johnnydrama Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 Btw.... Do you think it's awkward to ask numbers from women you've met in a dance club (of course, provided that you've made the necessary recons that she's not...well...a you-know-who)? For fellow guys out there, what do you think are ideal places to ask for women's numbers? Sa tingin mo, when you find this somewhat fanciable chick you meet in the workplace and you ask for her digits but she tells you that she'll give hers tomorrow...do you think that's a warning sign? Quote Link to comment
RPinay Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 Ako, i'm too shy to ask for her number. I always go via the *bridge* route. Pero I have a friend na super galing. Makasalubong niya lang sa mall, (minsan nga paakyat yung girl sa escalator kami naman pababa), makasabay niya lang sa jeep, (minsan sa tricycle), kuha na niya yung number, pati date and later check-in na! Idol talaga! :evil: :evil: :evil: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Mirage_hankvoyager Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 It always happens to me (too shy to ask for her number) ... Its not that I don't have self-confidence.. I just dont like to be rejected.. First, i make it sure that we had a good conversation. Then I will have to be sensitive on her body gestures coz from that I can partially tell if the girl is also interested on me... If everything goes well then thats the hint for me to ask for her number before we parted ways... Most of the time, thats the sequence I follow.. It really consumes time, but atleast it really works for me.. I just dont want to be too "presko" as other girls call it.... "Slowly but Surely", best describes my way.. Quote Link to comment
Agent_mulder Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 A lot of times na nangyari ito sa akin noon maging sa mga friends ko, kakahiya naman talaga na tanungin mo number niya sa loob ng public transportation at madidinig pa ng ibang pasahero paano na lang kung turn down niya yung request mo... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 15, 2006 Author Share Posted November 15, 2006 pwede siguro ganito guy: uh...can i have your number please?girl: huh? what for?guy: ayaw mo ba nun malay mo manalo ako sa lotto...alam ko number mo edi mababalatuhan kita! :boo: Quote Link to comment
Phrozhen.Khold Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 Its just a number folks... nothing to it... just ask politely and if they dont want to give it thats fine... no need to make a big fuss out of it... its not like you're asking them to marry you... Chillax... the more you make a big deal out of it... the more it will make you hesitate... and you'll look more like an idiot Quote Link to comment
<< xtc >> Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 (edited) hahaha, well try this 1 guys, "hi miss, do you want my number? " ... enwei, kidding aside, madali sabihin pero mahirap gawin. well if you have the guts just ask her straight and accept the consequence ... Edited November 16, 2006 by << xtc >> Quote Link to comment
Larry Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 i just yell mine out to unsuspecting hotties in hopes of them taking it down Quote Link to comment
Yama Posted November 18, 2006 Share Posted November 18, 2006 I follow the 3 second rule: When seeing a hot chick, I only have three seconds to hesitate before apporaching and just say 'Hi'. Three seconds is enough for me to visualize the chick sititng on a toilet, sweaty and all, trying to dump a large turd. If that doesnt demistify the chick for you guys, I dont know what will. Quote Link to comment
-=ladies_choice=- Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 shy type ako.. and nhirapan akong dumiskarte sa girls... madalas nappancin ako ng girls.. peru pagdating sa lalapitan torpe na... tsk tsk.. cguro kailangn tutorials.... :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
freezeburn Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 QUOTE (<< xtc >> @ Nov 16 2006, 03:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>hahaha, well try this 1 guys, "hi miss, do you want my number? " ... enwei, kidding aside, madali sabihin pero mahirap gawin. well if you have the guts just ask her straight and accept the consequence ... Bank Account number ba? madali yan!!! hehehe Quote Link to comment
Larry Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 peru pagdating sa lalapitan torpe na... tsk tsk.. cguro kailangn tutorials.... don't get intimidated this is a sign that you're not confident enough yet approach them like you would any other girl and ask them for their number it doesn't matter what you say, because the more you rehearse it, the cheesier it becomes to you. remember in anything in life, and not just pulling chicks confidence is key if you don't have this, prepare to fail for the rest of your life Quote Link to comment
freezeburn Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 don't get intimidated this is a sign that you're not confident enough yet approach them like you would any other girl and ask them for their number it doesn't matter what you say, because the more you rehearse it, the cheesier it becomes to you. remember in anything in life, and not just pulling chicks confidence is key if you don't have this, prepare to fail for the rest of your life Nobody gets slapped in just asking a girls phone number right? Quote Link to comment
denizgonzalez Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 kpg sa gimikan or kht saan kpg may nkkta akong hot girl pero d ko type nd ako natotorpe, confident na confident akong mkpgusap, pero pg dating sa girl na type ko and sa looks plng e gustong gusto ko na, dun nko natotorpe Quote Link to comment
FALLEN_KINDRED_SOUL Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 Mahirap talagang kunin ang number nang chick lalo na kung kasama mo ang significant other mo o siya ang may kasamang BF!!! heheheheh! For me, it all begins with eye contact, then a smile ... a simple "Hi!" and all the rest just follows! Try it! Quote Link to comment
the_champ Posted December 11, 2006 Share Posted December 11, 2006 practice!! talk to her for a bit about anything then ask for her number. it doesn't always work the way you want it to but the more you do it the less intimitated you get the next time you approach a new girl.. Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted December 11, 2006 Share Posted December 11, 2006 Its all in the eyes, never look down, showing how scared you are to get her number, just smile casualy, approach her with a cool, and not the "mayabang" type of walk, Say to her hi, I was wondering,well my friend wants to get to know you, but hes just to shy to ask, anyway im ......, shake hands. Please to meet you (use her name) Cool,so your from ....(type of uniform shes wearing)nice, anyway i dont want to disturb you or anything but can ask for your number, sorry, my friend really dared me this time, I need to eat crap(anything funny to eat) if I wouldnt complete this dare. So well bye and take care. Then walk out like your a kid (shy like.) If you show your soft side (depending on the lady) I would strongly suggest not to be a show-off. Confidence and a gum is your friend. If your asking for my reference try looking for the confessions post. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted December 11, 2006 Author Share Posted December 11, 2006 Nobody gets slapped in just asking a girls phone number right? wala pero merong nadededma or nai-iisnub.....same effect my dear Quote Link to comment
