TipsyBoi Posted May 19, 2005 Share Posted May 19, 2005 "i need space" 1. he/she needs a new pad2. he/she wants to be an astronaut3. a crappy excuse to be free4. its like saying "hey we're too close! back off!"5. "ur violating my personal space"6. "i have a newlife... u should probly get urz!"7. he/she iz testing ur patience8. proving the point that they can live w/o u9. a sublte way of saying "i want out!"10. another way of saying "lets just be friends" feel free to add more interpretations... :-" Quote Link to comment
masteryoda116 Posted May 19, 2005 Share Posted May 19, 2005 Think of it this way... You cannot ask for something that does not exist!!! Space in a relationship..... does not exist! Think about it.... If you're in a relationship, you do not see congestion, lack of freedom, privacy, and all other things related to being "single".... SPACE DOES NOT EXIST.... in fact, anyone in a relationship should not notice that there's no SPACE!! -- careful now, she's checkin' out the environment for new prospects... otherwise, she would not have asked for the non-existent "space"... Quote Link to comment
CommSys Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 4 me pg ganun sinabi ko i need space, gus2 ko magreflect f this rel. ay may patutungohan pa...or f my other party, tym 2 choose kng sino... bt 4 me nun hiningi ko yun b4, wen i was taking d boards... mahirap kc yung madami distractions...dapat tlg concentr8 k lge.. Quote Link to comment
mrstein Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 In the pinas Culture is can mean many things ......... Maybe her family doenst approve of you 100%%%% Do you have a Futre that she really thinks will be something Are you hanging with the Boys a bit too much and not giving her enough time ????? Do you get grunk a lot and casue trouble to her ????? Are really being yourself around her and is it just an act and Now she is sensing it. In the USA When someone say"s they Need space ITS OVER No doubt about it. Time to move on and regroup........ Always remember You are what your last realtionship WAS ???????? Keep that in mind .... Mrstein Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 When your partner says they 'need space', it usually means they need to work out certain issues on their own. It may or may not involve you, as it could be personal in nature. This is temporary, so if you wish to be supportive, then it would be a good idea not to pry. However, if it lingers indefinitely, it's time for you two to discuss how it's affecting your relationship. At least, you've demonstrated respect for their needs this way. Quote Link to comment
thirteen Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 pffffffft. its just a polite way of saying "i'm tired of this relationship. leave me alone." malamang kasi, away kayo ng away, dehins na nya kaya yung stress! Quote Link to comment
Clinks Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 When he says I need space...it means that he is sorting something out that only he and he can solve. He si doing that for the both of you.... well in my case that is the reason....dunno the other guys.... Quote Link to comment
heartbreak18 Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 pffffffft. its just a polite way of saying "i'm tired of this relationship. leave me alone." malamang kasi, away kayo ng away, dehins na nya kaya yung stress!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i second the motion.. a nice way of saying im tired of this relationship. Quote Link to comment
lustfulbitch Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 "i need space" = subtle way of saying lets break up!!!! Quote Link to comment
masteryoda116 Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 "i need space" = subtle way of saying lets break up!!!!<{POST_SNAPBACK}>yes.... it usually is.... Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 I do agree that asking for space is another convenient way to end a relationship. It's one of the more commonly used 'break-up lines'. This is not exclusively used for that purpose, though rarely would we think this is so. Quote Link to comment
fuck3r_ni_charity Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 nsabi ko n yan sa asawa ko... it means ayaw ko n sau Quote Link to comment
fastandhard Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 maybe nasasakal na sya....... and need some time to forget her problems and revaluate ur situation... Quote Link to comment
probpt Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 Things are looking up, kinda...ganun pa din, she still calls me everyday, kwentuhan and stuff...yung nga lang di kami nagkikita...i dont ask her na rin when she'll be coming back, pero she's dropping hints na it'll be soon, real soon...i asked her if closed book na kami, sabi nya hindi daw...so i guess, i'll just wait and do my own thing for now, and hopefully maging kami nga ulit Quote Link to comment
TipsyBoi Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 now dude! thats wut u call torture! Quote Link to comment
olop Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 Things are looking up, kinda...ganun pa din, she still calls me everyday, kwentuhan and stuff...yung nga lang di kami nagkikita...i dont ask her na rin when she'll be coming back, pero she's dropping hints na it'll be soon, real soon...i asked her if closed book na kami, sabi nya hindi daw...so i guess, i'll just wait and do my own thing for now, and hopefully maging kami nga ulit <{POST_SNAPBACK}> TINDI MO PARE TINDI MO!!! Quote Link to comment
batibut Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 Things are looking up, kinda...ganun pa din, she still calls me everyday, kwentuhan and stuff...yung nga lang di kami nagkikita...i dont ask her na rin when she'll be coming back, pero she's dropping hints na it'll be soon, real soon...i asked her if closed book na kami, sabi nya hindi daw...so i guess, i'll just wait and do my own thing for now, and hopefully maging kami nga ulit <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I think if you guys do get back together she will really appreciate your understanding. Good luck. Quote Link to comment
Red`` Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 ganun ba yun space? but patang feel ko nakikipag flirt siya sa iba? tapos sabi niya lalake kasama pero hindi naman. anong klaseng space ba ang gusto niya? naguguluhan na kasi ako.. sabi niya it doesn't mean daw na we stop loving each other bakit parang feel ko hindi na niya ako kailangan... :cry: Quote Link to comment
evil Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 ganun ba yun space? but patang feel ko nakikipag flirt siya sa iba? tapos sabi niya lalake kasama pero hindi naman. anong klaseng space ba ang gusto niya? naguguluhan na kasi ako.. sabi niya it doesn't mean daw na we stop loving each other bakit parang feel ko hindi na niya ako kailangan... :cry:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> maybe it's just you and the message is as it is. try to let the river flow it's course then see what happens. Quote Link to comment
axel2288 Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 wala lang... kalokohan yan... time and space?? hiwalayan din ang pu2nthan Quote Link to comment
Tgr Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 Well it's definitely "hiwalayan" but the difference is there is an option to get back together if you both find out ne you really need each other. Too bad lang if one iof the partners get hooked on someone else. Quote Link to comment
wyette Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 Things are looking up, kinda...ganun pa din, she still calls me everyday, kwentuhan and stuff...yung nga lang di kami nagkikita...i dont ask her na rin when she'll be coming back, pero she's dropping hints na it'll be soon, real soon...i asked her if closed book na kami, sabi nya hindi daw...so i guess, i'll just wait and do my own thing for now, and hopefully maging kami nga ulit <{POST_SNAPBACK}> may kilala kong kagaya mo.. tsk tsk. nakakabilib. one time, no, two times na pala... i also said those words, "i need space"... i literally meant, "sorry, i am not growing in this relationship..can you please back off for a while." i am bad, i know. :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
darkAngel25 Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 isa lang ibig sabihin nun lumalayo na sya...dinadahan dahan nya kaso ganun din yun e masakit pa din ang dating...bakit di na lang nila sabihin kung ayaw nila o hindi Quote Link to comment
pErKy Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 she probably just wants time alone. i mean the fact that she still calls you, means that she still loves you, maybe she just wants a temporary break from your relationship. it maybe because you guys have problems or maybe she's nasasakal...give her the time and space she needs...if you let her be, im sure in a couple of days/weeks, cia na rin mismo ang babalik syo. Quote Link to comment
scott_summers Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 it means ayaw na nya sayo pero nahihiya lang syang sabihin Quote Link to comment
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