Moving On

[BoredPanda]

Read a lot of articles online and what really worked is to write a letter to her about what I’m feeling, I don’t send them though. Got me to realize that I am sorry for hurting her, finally identified the reasons why I loved her, and the reasons our relationship had to end. 

[socratesaristotle]

As sir @KID FIGHTERsaid, " love yourself more than you love anyone else".

No point in prolonging the agony. It's easy to compartmentalize the hurt and never think about it.

Something only hurts you if you let it. You need not fear/feel the pain. Your brain will adapt and that will be the start of a new you. Sadness is an emotion like anger, you just need to control it. 

Maybe I make it sound simple but if you try it will become easy.

[FF]

47 minutes ago, socratesaristotle said:

As sir @KID FIGHTERsaid, " love yourself more than you love anyone else".

No point in prolonging the agony. It's easy to compartmentalize the hurt and never think about it.

Something only hurts you if you let it. You need not fear/feel the pain. Your brain will adapt and that will be the start of a new you. Sadness is an emotion like anger, you just need to control it. 

Maybe I make it sound simple but if you try it will become easy.

Spoken with a bared chest. Salamat sa honesty comrade . Such candor. And if I may say a brave act of self admission too.

Shouldn't we all be moving on to better things ? "No point in prolonging the agony" . Your brain will adapt and that will be the start of a new you. Sadness is an emotion like anger, you just need to control it. Maybe I make it sound simple but if you try it will become easy.

Truly well said . Those words should be echoing in the mental chambers of your mind. Bouncing back and forth until by some faint chance it will stick and HOLD TRUE.

We all know it's hard to move on from things that we love but if it has shunned you and  doesn't love you back ...move on talaga.

Lets stop being delusional . Lets not hope of winning back all that was  lost. Lets not force ourselves on people who wont ever love us because of what happened in the past. But before we move on ... let's admit our mistakes and apologize to the ones we have hurt. At least that . AT LEAST THAT.

And comrade ... in so doing hopefully be at peace with yourself. The peace we ALL deserve .

Edited May 2, 2022 by FF

[joe070]

Well said bro

[kano_d_great]

For months, i couldn't sleep well, my mind unable to process things correctly when my cousin passed.

I only started moving on when i saw her tombstone.

😭

Edited May 13, 2022 by kano_d_great

[Justeen421]

I do need some sort of closure to move on...anything.

[handsomebob]

always have the notion that it was never meant to be....

bye  _ _ !!

[courtesanhunter]

mahirap dyan kapag kinailangan mo na paulit ulit na lang na mag move on. nandun yung pakiramdam na ang malas malas mo at tsaka yung takot na baka maulit lang ulit yung hindi magandang karanasan sa hinaharap.

[cutiechavez]

1 hour ago, courtesanhunter said:

mahirap dyan kapag kinailangan mo na paulit ulit na lang na mag move on. nandun yung pakiramdam na ang malas malas mo at tsaka yung takot na baka maulit lang ulit yung hindi magandang karanasan sa hinaharap.

felt this, parang masasabi mo, bakit yung iba parang napaka swerte sa lovelofe

[PurpleTalong]

for its all Acceptance.. 

[lokulots]

Dati di-nelete ko lahat ng tagged photos ko with my ex. This helped me move on namn. Also letting out your cry helps.

[NightWriter]

I wasn’t able to move on because his current girlfriend is bugging the sht outta me. 
 

Before he passed away, his girlfriend at that time was a lawsuit waiting to happen. My patience prevailed, we have a child together and the funny thing, she couldn’t stand it! 

The girlfriend was a lot older than me and she came from old money. The same fcking people of the oligarchs of prima universities of the land. LOL. Okay UP diliman.  I said it.

ANYWAY, now why would a guy go after a much older woman with money? She was never married before, she never had children, she never wanted children at all. She got this sob story for being abused as a child. I’m not slandering people who had gone through some tough times but she can’t just use that as a double edge sword of not being accountable of things. 

She completely obliterated my name to  my peers and other potential clients ( I was writing copies in Manila), she wrote to my mother ( whom i havent seen for decades) and pretty much sabotage my professional life.

She even mocked me to sue her too. I know, its wild! She said, I quote, and shit you not, she said ‘

Magkakalaman kung sino mas mayaman sa isa

And the sad part, she’s in conflict with herself and her mental health too. Menopause must be hard for her, I suppose. But you can’t just keep away a father from his daughter and micromanaging his affairs especially child support. 

I’ve moved on from the cranky hag and my X. He gave up on her too and she gone ape shit crazy. Trashed his home , trashed everything in between. Trashed his life. 
 

The one word I said that made her gone on a rampage is i called her UGLY. 
 

She thought it was the physical aspect, which isnt her fault, she looked like the abortion forceps was crushed on her face while gettinh pulled out of her mom’s uterus. 
 

An Ugly face and an ugly heart.

 

Edited June 20, 2022 by NightWriter

[Ice Lover]

Throw away the what ifs, illusions dont turn to reality.

[Cestut]

If it's for you, it will find you.

[WayneTruce]

self love, self care. fake it till you make it. cry if you must but continue to move on. maubos din ang luha and mapapagod din tayo kakaiyak. now let the healing start.