Why Sex Work Is Integral To Society

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

because there are so many loser guys who can never get laid for free

Not because a guy avails sex service is that he cannot get laid for free.

 

There are a lot of celebrities, models and handsome men availing sex service.

[Cidex]

i agree with this, fat nerdy rich guys

you'll be surprised if you just hangout in the lobby of these establishments. They are neither fat, nerdy nor rich. Specially before pandemic.

[FF]

having spent much time with mp theras and psp's I'd like to share this :

 

 

1) Many of them have resorted to this to earn money for their families. Very few of them have finished college so cannot find jobs that pay more than the minimum wage ( if they can find jobs ).

2) Many of their families don't know their real jobs though i would think their families aren't interested or would rather not ask where the money comes from.

 

So in a third world country like ours , sex work becomes an avenue out of hardship and poverty.

 

That is why I treat most girls with understanding and respect. Mahirap ang trabaho nila . And for a great majority ginagawa nila ito para makatulong sa pamilya.

 

Here are some unforgettable quotes form girls I've talked to :

 

1) Dati akong nasa SM. Pero sa buong araw na nakatayo sa katapusan napakaliit ng sweldong iuuwi. D kasya pag nakaasa sayo na pag aralin ang apat kong kapatid at suportahan ang gastos pambahay.

 

2) Hirap sa trabahong ito d ka makapili ng guest mo. May lasing , may mayabang , may sobrang taba , may bad breath , may buraot pa na ayaw magbayad. Pero kailangan magiliw ka pa rin lagi .

 

3) Kalaunan .. apat lang ang klase ng guest mo ...ung mabait at hindi , yung may pera at wala . Swerte ka pag mabait at may pera . Ung hindi mabait at walang pera ( tumatawad pa at daming hinihinging extra ) meron talaga hindi maiiwasan.

 

4) Kung hindi ka magaling sa trabahong ito at makapal ang sikmura d ka tatagal. Kahit may mga suki ka may araw na wala kang guest . Ang laking lugi mo dahil sa taksi , make up pa lang kulang na ang 700 to 1000 isang araw.

 

5) Kahit masama ang pakiramdam mo kailangang pumasok kasi may penalty pag absent .

 

6) Sa 1500 na entrance fee f( for example ) fifty to 100 pesos lang ang sa babae. kaya sa extra service lang talaga ang kita.

 

IMHO , sex work in this country should be legalized and regulated to help these girls and to end the shakedowns and corruption.

[FF]

 

yeah, but they're sleazy, creepy, and old

easy there grasshopper. Ask yourself

 

1) How often have you visited these places ? How many times have you actually gone and availed of the services ? Did you personally get to meet and talk to the guests ? How many ?

 

Most of the regular guys I've met at kremlin or wilder or starfleet run a wide range of personalities. Sleazy and creepy ? NOt . Old .. not all. may mature may middle aged meron ding mid to late twenties. Most of them are pretty cool and successful to boot.

 

2) speaking with so much derision towards losers , old and sleazy and creepy men ...how would YOU describe yourself ? What makes you better than them ?

Edited March 11, 2021 by FF

[Vixen.Akira]

Agree

[christy]

easy there grasshopper. Ask yourself

 

1) How often have you visited these places ? How many times have you actually gone and availed of the services ? Did you personally get to meet and talk to the guests ? How many ?

 

Most of the regular guys I've met at kremlin or wilder or starfleet run a wide range of personalities. Sleazy and creepy ? NOt . Old .. not all. may mature may middle aged meron ding mid to late twenties. Most of them are pretty cool and successful to boot.

 

2) speaking with so much derision towards losers , old and sleazy and creepy men ...how would YOU describe yourself ? What makes you better than them ?

Dearie .. this is the perfect example of a man vs a boy. Waiting for boy's reply. But if I were the boy ...I would shut up and just listen and learn.

[christy]

Sorry I'm not ! There I answered your ( insult ) pretending to be a question.

 

Now let me ask you . Are you a coward ? A bully ?

 

Instead on picking on little old me why not just answer FF's question ? Surely you have a bigger beef with him not me ? if you have the time and energy to insult me I'm sure you have the time ( and hopefully the brainpower) to come up with an answer to HIS question. Or is it too difficult to think of and compose a credible , sensible answer to an honest question ?

 

Never mind me ha ? I am soooooooo looking forward to your reply to HIM.

 

And so it won't be off topic ... maybe you can also contribute meaningfully to the discussion by answering the question "Should sex work be integral to society ? " At least FF contributed a long post that explains his take on why its happening in our society.

 

On the other hand all you contributed to this thread ( 2 x ha ) were snide insulting remarks to "losers" and "sleazy old creepy men " .

 

C'mon Ed Atwan. Show us you're better than that ! :) :) :)

 

PS : The correct spelling is tongue ...not tounge . Next time you deliver an insult , please make sure naman it's correctly spelled.

Edited March 16, 2021 by christy

[PreventerWind]

Ohhhhh looks like someone got burned hahahaha

[PreventerWind]

I see the mostly male POV about paying for sex or the need for side dishes.

 

I sometimes wonder if it's okay if the womenfolk do it (pay for sex), or if the male half of a relationship will look the other way if the woman spends money for sex. The reasons she will use will be similar to what the men tapped. I say so because plenty of women choose to look the other way even if they know that their spouses have side dishes.

