time bumabalik siya sa dati niyang ways na sumasama for lunch/dinner with clients sa labas, gimmicks with her friends.Naintindihan ko na ganun ang work niya at ang naging buhay niya before I met her. Ako sa expectations ko sa kanya as a girlfriend at siya naman sa kelangan niyang gawin as part of the job. To be fair, sobrang honest siya sa lahat ng ginagawa niya kasi sinasabi niya sa akin lahat.Siguro ako lang talaga may problema.Love namin isat isa pero pareho kaming nahihirapan dahil sa mga priorities at expectations namin. Kahit open pa ang communication namin sa isat isa. So, In the end hindi namin napanindigan ang love namin.

 

Ang pinakamasakit is naka move on siya ng mabilis at may nahanap na siyang bago. Siguro may "Spark" na naman siyang nakita with another client.

 

Kaya di ako masyadong solve sa spark na yan. Pang pelikula lang at kilig.It's so Hollywood culture. Ang totoong honest to goodness relationship is beyond the kilig part.Dun masusubukan ang love ninyo sa isat isa. So goodluck sa mga naka feel ng spark jan with their special someone.Stay with the feeling pero it takes lots of work to make it last.

 

 

salamat sa pagshare bro...

 

oo nga, may ganyan talaga. It just goes to show na thera-gm relationship or any other boy-girl relationship posibleng sa una lang masaya at once reality/ real-life takes effect nag biburst ang bubbles at nauuwi sa hiwalayan..

 

I feel for you bro. Pero, in my book, mejo pinalad ka na rin (pun intended. hehe) kasi you and your ex were able to experience those moments together, di ba?

 

Nakakarelate din ako kay pepejose. araw2 din ako nagchcheck ng mtc dahil sa kanya.. yun na rin way ko para makasagap ng news/update about her... hay.. ako rin sad today. walang nakuhang reply

El Nido

 

 

 

Hot or cold?

dri-fit shorts at shirt tapos rubber shoes

Bakit naman di nagtagal.... ?

 

ako rin, call me curious Solaryan. Bakit nga di nagtagal?

Hahaha ilan po sana beemer? 😄

Happy Sunday hug

when i was younger, i thought sacrificing something of value for someone and putting that person's interests above your own is real love. but then i realized later, that is not enough. real, genuine love requires two things: first, sacrificing what you have, those that you hold so dearly, even your own life, freely to someone and not expecting something in return, and second, always electing to give the person his/her the freedom to choose and decide, even if that will mean hurting himself/herself in the process though fully knowing the consequences, while you hope that he/she will learn his/her lessons - this is essential for his/her own growth, while you assume the role of a supporter, a friend, a guide, a giver of joy, and one who will be ready to repair what has been broken.

I agree with this. But in my book, if you love someone and are willing to sacrifice everything for that person, it includes his second point too.

 

If you put the person you love ahead of your own that entails giving that person your trust, your fidelity and the freedom to be the best versions of themselves.. even if at times, what's best for them, hurts you like shards of glass stuck underneath your skin and cause you many sleepless nights. You endure. Because, you love her and it is something she needs.

My advise is you have to take it slow and just enjoy the companionship don't rush it to the point your planning to marry her..

If you are really sure about her that she is the one then it doesn't matter what's her past since from the start you fell in love with her..

And of course you have to shoulder and support her financially if you want her to quit her job...Or if you are open minded you just let her continue her job if she wants to stay in this Industry because of how much money she earn while your in relationship with her...

Friends and family will understand and accept her eventually if they see you happy not unless you are already committed to someone...

 

As for me never been in the point that I really fell so hardly in love in my relationship with a thera..I know I love her but never to the point that I want to settle down with her...We just enjoy our relationship while it last...And its all real, no money involved since I'm just a regular guy who earn a standard minimum wage..They still work as a therapist while we are in relationship...

We are very open to each other, heck we even talk about the things happenings in their work..Like their customers courting them and letting me read their text message to them...most of the time I feel jealous about it but I have to accept it since I cant support them financially...Its all good just like Usher's song"I don't mind"...

I salute you. Thanks sa pag share mr thugZsoulja. Ayos ka sir!

 

Mr. Manoloto, they all said basically the same thing and here's my way of saying it.

 

If you really love your thera, pursue her. Be the bigger person and accept her for all that she is, including her current job. Now, if you are married or in a relationship, then kudos for being a hokage-level ninja. lol. Kidding aside, then I suggest you spend 3 days and 3 nights without seeing your thera and just spend time with your wife. Find out whom you can and cant live without between the thera and the wife.

 

If it is really the thera that you want to keep, then you better be ready to throw away everything. There will be hell and more, but of the love is REAL, then you and your loved one will overcome it.

 

May mga tao nga oh, na kaya pang basahin at tanggapin na may nanliligaw sa gf nila o anu pa. Yun mahirap na klase ng pagmamahalan at puno ng pagsubok, yun pa ang mas fulfilling at mas masarap sa bandang huli.

Hersheys chocolate drink

 

 

 

 

 

Anu worst nightmare mo?

Dati gusto ko both. Pero sa sitwasyon ko ngayon na wala naman in my horizon na prospect of love sige buhos ko na lang sa career.

Office romance??? Trouble to pero... the girl na i had a romance with is now my wife at we now have a 2 year old son... pero bago kami napunta jan... sus grabe chismis na inabot namin. So dapat malakas din loob mo sa chismis.

 

Pag gusto mo tlaga go for it mahirap mag hanap eh.