fisherman Posted December 11, 2006 Share Posted December 11, 2006 wala pero merong nadededma or nai-iisnub.....same effect my dear Yup.. same effect,, especially kung nasa public kayo.. hihi. Quote Link to comment
Larry Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 Say to her hi, I was wondering,well my friend wants to get to know you, but hes just to shy to ask, anyway im ......, shake hands. Please to meet you (use her name) Cool,so your from ....(type of uniform shes wearing)nice, anyway i dont want to disturb you or anything but can ask for your number, sorry, my friend really dared me this time, I need to eat crap(anything funny to eat) if I wouldnt complete this dare. So well bye and take care. sorry bro, but all that ^^^^^ is lame (and I mean this in the most sympathetic big brother type way possible) every guy and their father has used that line for centuries (yes even before they invented the telephone)once the words "well 'my friend' wants to get to know you..." and you give her the "it's a dare" crap all her shields are up by then and you've just lost your chance to start a decent conversation and the promise of sex afterward. A compliment about anything on her (hair, eyes, shoes, well not shoes because she might think your gay) or a simple comment about anything at all would do the trick better and would not make you look like some bumbling idiot just trying to get her number and besides the end goal is not to get her number. the end goal is to not need the number at all and take her home with you right there. Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 sorry bro, but all that ^^^^^ is lame (and I mean this in the most sympathetic big brother type way possible) every guy and their father has used that line for centuries (yes even before they invented the telephone)once the words "well 'my friend' wants to get to know you..." and you give her the "it's a dare" crap all her shields are up by then and you've just lost your chance to start a decent conversation and the promise of sex afterward. A compliment about anything on her (hair, eyes, shoes, well not shoes because she might think your gay) or a simple comment about anything at all would do the trick better and would not make you look like some bumbling idiot just trying to get her number and besides the end goal is not to get her number. the end goal is to not need the number at all and take her home with you right there. True, yet i totally forgot that the same moves doesnt apply to women around 22+ of age and above. Sorry Its true that the same technique doesnt apply to this forum, and so another approach is needed to take her home. I just tried that technique to a couple of your hotties but when the mature and have deeper understanding to male libido, diffenses increase exponentially, so I forgot to say that there are age limits in this matters, apologies... And about guys being slapped, it all depends on the approach.Lets talk about that for some other time, really busy. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted December 12, 2006 Author Share Posted December 12, 2006 (edited) True, yet i totally forgot that the same moves doesnt apply to women around 22+ of age and above. Sorry Its true that the same technique doesnt apply to this forum, and so another approach is needed to take her home. I just tried that technique to a couple of your hotties but when the mature and have deeper understanding to male libido, diffenses increase exponentially, so I forgot to say that there are age limits in this matters, apologies...And about guys being slapped, it all depends on the approach.Lets talk about that for some other time, really busy. shake hands. Please to meet you (use her name) Cool,so your from ....(type of uniform shes wearing)nice, anyway i dont want to disturb you or anything but can ask for your number, sorry, my friend really dared me this time, I need to eat crap(anything funny to eat) if I wouldnt complete this dare. So well bye and take care. Then walk out like your a kid (shy like.) If you show your soft side (depending on the lady) I would strongly suggest not to be a show-off. ho hum.... :sleepysmiley03: back when i was still 14....til now....still the same....iisnubbin pa rin kita :* Edited December 12, 2006 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
mizuno882004 Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 easier said than done. we often have the confidence if the lady shows sign of interest but when she's really hot and drop dead gorgeous, that's when our being torpe overpower us. in that case, i seek the help of a third party such as the waiter and offer them drinks. in my case, it works pretty well. Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 shake hands. Please to meet you (use her name) Cool,so your from ....(type of uniform shes wearing)nice, anyway i dont want to disturb you or anything but can ask for your number, sorry, my friend really dared me this time, I need to eat crap(anything funny to eat) if I wouldnt complete this dare. So well bye and take care. Then walk out like your a kid (shy like.) If you show your soft side (depending on the lady) I would strongly suggest not to be a show-off. ho hum.... :sleepysmiley03: back when i was still 14....til now....still the same....iisnubbin pa rin kita :* Really? Its funny how different people react,depending on the situation, most of the time, i dont need to talk,everything i say goes, why? because i use my eyes to say what i really feel,and i think i never ever got isnubb,why? killer smiles,the looks really is definitely a plus,plus hight,skin complexion....charisma so if iisnubin ka,ok ,theres many more out there.Chao Quote Link to comment
<< xtc >> Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 For me, it all begins with eye contact, then a smile ... a simple "Hi!" and all the rest just follows! Try it! tried this on an officemate that i really like, somehow it worked. well at least were on speaking terms right now, where it goes indi pa me sure ... c what happens Quote Link to comment
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