Seeing how everyone is sharing, I'll jump in on the act. Been out of action for more than a few months. I frequent a few KTVs, HB, BL and Mousai and found a gem in one of the KTVs there, and she has become my go-to lady. We meet outside and have a good time (she does not ask for money but I still insist on giving her some because I don't want it to evolve into a deep relationship?).
As luck would have it, around the same time, I also met a lady from one of the nuru providers, who I met once but stayed in constant communication with, flirting, exchanging messages. Fast forward a few weeks and she is also a constant source of dates, like the KTV lady. Neither of these ladies is pressuring me into anything and they are both just content to spend time with me. There have been musings from both, of being content with me and moving to a new line of work to escape their current reality.
I've been through this before and really do not want to commit. As I get older, I do ponder if things will ever change and if I would ever leave this 'hobby'. I don't want to end up like a dirty old man, chasing skirts into my 50s or 60s.