 

Advantage pati ang ka office mo yung nagugustuhan mo di tulad ng college or highschool basta trip mo maging sino man ok lang pag office na kasi learn to choose well dito mo mapapakinabangan yung part na pwede ka mag background check muna sa mga prospects mo. Makipag kwentuhan ka sa mga frends nya katrabaho nya at others na di naman halata na nag background check ka na. Malalaman mo if he fits yung criteria mo. Pag di mo officemate pano ka mag background check? Mahirapan ka makilala kung sino tlaga yung tao.

Yup. Same kami nito. Di maiiwasan may mga maiinggit at mapag uusapan kayo pero kung mahal nyo isat isa wala masama dito.

 

Cguro pangit lng kun lalandi ka lng or magfifling lang ng kawork mo. Pag ganun proceed with caution lalo na kung may posisyon ka na o reputasyon sa work na dapat mo pangalagaan..

Never say never sabi nga nila. Pero ako sasabihin ko pa rin dito sa tanung na yan. Never. Hahaha

 

Kasi madalas kong nakaka sex dati mga gfs ko naman. So bakit ako matatakot mabuntis ko sila. E kun mangyari yun handa naman ako panagutan at pakasalan kasi mahal ko. Sila pa ang takot kesa sakin na mabuntis sila 😄

 

Disclaimer: di po sabay sabay mga naging gf ko.. hahaha

Last relationship 4 years and 8mos at bago yan 5 years 2 mos naman kami nun isa ko pang ex.. so again, mahal ko at sila lang kasex ko nun mga karelasyom ko pa sila so di ako takot mabuntis sila 😄

 

I went through the exact same thing, buddy. Change "4 years" to two and "Canada" to "United States". Otherwise, exact same story and feelings...It's good to know, you are not alone when it comes to these stormy, morose, deliciously painful tales of love lost....But we all move on...The only permanent thing in this world is change...As our good pal Nitzsche said: "What doesn't k*ll us makes us stronger".....A broken heart can hurt like hell and even k*ll someone. "Too much love will k*ll you",,,,ika nga ni pareng Freddie Mercury....But life goes on....And when someday, you do find that one, true, epic love of your life....You discover that all the pain was worth it...You discover that indeed....Love, and life...is stronger even than death...

Bro, dahil single ka din ba kaya nag eesplore ka rin muna? Okay lang yan.. parte ng buhay to si ba. Masasaktan mahihirapan so minsan humanap ng sarap at kasiyahan 😊

nope.

 

 

do you use a planner?

Masaklap pag may nafeel kang spark. Masarap na masakit na nakakabaliw

Agree! Haha pero at least may sarap di ba? 😄

Old spa patrons eh matatawa na lang sa thread na to, actually. LOVE and a spa lifestyle, it's soooo newbie-ish.

 

Pero maraming nagbabasa sa section na to, theras included. Gives a lot of people a feeling of amusement.

 

For a great number of spa patrons though, what they're probably looking for is another thera that can outmatch their favorite thera, at an equally competitive price.

 

 

Yup! newbie here

 

Sinabi rin nga yan ng isa sa mga naging thera ko. Hehe Sabi nya halatang bago pa ako sa spa lifestyle kasi excited at mabilis pa ako mapasaya.. Mahilig pa magbigay ng frs.

 

Hehe kaya lalo kong ineenjoy. Habang may kinang at saya pa ang mga ginagawa ko mas nanamnamin ko..

 

Parang nasa honeymoon period pag may new gf ka, Yun toping lahat kakakilig at nagpapasaya pa sa inyo. Parang ganun pala to pag newbie ka sa spa lifestyle.

 

There's an old song entitled "The Shoop Shoop Song (It's In His Kiss)" with lyrics that goes...

 

"If you want to know if he loves you so

It's in his kiss

That's where it is"

I'm not sure if this works the other way around, like..

"If you want to know if SHE loves you so

It's in HER kiss

That's where it is"

 

 

Hmm interesting...

I guess it's in the kiss indeed.

If you felt something while kissing that someone, as yourMavic said, there was a "spark". Maybe just maybe she likes you too...

 

I guess I can get on board with this notion. My previous GFs' kisses were also electrifying not because of their techniques but because of something about them and how they made me feel. LOL cheesy amp!

 

Anyway, kelan kaya.... hmmmm.....

Mas mabuting mas mahal ka ng taong karelasyon mo...mas lamang ka nun.

Bakit ang mga terorista pinaghahahanap at tinutugis? Samantala, ako andito na di mo pa kunin?

the thought of me seeing her on my next time off from work...

For now, I will settle in just being your friend. I don't and won't aspire for more. I will respect what you have now so long as it is what makes you happy.

Story of a girl - Blink 182

yung mukha ka nang tanga sa harap ng marami at wala ka nang pride pero sige pa rin kasi ang importante lang sayo e yung sa inyong dalawa.

 

Mahal mo e. kahit sa kangkungan ka pulutin, hindi mo matitiis

 

 

Agree!

 

You love someone if you put their needs, their desires and their happiness ahead of your own. --- nasabi ko na pala to. Allow me to add.

 

Even if people hates you, detests you and thinks you are making an utter fool of yourself. You still persevere because you are doing something that is illogical or does not make sense for others but makes perfect sense to you and allows you to sleep soundly at night, knowing that all your deed and misdeeds were for the sake of making her happy and not getting in the way of that happiness.

 

That for me is TRUE LOVE!

I think I already love myself too much? Lol.

 

Me too.

 

Baka kaya okay lang sakin na sa ngayon single at nakiki mingle lang muna ako. At naglalandi ng taong gusto ko na may iba naman