 

Most of the establishments cater to men. There are a few that cater to women.

 

What's your take on the gender flipside, gentlemen?

Para sa akin lang ha, if we push this ideology eh dapat it should be fair play on both sides.

 

The thing is, dito sa Pilipinas, we are still living in the notion na pag lalaki yung nag cater ng sex, eh it's viewed as normal whereas kapag babae = immoral. That's why maraming sex establishments cater to men as compared to those who cater to women.

 

If sex is indeed integral to society, then it should be for all gender.

[christy]

 

what whore-house do you work in? if you're lucky, i might just get your services

thank you for the consistency Ed. and for confirming and showing your true character . I leave this here for all readers and the MTC community to read , appreciate and see what kind of man (boy ? brat ? thug ? all of the above ? ) you are.

 

A bit of friendly advice ? You may want to consider consulting a therapist ( the medical kind not the spa kind ).

 

PS Dearie ... whorehouse is ONE word. No need for the hyphen. please be more careful next time ha ?

 

PPS for those who may want something better to read than Ed's crude insults ( wala man lang wit !) ... you may find this inquirer article on sex work in the pandemic enlightening

 

https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/1387176/of-victims-and-saviors-sex-work-amid-the-pandemic

Edited March 17, 2021 by christy

[robred]

thank you for the consistency Ed. and for confirming and showing your true character . I leave this here for all readers and the MTC community to read , appreciate and see what kind of man (boy ? brat ? thug ? all of the above ? ) you are.

 

A bit of friendly advice ? You may want to consider consulting a therapist ( the medical kind not the spa kind ).

 

PS Dearie ... whorehouse is ONE word. No need for the hyphen. please be more careful next time ha ?

 

PPS for those who may want something better to read than Ed's crude insults ( wala man lang wit !) ... you may find this inquirer article on sex work in the pandemic enlightening

 

https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/1387176/of-victims-and-saviors-sex-work-amid-the-pandemic

 

Guy should google the meaning of "sexually monogamous"

[FF]

 

i'll pay you 300 pesos for your services. that's all you're worth

 

PM me. Let's walk

grasshopper ... thank you for your unending efforts to show off your kanto boy character We know this already so no need to convince us further.

 

Now stop picking on the lady because I think I was the one that got your hackles up in the first place. Tanong ko lang. Lalake ka ba ? if so why don't you just MAN UP and answer MY question ...

Edited March 18, 2021 by FF

[kazuki_kazama]

at this day and age I would say its integral. we have witnessed people looking for intimacy in inanimate objects such as cartoon and sex dolls. having the industry available, provides that escape and solace for such people. Iba pa din talaga ang intimacy with a live person. just my two cents.

[FF]

prostitution and sex work remains profitable as long as it is unregulated. but sad to say it is not the girls who most benefit but the owners and their coddlers in government.

 

from a harvard study :

 

legalizing prostitution has had positive benefits for sex workers across Europe. The most well-known country to have legalized prostitution is the Netherlands, where sex work has been legal for almost twenty years. Bringing the industry out of the black market and imposing strict regulations has improved the safety of sex workers. Brothels are required to obtain and renew safety and hygiene licenses in order to operate, and street prostitution is legal and heavily regulated in places like the Red Light District. Not only does sex work become safer when it is regulated, but legalization also works to weed out the black market that exists for prostitution, thereby making women safer overall. Also, sex workers are not branded as criminals, so they have better access to the legal system and are encouraged to report behaviors that are a danger to themselves and other women in the industry. Finally, legalizing sex work will provide many other positive externalities, including tax revenue, reduction in sexually transmitted diseases, and reallocation of law enforcement resources....

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

because there are so many loser guys who can never get laid for free

 

i agree with this, fat nerdy rich guys

yeah, but they're sleazy, creepy, and old

 

are you a sex worker? how much do you charge for a rim job? i want your tounge inside my ass

 

what whore-house do you work in? if you're lucky, i might just get your services

 

shut the f*ck up, you old coot. i bet you're old enough to be the grandfather of the hookers you get. you sick motherf*cker

 

This is so funny! Congratulations! We have mother f**ker who seems to be immaculately clean. He who have the guts to insult other men who patronize sex service and the sex workers seems to be really good looking that he spite on those people.

 

A round of applause shall we?

 

May we know why the f#&k are you here in an adult forum sharing your idea of Why is Sex Service Integral in the society if you ain't doing the s@%t?

 

Unfortunately this isn't the spot for what do we call it... KUPAL because if you're one, there are others who can do a better job. Not a lame attempt of insulting someone who doesn't even work as sex worker but calling her one coz you got no loads in your brain to fire anymore.

 

Rim job on you? Seems like you like having the kink there. Surely it seems you prefer men doing it on you instead of women that's why you insult them.

 

Like I said.... I've seen a lot of models and actors who are oozing with sex appeal, super handsome, yummy and rich roaming around in these kind of establishment (Many visits mine even if it doesn't cater sex service) but still it is far from how you describe and label all the men coming to those establishments.

 

I suggest you quit being a dim wit or I'll have you kicked out of this forum site for utterly being an assh*le you are. Pathetic narrow minded loser. Get that ass of yours elsewhere if you can't respect other people. I'm sure something will fit that stinky hole better.